having a coil fitted

@doormouse (4599)
January 13, 2010 2:32pm CST
my doctor has advised me to have a coil fitted,because i smoke and with the contraceptive pill i'm taking when you get to 30+ years they like you to use a different type of contraception,due to side effects and because i've taken it continuously for years,but because of my depression i can't handle having a period,so i needed something that would stop them completely,he suggested a coil,which i thought was ok,until i spoke to a friend of mine who said that you can still have periods and you can feel the coil inside you,her mum had one fitted a few years ago,and sometimes her periods last 3 weeks,,i couldn't handle that,,all i've heard is bad things about the coil,do you think i should get one or have the injection,which was the second option
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6 responses
• Philippines
2 Feb 10
Hi doormouse, i hope i could still help you. The coil or the IUD (Intrauterine Device) is a good contraceptive and usually lasts longer than the pill. I our country we have this type that lasts for 12 years but this wont stop your menstruation. You can still have your menses regularly and it can become heavier. That is why we don't advise that to women with heavy bleeding. Its not true that you could feel the coil inside because it is inserted in the uterus. What you can experience is a slight dysmenorrhea 2 to 3 days after insertion but it will be gone once the uterus has adjusted to the thing inside her. If you don't want to have your menses, the injectable is more appropriate. This is injected every three months or every twelve weeks to be exact. Injectables contain progestin or progesterone which inhibits ovulation. You may experience spotting during the first 3 to 4 injections but your menstruation will stop eventually while in this contraceptive. You don't have to worry because once you stopped having this injection your menstruation will return but will be delayed for few months.
@doormouse (4599)
2 Feb 10
my gp still insists that the coil is best for me,and he also said there is a very slim chance of bleeding,i'm not convinced though,i'll just have to wait and see,if i don't like it,i'll have it taken out
• Philippines
4 Feb 10
Well, if that is your decision then go, but i would just say that in birth control the rule of informed decision must be followed. Meaning, the provider should explain first to the client everything about the range of methods the client may choose from based on her need. Then it is the client who will decide what method she wants. Side effects should also be made known to the client so that she will not be afraid or worried when she experienced such. Anyway, the coil can be removed anytime you are not comfortable with it. I also suggest consulting a doctor who specializes on depression for more appropriate treatment. Try also some activities you enjoy whenever you feel depressed. Good luck and God Bless.
@quita88 (3715)
• United States
13 Jan 10
As I see it, the coil is like the old contraceptives that leaves the mouth of your uterus open to allow the egg to fall out, therefore not to get fertilized. If I were you, i'd forget the coil. In my opinion it is a foreign object in your body and could cause all kinds of infections not to mention bleeding forever. I don' t know about the injection but sounds much safer to me.
@doormouse (4599)
13 Jan 10
well i've been googling different contraceptives and so far the mini pill looks the best and safest,regardless what the doctor says
@quita88 (3715)
• United States
13 Jan 10
Ah, Ok? Now, you go to the dr.of your choice and he gives you two alternatives. And now you are questioning that very dr??? Do pay attention, he knows your body. Ask him any way, but I'd certainly pay attention to his advice.
@GardenGerty (169449)
• United States
14 Jan 10
That is consistent information, to stop the pill since you smoke and your are over thirty. Since you have a problem with having a period, I would definitely go for the shot. It only has to be given every three months and does pretty effectively stop the periods for most women. I have never found the idea of an IUD to be appealing.
@doormouse (4599)
14 Jan 10
i don't like the idea of having a foreign object inside my body either
@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
13 Jan 10
hi dormouse I had a friend that tried the coil but it hurt' she claimed so then went to a shot that worked fine for her as she wanted no more children and did not want to'have periods either as she got deathly ill from cramps each and every time. so she got the injection and it worked fine for her. I would advise getting the injection as all my friends swear by it.
@doormouse (4599)
13 Jan 10
thanks for the reply
• United States
21 Jan 10
i havent had it or known anyone that has but when i heard about them i always heard it didnt stop your periods but just blocked your tubes and make scar tissue which to me sounds painful!! maybe the doc knows of a different kind than we all know about.. but as far as i know it wont stop them
• United States
14 Jan 10
Hello doormouse, I have never even heard of the coil before but just the name sounds like it would hurt. I am not sure if i would do it if you haven't heard anything good about it. I had a hysterectomy a about two years ago so I know longer have a period but that is only because I had a lot of lady complications with bleeding, cervical cancer, endometriosis and was told that if i were to get pregnant again i would have many complications and more than likely not carry full term. I was on the depo provera shot and while I was on that it really did help with my period and there was time when I wouldn't bleed at all. I hear that that is what it does for most women..maybe you can try this? I am no doctor but I don't really know what birth control has to do with your depression, is there not a medicine out there that can handle your depression while you are taking a birth control?
@doormouse (4599)
14 Jan 10
i'm on meds for my depression,but i think the doc is worried it'll make my depression worse and he'll have to increase my meds