What do you miss most being a Single?

India
December 27, 2009 2:51pm CST
I dont know why i asked this. But i want to know.
7 responses
@manasij (21)
• India
28 Dec 09
Its just depressing: I miss someone to confide into. I miss the reassurances. I miss sharing (everything). I miss the support. I miss the shoulder to lean into.
• India
30 Dec 09
:)
• India
30 Dec 09
very nice comment indeed...if we r single we do miss shoulder to lean on
27 Dec 09
nothing to miss but if i had to pick something i guess i would say its the freedom to meet people without the partner compatibility issue which i can still have just not the ease of only considering one self and i guess the excitement of the anticipation of meeting that special some one how about you you never said is that because you are single because if you are on the fence i can tell you really nothing to miss the right person can make all the difference did not believe it myself but now i have a special partner in my wife and her and the kids are my life i miss nothing
• India
28 Dec 09
Thanks a lot for your response. I got a very calculated and analytical answer from you.
• United States
2 Jan 10
i really agree bout the freedom part cause some time after your with some one they might not always like the new person you have met and things which some times cause a prob between the couple ya know
• India
26 Jan 10
being single till now feels to be great sometimes when i get a call from my friend asking me for company to drink because he had a fight with his wife or when i get calls from friends that she need to talk with me because she has a bitter experience with her mother in law or her husband., all i miss when im single is care, love, affection, fights, mainly possessiveness, jealousy, doubts, ownership and few more..
• United States
28 Dec 09
I think this is a perfectly good question to ask, especially at this time of the year. With the new year approaching the Western world in days and for over a billion Chinese just a around the corner, it is a time for reflection and looking to the future. There are many things that you take for granted when you are in a relationship, but I would have to say the single most thing that I miss now that I am single again, is the one thing that I took for granted the most. Having someone to love, that is what I miss the most. Which in turn the greatest gift one can receive is to have that love returned.
• India
28 Dec 09
Thanks UpDownandAllAround for your such a good response.
• India
28 Dec 09
A lot of things. It is unexplainable. . . But the first thing is nobody is there when you are alone or want to share something.
@kumogami (13)
• United States
28 Dec 09
First, I really miss having someone there for me who loved me unconditionally. Feeling like no matter how the day went, or what happened, they would still accept me. I also really miss being able to talk about anything with someone.
• India
28 Dec 09
Hi priya, U r not going to miss anything physically when u r being single, But when it comes to personal feeling u miss a lot like u miss love shown by a person to you alone and the comfortness from the person who love or live with you. mainly the care even you stay along with ur family they have their own commitments and they forget to respond you at any point of time. But the person you live with will aways care for you even he has commitment.