I'm NOT Paying to have that Fixed!! Repaired!!! Stupid Neighbor is moving out!

United States
January 17, 2010 2:24pm CST
YEAH!!! Silly girl next door is moving out, and that means all her silly "friends" won't be around now either... THANK GOD! BUT THE STUPID STUPID ILL-RESPONSIBLE- DUMB~A$$ES [u][/u] Late Friday night drove their truck right through on my side of the overly WET MUDDY YARD from our recent snow thawing...Heck we still got snow piled up around the parking curbs here but the yard is so freakin wet and muddy ...they drove the pickup there right up to her door.... How do I know??? FROM THE MUDDY TRUCK TRACKS AND RUTS ALL IN MY YARD....THAT'S HOW!! Oh there are plenty more of TIRE TRUCK TRACKS ON HER SIDE I don't care what they do on her side of the yard.... BUT MY SIDE IS MY SIDE AND I PAY THE RENT HERE ON MY SIDE! I WAS JUST LIVID yesterday morning when I was leaving to go to the farm....I FLIPPED A MAJOR NUT OUTSIDE...ROTFL!! I was banging brutally on the door, yelling for her to answer it, her car was here but the slutttttt was not, the "scab", the young woman who has a child and lived in utter filth in her home poor kid I feel so sorry for him I really do....No child should have to live that way... Anyway I bruised up my knuckles I was banging on the door so hard I was mega-pissssseeedd offfff!!!!!!!! So today I am sitting here watching TV and HERE COME THE TROOPS...more of her family and friends again to move her out, I meet them all at the door and started in on my "rant" again of how I did NOT appreciate them making such a mess in MY YARD AND THAT I AM NOT PAYING TO HAVE IT ALL FIXED UP WITH HOUSING... OH HELLLLL NOOOO!! Since its the weekend they of course are all off and Monday is a Holiday, but I did leave a message on the machine about this situation and I will be calling them again FIRST THING TUES. MORNING that the big muddy tracks and ruts are not going up to my unit but to the IDIOT NEXT DOOR as you can plainly see.... !!!@@##$$%$$##@!!!!!! Young people today have no respect what so ever for property whether they own it or not? Shame on her and her stupid friends!!! ****GROWL****!!!!!!! has this happened where you live??? Does it make you crazy like it does me??? I've had a really crappy last three days I swear I have...(sigh)!!
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@andy77e (5156)
• United States
18 Jan 10
Yes it has happened to me, but no it does not make me crazy. I have a life rule that says: Life is short. Don't let other people ruin it. I realized I simply have absolutely no power whatsoever to prevent my neighbors from driving me nuts. None. Yeah I can scream and yell, and throw a hissy fit, and bang my hands against the wall until they bleed. What will this do for me? It will hurt my hands, give me headaches, and make my neighbors hate me, and try and piss me off more. Now if they do something that could cost me money, that's different. I will simply explain to them that any damage done, I will have the Condo assocation fine their account for. And if they proceed to do such damage, I will not get mad, I will not blow my top, I will not bloody my hands over it, I will simply send the information to the Condo Asso. and let them handle it. Bottom line, I will not allow someone else to ruin my day. Especially some stranger that is on her way out. That's just how I choose to live.
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@GardenGerty (157027)
• United States
18 Jan 10
Andy, I am sure you have a much more peaceful life. It is not healthful to be angry so much if there is nothing you can do. I trust that the housing authorities will do the right thing.
@sharone74 (4837)
• United States
19 Jan 10
It sounds like you have a thoughtless neighbor over there and no you shouldn't have to pay for the damages, but as she more likely will not you have to decide how long you want to look at that mess everytime you come out the front door. Not all young people are inconsiderate idiots some people are nice and make nice neighbors. Hopefully when she moves out a nice person will move in next door to take the place of the nasty old one. We can only hope!
@GardenGerty (157027)
• United States
18 Jan 10
Housing will probably deal with her, one way or another. I am sorry it is so stressful living there with her there. We shall stand up and cheer that she is leaving. You are terrificly brave to let them know that they are way out of line.
@jennybianca (12912)
• Australia
19 Jan 10
Wow! Just as well your neighbours are leaving. You wouldnt want to continue to put up with this kind of laziness and selfishness. Keep on at them about the mess they made in your yard until they fix it. Leave notes, letters and phone calls. If this doesnt work, can you contact your local council authorities, or the landowner? Useles tenants like this make me mad like this too.
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
18 Jan 10
They are so very rude and inconsiderate to you.They are not showing any respect towards your home. I hate this type of behaviour.I just hate crassness of any type from anyone. I have never experienced this as we lived in our house on the farm and then I now am living in a gated community but my neighbors both sides are nice and friendly and do not intrude. I was worried about what it would be like to live with neighbours but it has worked out really well. I am so sorry that you have to put up with this from them.
@ltruong (128)
• Australia
18 Jan 10
whoa you need to have some time to yourself. just go to a spa to relax or go do something relaxing that you like to do
@ElicBxn (63194)
• United States
17 Jan 10
now, I have driven into MY yard, but I never did it when it was really soft and muddy - now my other roommate is parking up under the oak tree and has killed what weeds were there and its pretty muddy now because we have actually had some RAIN - but the tree is well established so I don't think parking on part of the root system will hurt it any Live oaks - in case you don't know - can live a long time but they are slow growers. When we first moved into the house on Treadwell, some moron ran across our yard and took out a couple of young trees - I hope he ruined his car!so - what did the bi... moron say when you upbraided her for ruining the yard?
• United States
17 Jan 10
I would not just leave messages w/ your land lord. I would be taking pictures and taking down plate #'s. I would also consult with the police if there is anything that can be done since you are only a renter but your portion (wich it sounds is your responsibility to maintain) you feel you are not responsible for the dammage incurred. Again take notes, plate #'s & lots of pictures to prove your case so you are not billed for any repairs to the yard on your side but her. Good Luck! Hopefully your next new neighbors will be much more courtious!
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
18 Jan 10
Hey jan! Now calm yourself down! It could all be so much worse! She could be staying! At least she is moving out! So after this weekend she and her crappy family will all be gone and you won't ever have to see them again ever! And then you can get the muddy yard thing all fixed and hopefully your next neighbors will be alot nicer! I do know how you feel because I have had my experience with some disgusting neighbors myself and know first hand how lousy that can be especially when there is nothing that you can do about it to get them gone! So, just take a deep breath and calm down and wait until Tuesday when it's all over! Hugs, Opal
• Philippines
18 Jan 10
you should calm down first though what happened is horrible. well i guess, she will pay for it by just looking at your very very angry face. anyways, young people's mind are different now... far way different. They need a lot of patience.
17 Jan 10
Wow that sounds horrid. in my world she either pays up or she would not have a truck left because it would get burnt to the ground, this also annoys me but good luck with trying to get get the money back from her...