are you a single?

@katelyn (103)
China
January 25, 2010 10:33pm CST
are you a single. yes, i am. as a single, i feel very free, many people in my age are in marriage. however at present i don't want to have marriage.nevertheless, sometimes i want have a boyfriend.hehe.
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8 responses
@bianca89 (129)
• Philippines
26 Jan 10
I'm single and free..lol! But sometimes It feel so sad.....
@agv0419 (3027)
• Philippines
26 Jan 10
I'm also single some of my classmates in friends already married I'm left behind. I don't want to pressured myself I love my life right now. I love to be single and I get used to it eversince. I'm also ashamed of myself for not having any relationship before but I think sometimes we don't get what we want in life. I try to live with it and accept it whole heartedly if it is my destiny to be single forever.
@katelyn (103)
• China
27 Jan 10
yes, it is common
@katelyn (103)
• China
27 Jan 10
hi, agv0419, i quite agree with you. most time , i just do like what you said
• Philippines
30 Jan 10
Hi katelyn =p Yes I'm single.. =) hahaha.. sometimes i'd love it because i value so much my independence, while other times i'd hate it.. especially during valentine's day because most of the time i'd envy those girls who have flowers with them and their boyfriend. hahaha.. but nowadays i don't mind.. in my almost five years single and i'd say that i am now able to handle it =) But of course that doesn't mean I wanted to be single for life!! Hahaha *knock knock knock on wood!!* hihi.. of course i wanted to be with that someone i'd spend the rest of my life with.. the right person of course.. i believe God is still working with it, so I leave it all to God.. I believe the right man for me will come in the right place and at the right time so I know I don't have to search for him.. and i especially want the blessing of my mom what that right man comes.. i want things to be in place when that guy comes.. because i believe that TRUE LOVE waits.. aaawwww... =) hahaha.. I'd rather wait for long years than to settle for someone "less" and regret it.. for marriage is a vow so you really have to think, think and ponder.. =p Take care katelyn and God bless you =)
@katelyn (103)
• China
30 Jan 10
thank for your good wishes. you are so kind and matured that i believe God will bless you a lot... God will bring your Mr. right to you. i always believe that everyone has its true love in some corner, somebody have waited. somebody like both us haven't waited. but the true lover are still waiting us to find them out.
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@jasmeena (850)
• Indonesia
30 Jan 10
I never imagine that i am single in my 30s, but yes that`s what is happening to me now. I have been single for 2 years, and after my terrible break-up, i only cried and cried, blamed myself and so on. But after a year, i feel grateful not having that man to be my husband, especially after i see some of my friends getting divorce. I want marriage, but i don`t want to push myself. I want to get married with someone i love and who loves me more than i do, who can be caring and understanding. I have some friends who are still single in their 30s, and they are happy.
@katelyn (103)
• China
30 Jan 10
just be yourself, wait your true love. single in 30s is not very terrible. what terrible is in a unhappy marriage. wish you meet your true lover earlier
• Philippines
27 Jan 10
Yes, I'm single.. but I am enjoying it.. the truth is I wanted to stay single until I finish my studies and have a work.. and to tell you frankly.. I am afraid to enter into a new relationship again.. maybe because I've seen the experiences of my best friends when they are in a relationship..
@katelyn (103)
• China
28 Jan 10
just be a man, don't be afraid, i just enjoy single, not because afraid, i just stay myself right now. wish you have a happy love in the future
@atleya (947)
• Indonesia
26 Jan 10
Hi, I think no matter whether you are single or not, as long as you enjoy your life, and be happy. In some occasions, being single are more comfortable for us. But, however, if you find someone special who can make your life more meaningful, why not? Have a nice day. Best wishes,
@katelyn (103)
• China
27 Jan 10
thank you.you are right, i will. but at present. i still think i am alone but i am not lonely
@liuzhi (265)
• China
26 Jan 10
I'm also a single.TO tell you the truth,I even haven't dated a girl ever before.what a shame!But now,I don't feel lonely anymore because loneliness accompanies me.Always~
@katelyn (103)
• China
27 Jan 10
i am alone but i am not lonely. hehe
@sushie93 (1359)
• France
7 Feb 10
Like you, i'm single and it doesn't bother me at all, i like being single, i'm feeling free like that. Many people want to be married and build a family with childrens and others things. But i'm not like them, i don't want a husband and i don't want childrens neither. But if it's just a boyfriend, why not? But being always single like i'm now, doesn't bother me at all cause i have my family and friends and i'm happy with that but sometimes, when a friend talk me about her boyfriend, its make me a little jealous unfortunely...
• Australia
26 Jan 10
I'm single too,I'm kind of young to be thinking of marriage but someday I hope to get married.I don't even have a boyfriend yet(it's kind of sad that I'm 22 and have never had a boyfriend).During high school I had a few crushes on cute guys but that never went anywhere,guess those guys weren't interested.I just hope to find the right guy someday,hopefully before I'm 30(that seems a scary age to still be single)