When do you say it's over..

@magara (31)
Philippines
January 4, 2010 9:51am CST
When does love ends?.. Does it end when both of you decides to move on? Can you say it's over when he/she is seeing someone else when you are being loyal to him/her? Your love for that person does not end when you both decided to walk your separate paths. Your love will not be over when he/she cheated on you. Love does not end when things are not working the way you planned it or the way you wished things to happen.You simply can't find the love in your heart because your hatred builds up. How about you, Do you know when it is finally over? or you are just pretending it's over?
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@galileo2008 (1141)
• Philippines
4 Jan 10
I think love ends when you feel nothing towards that person anymore. Love ends when you learn to forgive and forget. I could say it's finally over when I accidentally bumped into him with his girl. I was not jealous, in fact I was happy to see them together. I finally said to myself that it's finally over.
@magara (31)
• Philippines
4 Jan 10
I agree to that! You can never say it is over when you can't face the fact that he is with someone else.
• Philippines
10 Jun 11
love ends when both of u or either one of you falls out of love.
• Philippines
19 Mar 10
Love ends when the one you love becomes unfaithful. In my case my ex-boyfriend get a girl pregnant. But when i confronted him, he denied it. That's when i decided to break up with him. For both of us its over, but i know that deep inside me its not over. I still love him though i have to move on. And start a new life without him. It's been three years already and though i still think of him at times. But i know its really over between us.
@mhaibless (210)
• United States
19 Mar 10
I think for me, if you feel you are hurting yourself very much then it's time to let go. Don't try to hold on things if you think its not working anymore. Sometimes, too much love can cause us pain but we should know how to learn to end up and to fight for it.
@mhaibless (210)
• United States
26 Apr 11
During that hard part of life when hurtful experiences bring struggle to our life. Remember that each one of us have a choice.. We can either keep choosing to be self centered or choose to surrender ourselves to the love which we have committed. Love is a verb--an action word that is more than emotion. If you feel that you are hurting so then maybe you can let go.