money can't buy love?

@ifa225 (14364)
Indonesia
December 29, 2009 7:04am CST
nowadays, money is the center of the everything. All the things we need can buy with money. How about love? can you buy one with your money? I am a material girl, so i believe money can buy love too. what do you think?
11 responses
@pillow08 (97)
• Philippines
29 Dec 09
Hi! You know sometimes, it is easy to mistake the feeling of fondness for love. Like for example, when a guy showers you with the most expensive gifts, it is inevitable that you'd feel cherished and appreciated, so you'd be very fond of him. Love is when you take away all those beautiful things and you would still want to stay with him. You may and may not learn to love the person. Anyway, when you spend a lot of time with someone, friendship develops and love flourishes.
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
1 Jan 10
hi pillow08 that is a very nice thought...maybe i will considered it when i get fall in to a love..
• Philippines
1 Jan 10
Best of wishes to you. I do pray you make the right decision when the time comes. What really matters is you are happy and content. Thank you, Ifa!
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
1 Jan 10
no my friend. no matter how much money there is,it still cannot buy love. such relationshipsnormally suffer as the money dries up.
29 Dec 09
I don't think money can ever buy you love. It can buy you someone who is after money but not love - love comes out of liking someone not just because they have money.
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
1 Jan 10
Hello Ford6666UK, most of us fell in love at the first sight because physical attraction, am i right? We can only have a nice physic if we maintain our body. and i guess that would be need some cash to maintain it. but thank you for your thoughts.
7 Jan 10
Sometimes love comes out of personality and not just looks, as the quote suggests "Looks aren't everything". Money can buy you a shallow person but not necessarily someone who genuinely loves you.
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
3 Jul 10
it is hard to find genuine love in this material world right now
@eddify (412)
• Pakistan
12 Jan 10
Yes it does . and I have seen many young males getting married with old ladies. One of the guys that I knew even put it up on his facebook , it really makes people like me hate it but its a truth
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
3 Jul 10
it is feel awful but i know that is the truth out there
• Philippines
30 Dec 09
If you are a material girl, then money can make you love the person providing you with money... There are many such girls who love their "sugar daddy". But a financially stable girl may not love the person just for money... Love is better paid by love.
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
1 Jan 10
i guess that what i meant, thank you rosahito351..
@Rumki9 (6)
• India
31 Dec 09
Hiii Ifa225..... friend I think U dont know what is true love!! If you know the exact deffination of true love you never say again that money can buy love... Yes money is everything to achieve our needs bt not exactly tha love. if You want to give someone something special gifts you need money bt dear love is only a special gift for anyone which can u give someone bt not to buy for someone.by paying money u can get a man who satishfy u as ur like bt u can't buy love or his/her respect,love by paying money... parents-daughter relationsp is a perfect defination of love now u think that is it depends on money??? is ur parents love you because of money or u love them just for money?? u can ever buy for u parents love by paying mone?? I'm a realistic girl in my personal life,ones a time I'v a bf who being with me for money bt now he is not with me because I leave him I personaly feel it that money can give me anything bt not love and respect exactly, If u buy love with money its not love its a drama and a trap to make u fool... so dear I think we can never buy love with money and I believe it!!
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
1 Jan 10
whoaa....you drop a question so much for me, but thank you. I try to answer them then. my parents more love to the kids who bring present more for them. Maybe that makes me like a such a material girl. I can melt their heart by giving them some present and money. maybe it is sounds cruel...but that is my reality....hiks...
30 Dec 09
Material or not unfortunately love is something we can only give cant be sold or bought rented maybe but not for sale what you are saying is that you and your feelings are for sale
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
1 Jan 10
Lol....i guess i have to open love's store..^_^
@sonusd (1547)
• India
29 Dec 09
money never can buy love,because love is not a tangible things it is just emotion and feeling.You can buy only physical products . Love can not bought by money and also love can not get by force also to get love we have to give love it can be exchanged for caring,emotion and affection
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
1 Jan 10
hellosonusd, when someone i love in celebrating a birthday, sometimes i wanna a perfect present to show my caring and affection, that is when i need money to buy some affection...
• India
30 Dec 09
money can't buy love, feeling affection as well...no matter how rich you are with money but i think you are the most poor person on earth if you don't have love in your life
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
1 Jan 10
I hope i am not the one that poor you mentioned..uh-huh...thank you for your thoughts shivamkapila.
• United States
30 Dec 09
I don't think that money can buy love. Love isn't something that you can put a value on because it's priceless. Even though money is pretty important, it isn't everything. I think at most, money can have a person attracted to the owner, but not really love. The level of attraction for the owner could vary too, but for the most part, I don't think money can buy real love. Maybe it can seem like you can buy love from another person, but I call that fake love. It's not from deep down inside and it's not for the person. It's for the money.
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
1 Jan 10
So it is a fake love if it is based on money, huh? i guess you are right.
@maria1081 (1251)
• Philippines
29 Dec 09
Money can't buy love nor real happiness. Maybe you can be happy temporarily but not permanent and lasting. I had a marriage proposal before and I know he can give me material things and security if I wanted to. I refused an instant marriage and I gave him two years to wait for me but he wasn't able to fulfill my conditions so I gave him up. I never regret letting him go despite the fact that he can give me a good life and security since I haven't prove how much his willing to wait for me.
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
1 Jan 10
hello maria1081, i hope you make a right decision, happy ever after..
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
29 Dec 09
do not ever make that mistake. you cannot buy respect or loyalty, so buying love, i don't think so. This is the biggest mistake people make. i hope this is not going to offend you, but the only way that money can buy love, is when you are a nightworker, if you know what i mean. do not be fooled by a big bank account. that is not love.
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
1 Jan 10
Hello saphrina, big bank account maybe can seduce me to fell in love...^_^