Two things in life always to be remmembered.................................
By syedayub
@syedayub (252)
India
January 21, 2010 11:45pm CST
guys, here are the two things in life to be remmebered. 1.) Don;t take any decission when your angry, 2.) Don't make any promise when your are happy.
The first one, when your angry you should not take any decision, is very dangerious to take any decission when your angry, this decisions will definately prove wrong.
The Second one, don't make any promise when your happy, why because when your happy you make promises, due to some reasons you cannot exicute that promise, this proves you have made a false promise, this may distrub your relationship too.
What do you say regarding this? hope you people will agree with this
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7 responses
@sanuanu (11235)
• India
22 Jan 10
I don't know if I should laugh or not but I think what I did today was really really strange and one must laugh at me.
What happened in my office is that one of the girl didn't wave hands to me when I was saying a "BYE" to her and this pissed me off a lot. To make things more worse her sister also talked to me with some attitude.
That made me so upset that I went shopping and I bought Rs 800.00 make up kit and the next day I presented it to her. Now, I am thinking why the Hell I hve done thta, she is not my gf, is she? No, she is not.
So, another thing, don't do shopping when you are upset! LOL!
@mysdianait (66005)
• Italy
28 Jan 10

@thugstyle21 (419)
• India
22 Jan 10
I agree with you on this point of view that never a person should take decisions when hes angry, this will lead to wrong decision which could not only harm him but others also.secondly think before you promise anyone special y when your in a happy mood ,you might do something later on you shall regret it. These all will hamper your relations and lead to a bad image upon others of making empty promises. True what you have said think over it for few seconds with cool mind in both cases of so.
@thugstyle21 (419)
• India
27 Jan 10
This is all brother, i taught you would give some brief gesture upon this and would ask for more information how would it be to co exist.
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
22 Jan 10
Hi syed, What you say is very true, it makes sense never to either make promises or take any major decisions when you are either very angry or very happy and elated.One should be cool headed and balanced while taking any major decision in life, thats what I have always felt going by my experience - all the best and have a nice evening

@ybong007 (6643)
• Philippines
22 Jan 10
I agree with the first one. However, this is the first time i heard of the second one. To which i also disagree, I can always make promises when i'm happy and deliver that promise. On the other hand i may not be happy when i make a promise but there's nothing in this world that can prevent me if i decide not to do it. Delivering on a promise depends on the individual and not on whether they're happy or not. Well, that's just my opinion. Others may differ. Cheers!
@syedayub (252)
• India
22 Jan 10
Your said that you agree with the first one, but not the second one. the second one states that if you make promise when your happy and you cannot dilivered in the mean time, it may come under false statement. anyway opinion differs. thanks for your opinion, have a nice day.
@vjypathania (312)
• India
22 Jan 10
thaks for your advice these two thing are very correct as in both situation we are not in correct situation to Annalise the situation in full.
@daliaj (5674)
• India
22 Jan 10
Every person has his own characteristics and habits by birth. It is not easy to adapt something from other into your life and make it a part of your life. This is because always people don't want to change and like to be as they are. It is not easy for me to take something into my life and make it my habit. One thig I have taken into life and make it a point to follow always is 'don't take any decision when you are angry'.
My decision helped me a lot especially when it comes to matters related to work. I got this advice from one of my team leaders when I was very irritated about the management of my company. I wanted to send an email criticizing the management when I was angry. But, I took my team leader's advice. Once I became calm down, I felt that it was good that I didn't sent the email.
When it comes to promises, I don't make many promises. I am very careful about promisses because I hate people who make promises and never keep their word. If I give a promise, I will try all the ways to keep my work. If I am not able to keep a promise at this time, I will keep in mind for years, wait for the time to arrive, and full fill the promise. I am very concerned about promises.







