Pet peeves about mylot discussions

Me personally, I don't really care if someone ignores me or not. I just like seeing the other responds that each discussion gets. That way you can kind of see how everybody stands from where they are. Now don;t get me wrong, I am not putting down on you at all. It is just that everybody has different opinions. And I believe that is why they are called discussions.

I can't really think of any pet peeves, with maybe the fact it bugs me to see a lot of repeat discussions. I tis hard to respond to all of them, as there are so many, but I do help some of them, knowing that possibly the discussion will deleted for being a repeat discussion. As far as people not agreeing with me, tht really doesn't bother me, as everyone has a right to their opinion whether right or wrong. It wouldn't be discussing if we can't have our own opinions without others getting upset about it. I have probably been ignored in here many times, but I really haven't let it bother me, as it is just trivial anyway. You have a right to feel the way you do though, and I do respect you for your opinions. That is the way it should be. I come in here to share with others and if they don't agree with me, so be it. I am having way to much fun to let things bother me in here. Good luck to you and happy mylotting.

Usually, I try to respond to replies in discussions I start but sometimes I don't have an answer and other times I might miss an answer or like a discussion I started a few days ago, most of the answers were the same, I couldn't keep giving everyone the same replies to everyone. I like it here because there are so many people with so many different answers and it might make me think in a whole different way! Just because someone doesn't answer your reply does not mean they didn't read it. Maybe they got interested in another subject. Sometimes you might not get a reply for a long time (I'm talking months) Just try not to take it so personal.

Hi veromar,I agree with you to a certain extent. I had similar feelings and reservations about mylot when I initially joined this place. The reason is that this is a huge community with different people having different styles of interaction. Once you get established, make friends and sort of settle down , you will feel more at home. Believe me it will happen...You just go sabout doing your job to the best of your capacity and thats what we all did....All the best and happy mylotting

I totally agree with the third and fourth points you've raised. On the third point, I find it ludicrous how someone makes a post and you develop some deep insights in the hopes of providing something substantial to a discussion and the only thing I get in return is "Thanks for sharing" or "Nice response" or no response at all. On the fourth point, you can easily tell whether the person read your post because their response is way different or out of scope. it is just so frustrating sometimes, NO ALL THE TIME!

Hello veromar me t ahve faced such an situation many a times at mylot, and am now used ot it.Earlier me too used to get irritated because of ignorance in both discussions as well as in my responses.Well its the matter of time and fact that must come together to rec an good responses from other mylotters.Me too now at mylot just keep on participating in mylot and its activities for my own purposes, and less for others.And it god for me as if anybody wants any addi info about something, they can contact me at mylot.I don't pay any attentions towards the ignorances provided by other mylotters.Anyways keep it up with your mylot and its participation.Happy mylotting.

Hi veromar, I, too, have experienced all of those things on mylot. Yes, it is insulting, rude and I don't like it. I also don't like when I've taken the time to write a decent response and all you get back for feedback is "thankyou for responding". An explanation as to why they don't agree with me at all would be better than that! It happens. If it happens with someone enough that I remember their name then I will remember not to bother to respond to their discussions. Worse than being ignored is when you are responded back to in an extremely rude manner. All that and I still love being here. Why? because the people that you describe are few compared to the ones that are awesome and fun to interact with. They are the reason why I keep coming back.

hi veromar One of the things that bothers me when I leave a response that I really thought out on a discussion and the poster just says, thanks and have a good day now what kind of comment is that? If I could take the trouble to make a decent response on his or her discussion do me the favor of at least using a few sentences to say what you thought of my response. come on people do not be lazy.no thanks have a good any thing,comment with something meaningful. also I hate it when I can see by the response the poster had not really read my discussion at all. I made a discussion on rude remarks to overweight p eople and some responses told me overweight is bad and so on i already knew that, but that was not what the d iscussion was about it was about is it or is it not rude to tell a stranger his being overweight is not good? the responses did not answer this question at all. We owe it to the poster to read all of the discussion and figure out just what it is about about before posting our responses to it.

Here is my list of pet peeves about Mylot discussions. I don't like when people don't read my whole discussion and the response is way off due to that! I also get critized for my opinions,all the time,in my discussions! I don't like it either when I give my opinion on other peoples discussions I get critized for that! It is very frustrating! I don't like it either when I have a great discussion and I get little to no responses! At times I have felt I have been stalked by other Mylot members. I have been insulted and swore at. I have been reported. I have been made a fool by other Mylot members. I have been treated nicely by some members. I have had discussions taken of for no good reaso,too! I have been on a year now nad I have experienced the good the bad the ugly of Mylot!

I make sure to respond to everyone who answers my discussions as it is only polite, whether I agree with them or not. My biggest pet peeve is the grammar and spelling. I haven't been able to answer some discussions because I cant even figure out what they are asking and the ones who don't use punctuation...ahhh!!! We are on a site that is fueled by communication so do it properly please!

There are lots of things about discussions that bother me, but I can't be specific, otherwise my post is going to be deleted. Suffice it to say that every time I see what I hate in a post, I seriously want to go bang my head against a wall in frustration because it shouldn't be happening. Yargh.

Sometimes I wonder why some of the discussions I start just get ignored. I don't really know why they get ignored I just try to make my discussions more interesting next time. I don't really like how people sometimes misspell words and don't bother to go back and correct themselves.

Hi, veromar! It doesn't bug me much when my post is ignored, but it's so annoying when I know I've provided a polite, helpful and factual response and one would comment contradicting it with totally no respect for what I had to say. Being new here, I was slightly appalled with that. Everyone should bear in mind that we are entitled to our own opinions and the knowledge we share, so If we start or join a discussion, we should be open to what everybody else has to say. After all, what would a discussion mean.