What do you do when your spouse hurts your feeling?

@ladym33 (10978)
United States
December 26, 2009 9:10am CST
How do you handle it when your spouse or significant other hurts your feelings. Do you yell, pout, leave the house for a while, or just let it pass over you or react some other way?
4 responses
• China
26 Dec 09
Frankly speaking, I think it depends on how serious the thing is,but I lose my temper very easily,so if my husband hurts my feeing I will yell,pout,even going crazy no matter the thing is big or small,but soon I will cry my eyes out then calm down and comfort myself think that it doesn't matter if the worst comes to the worst,I will part with him, and become soft and mild.
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@ladym33 (10978)
• United States
27 Dec 09
I can understand that, but sometimes people do say things that don't really mean or it comes out harsher then they meant it to. My husband says stupid things to me all the time and then doesn't understand why I am mad.
• United States
26 Dec 09
I let them know, sometimes we forget about other peoples feelings and make ours known. I don't hold grudges though, that's the worst thing you can do because then the relationship becomes conditional and that's not what its supposed to be about. You should let them know so they are aware, even guys can remember that one.
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@ladym33 (10978)
• United States
27 Dec 09
That is how I am if someone upsets me I can't hold it in.
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
28 Dec 09
It is very rare that that ever happens but if and when it does I sit down and I talk to him about it. He usually is sorry and was not even aware he hurt my feelings. He may have just expressed himself in a way that I misunderstood or he did not express what he really meant when what he said was did not have the same meaning
@suzzy3 (8341)
27 Dec 09
I tend to tell him straight ,don't say things like that,you have hurt my feelings and unless he wants me banging around and stop cooking his dinner he says sorry quick and means it.It he is very tired I tend to let it go over my head ,but bring it up at a later date.We often have a laugh about things,but I don't take any nonsence.