What's the best way to deal with insecurities?

U are right, everybody do face some kind of insecurities out there, be it for whatever matters.. ANd all those insecurities are really in the mind.. IF we think, we can, there's nothing to be scared about.. haha =D And if i'm faced with insecurities, i will try to face up with it, bravely, and never run away from it!! Only thru facing it heads on, then we will overcome it, forever, and be a stronger man!! haha =D

This is going to sound trite, but the best way to deal with insecureties is just to get over them. You can't live a life that is aboult dwelling on fear. Insecurity the fear that you are not good enough at something. You should faith in yourself and choose to be confident.

Best way to deal with insecurities is through support, from friends or family. The person can try to ignore the cause of these insecurities but that is easier said than done, so with the help or support groups, any kind of insecurity will be a lot easier to bear and deal with. Ultimately, the person will just not mind such causes of insecurities because of the positive distraction of friends and family, thus resulting to eliminating having such insecurities in the first place. Its just better to focus more on the positive side of everything and of oneself as a way to deal with these kinds of things. As for me, I just let go. I let go of everything. I didnt care what other people think of what I wear, what I look like, and what I like. I ignored reprimands of wearing certain type of clothes, or trying to be more like a girl. I didnt care about the things that other people have that I dont. If they have it good for them, and I dont, thats okay with me. I guess I just became content with what I have. As long as what I do, think, and have wouldnt harm anyone in anyway, Ill live my life the way I would like to live it. I just became me.

Hi Neelian, I think every body has some insecurity in life some point of time. Well, as it is a sense of feeling worthless, where you condemn yourself so badly and find it hard to accept when good comes your way. There are a number of things that help us feel confident, even when we find ourselves in new situations that stretch us out of our normal mode of living. Feeling connected to a Higher Power, having a sense that we are able to deal with adversity, feeling safe, and knowing that everything we need is at hand are all elements of confidence. Most of us tend to run the opposite direction or use a strategy that allows us to avoid the situation or issue. We all have self-protective conditioning that helps us stay in denial or avoidance. Insecurity is also the sister of jealousy. The best way to deal with it is simple. The security of knowing ourselves as perfect gives us the opportunity to feel secure in our responses to life. Important is to trust oneself and lead clean lives, then it’s easy to allow others to be who they are without fear of you embarrassing them. And life is full of little misunderstandings, coincidences, accidents, and innocent mistakes. But, an insecure individual will tie all of these daily events together in the worst possible way.

There can be something positive to be gained for everything. Even those things that we feel insecure about. Think of our insecurities as something we have to improve on. I do all of the time. I think of how I can improve on what I am insecure about. Also, I think of what's going right as well. I find that helps me deal with my problems. I have some days where I wish everything would go away but I deal with it and I may learn something.

The best way to fight your insecurities is self belief and hard work! No matter how good you are in your specialized field if you don't believe in yourself no one is going to believe what you say or do. Hard work is the most important ingredient in your self confidence,if you work hard then only you will get the amount of confidence that you need to pull it off! Things becomes easier if you love the work you are doing,you have to believe in what you are saying then only others will believe it!

I think alot of us deal with this issue on a daily basis. I think we must stay active in our own life and do the things that we enjoy the most that makes our life fulfilled and makes us happy. That is how we overcome our insecurities. We have to put one foot forward every day.

I only insecured the way I look physically. I am chubby and when I am with someone very thin or sexy I had a feeling I look like a ball, so I moved away. I am petite also so when someone is so tall I look down instead of looking up. Sometimes I do understand the people are different, there are purpose why there are small, thin, fat and tall. No matter how people would look like they are still human being. I am dealing with insecurities everytime I mingle with different people, but what i tell to my mind is eventhough I am not pretty , not sexy and not tall, I have a kind heart. I am responsible, I love my family, I am strong, sometimes smart, I am helpful and usefull, I think I am cute, I have many friends. I just tell it to myself to make me feel okay. Insecurity is just a product of mind, even though you are not what you think you are, you still have purpose why you are here, no matter how fat you are, small you are.

hmm, i can't think of anything that makes me feel insecure. i guess i'm full of myself in a way. i cannot understand why would one feel insecure? my mantra is 'accept it or change it'. if i can change it, i'll do whatever it takes. if i can't change it, i'll just accept it as it is. insecure people tend to give too much credit to others. who is this 'others' that we should care so much about? where is this 'others' when we are down and having panic attacks? since i don't care about what 'others' think, i don't feel insecure in any way.

Hey neelian! I think that you have to try to get over your insecurities the best way you know how! You sometimes have to try to hide them or ignore them in order to survive! I know that sometimes it isn't easy, but it has to be done! Sometimes if you show your true hand you are showing too much volnorability and then people can see too much inside you! You never want anyone too see too much of you! You never want anyone to see the parts of you that are the weakest! So, if you want to really stay strong and deal with your "softer side", try to keep as much of it to yourself as you can and always stay one step ahead of everyone else, if you can!

i think that i should keep cool and find a good way to deal with it.actually i meet this problem and make feel fear for it.i dont know how to do in my mind.because i am woman who face a man's threat and speak that he would do anything if i could not do what he want.it make me fear,so i keep cool and negociate with him and hope that i can find a good way to deal with it.finally i would be willing to give some money to this bad man to deal with it.sometimes we could met this insecurities,we should keep cool to face this and make us safety.

learn to forget then continue to move forward. insecurities are part of life if you could not beat it them then just let it pass and start every day with a smile, just think positive and everything would be alright.

Hello Neelienoscet, My insecurities is financial money woes. My ex cannot pay because he did soemthing wrong at previuos job and got fired and cannot collect unemployment because of what he did. I worry my youngest daughter age 17 will not get into college. I already have older daughter in college. The loans or plus loans you need a co-signer and my credit is shot because of lack of money and car loan for oldest daughter and bills not being paid on time. I am doing better on getting bills paid so hard and be so very disipline to stay on track. My other worries of not ever have a special partner in my life...minor to my money problems. Thanks and Have a Great day Sincerely Unique16

Dear friend, Everyone of us has some feeling of insecurity or the other at a given time. Nobody in this world feels himself or herself like being fully secured. Some have insecurity of one type or some of other type. But the best thing to deal with these insecurities is to go in for the prayers to God. Think that God is always with you. He protects you always. He is Omni-potent, Omni-present. He takes care of us all. Take His shelter and you will yourself realize from your inner spirits that your insecurities have gone away.

I deal with my insecurities thru my faith in God. I use what the word says. It says in 2 Tim.1:7 That God does not give us a spirit of fear, but of love, power and a sound mind. It also says in Psalms 139:14 We are fearfully and wonderfully made, and marvelous is God's work (us). This is what gives me confidence. Have a great day.

giving yourself honest compliments when you do something well?

The best ways is to face them and accept it as part of reality. To feel insecure to something is only normal it becomes dangerous when too much focus is given that it damage and result in lack of confidence.

hello, insecurities maybe part of our life, and yes i do feel insecurities sometimes, what i do is take that insecure feeling and turn it to motivating feeling, its kind of hard at first but its very effective, like when i see a new car model, ok i tell myself i have to work harder to be able to afford a new car, and sometimes i say he/she may have a big big house, lots of cars and plenty of money, but then they dont enjoy life coz they always work 24hr a day. Accepting the facts and turning those facts into visions is how i deal with life insecurities.

I think the best way to deal with insecurities is to have a good support system- friends and family that will be there for you no matter what. It can be really hard to deal with being self concious, its not something you can just "get over" easily, and having people to support you when you feel down is very good for you.

You have to accept who you really are even the ugliest part of you not just the pretty fact. then, all your insecurities would be gone. you just need to trust yourself and your own belief you could do even better than other have already accomplish.