ok...i broke my heart,he broke my heart...it hurts..it does really hurt :(

@jaiho2009 (38989)
Philippines
January 29, 2010 1:55am CST
hello dear everyone, Yes,someone did broke my heart just now... I don't know how to explain...and what to say. I can only feel the pain...it really hurts... (huwaaaaaa) Why can't we hear the sound of a "broken heart"? How can we say it's broken...it only pained...without any sound. Ok...i am a hopeless romantic broken heart this time!!!! "jaiho"
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14 responses
@ifa225 (11093)
• Indonesia
20 Mar 10
oww...this must be so hard, but things bad are given so we can stand higher and head up our head high. I hope you are now heal of your broken heart.
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@jaiho2009 (38989)
• Philippines
20 Mar 10
hello ifa, So far,i am trying to move on,life should not stop here. Learning from this heartache gives me more strength to face the coming days. Thanks for your response and have a good day always
20 Jul 10
helo, ive been to the stage that a guy really hurt me so many times in a way that he was the one who wants me to let go and find someone else.. later on you can move on in the end. sometimes you feel the pain for us to learn. sometimes our heart feel tired also if it was hurt for so many times. but im sure in the in the end you can find a person that will love you more than you do. divert yourself as much as you could. go out with friends, dont think what happen today or the pain you feel today but be optimistic that one day youll be happy to a bloke suitable for you.its not your lost dear.so cheer up and explore the horizon.
@dhs1008 (100)
30 Jan 10
you should try to relax, take a deep breath. ponder on the actions youve done lately, why it led to that. it may sound uneasy but at least try.why now?..to let the pain flow all away. your already in pain, so there's no need to hold it back. pour it out all at once. but be sure you have a friend listening to you, get your real friends and make them listen to you. we dont know what might happen if your alone. coz if you let the pain subside without pouring it all at once, it will just keep on coming back. the harder you suppress your feelings the harder it would be for you.
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@jaiho2009 (38989)
• Philippines
1 Feb 10
hello dhs, Thanks for your words. Actually,i take time to go out with friends at least it gives me some space to breath in. I had some fun time with them...and,it really helps me a lot. I know this will still keep for days...but,i am hoping it will be over soon. Friends are always with me,they're a great help and support this time. And,i am also thankful with mylot friends,for listening and giving words of encouragement. Thanks again for your response and have a good day always
@kquiming (2998)
• Philippines
30 Jan 10
awww, that's so sad. blabbing helps, so just keep on mylotting. just do the things that make you happy to help alleviate the pain. You'll be fine I'm sure, but it'll take time. I think I can remember feeling that way a couple of months ago. So sad!
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@jaiho2009 (38989)
• Philippines
1 Feb 10
hello kquiming, Yes,mylotting keeps me busy and somewhat helps me forget the pain. I know i can get over with this soon. After sometime...this will pass,and,everything will be back to normal again. thanks for your words my friend and have a good day always
@bingchen (1126)
• China
29 Jan 10
i can understand your feeling at present.you should relax your feeling and have good sleeping now.although i dont know what happen around you.but it seems sad for you.i have this experience before,but it is only temporary problem to let you sad.i hope that you should give some time to give cool and think about process carefully whether it would save room for.dont think about too much.this only make you sad.please notice your health.it is most important for you.
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@jaiho2009 (38989)
• Philippines
1 Feb 10
hello bingchen, I guess,i am fine now dear. It's still hurts...but,i had to move on. There is no way to get out from the pain,but,to help myself. This is a part of love...hurt and forgive the one who caused the pain. I think,i can get over with this very soon. And,thanks for all the kind words...i will take care of myself,don't worry dear. Have a good day always
• India
29 Jan 10
no need to explain jaiho2009............... coz i also have a shattered heart........... ya it has no sound but the pain is unbearable.............. every one says that time heals everything............. but till time heals it pains............. :(
@jaiho2009 (38989)
• Philippines
29 Jan 10
hello goodday, Oh,i never knew you were also in my situation. I know you can feel my pain and understands very well this situation. Yes time can heal...but,how much time will it takes the pain to go away. You are right,not until the time could heal...the pain will stay. Have a good weekend...and,i hope we can both mend our broken heart very soon.
• India
29 Jan 10
dont say like that.i know how it feels when someone breaks your heart.it relly hurts but you cant do anything about it.just move forward in life.these things are part and parcel of life and you have to live with it..... yes it will hurt for sometimes but once you cope up with it you will again feel good...may be that person is not made for you
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@jaiho2009 (38989)
• Philippines
29 Jan 10
hello abhi, I had that in mind...maybe he is not the one for me. Or,he maybe not the right one for me..or the way round. It just happen that...we didn't know when to love the right or wrong person. It's hard to explain things about love...it's simple and easy to say...i want to move on..but the process is hard and much more with the pain. Thanks for your kind words dear...love simply does hurt,becoz,it's part of it. Have a good weekend. "jaiho"
• Philippines
29 Jan 10
I do feel sad to hear another painful story. I know how much it hurts because I've been there many times before. In love, there is really no assurance of being happy. You really have to take a risk. You have to be ready for whatever storm you may face. You have to be aware that pain is always together with love. When you love someone, there is a big possibility that you'll get hurt too. I actually don't know what to say to comfort you in this time. But, you just have to be strong and fight for what you believe is true. If nothing will really work out for you and your loved one, move on. It's such an easy phrase to say but it's very difficult to do, especially at the beginning. But just like other things, you'll get used to it sooner or later.
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@jaiho2009 (38989)
• Philippines
29 Jan 10
hello pentagan, I know loving someone could give us some pain. It is always like having so many questions,but the answer are too few. We came to love...and get hurt,then,we never stop loving...we still keep loving. I just wish,my heart won't get tired of loving. Sometimes pain makes the heart to stop from falling in love again. Thank you for your response and have a good weekend dear.
• Indonesia
29 Jan 10
I know how u feel right now. For broken heart is the most painful disease in the world. And it's really hard to find any treatment to cure this broken heart soon. Only time can cure this. Just keep strong my friend, I know that u will survive. And remember, there is many prince out there waiting for your love. Be happy :)
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@jaiho2009 (38989)
• Philippines
29 Jan 10
hello luvlymee, Oh,thank you so much...how i wish there's a lot of prince roaming out there trying to find their princess. And,one day....my prince will come knocking at my door. Love comes from the most unexpected moment...i will remind myself about this. Thank you again and have a good weekend.
@vijayanths (7878)
• India
29 Jan 10
Oh dearest sister jai, I am so sad that some one has broken your feeble heart just now. Nothing can pain like a broken heart. I can understand how much mental agony you will be experiencing now. I wish you come out of this love sickness very soon. I don't really know how to console you dear. Please don't lose heart and try to cope with it with your best efforts.
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@jaiho2009 (38989)
• Philippines
29 Jan 10
hello dear bhai, Dear brother...where have you been (bwuhuhuhuhuhu) Why it is that only now you came? Someone did broke my heart....(wahhhhhhh) But it's ok...love will find it's way.... Thank you for being here always dear bhai. little sis, jaiho
@mikmoken (162)
• Philippines
29 Jan 10
Hi jaiho2009, How sad to be a part of victims of love. But in human world it a part to have an experience about love hurts. Because we cannot manipulate the love of your partner. Surely your going to pass that. In a few months maybe your fall in love again. Just smile and relax. take time to heal the deep wound of your heart. Sooner or later your prince will come. ^_^
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@jaiho2009 (38989)
• Philippines
29 Jan 10
hello mikmoken, I just wonder why,we need to hurt someone we love. Can't we love without hurting someone? Love really gives happiness,and can also be painful. Thanks for your response and have a good weekend
@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
31 Jan 10
Oh noOOOOOOO not again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Are you serious mi bonita? Well if that's true I have a solution for that mi bonita. Cry it the whole night til morning and face the world again..open the window and shout to the world " SH_ _ _ IT Pangit makaluud Period.!!!!!!!!! Cheers bonita..as if you're just now..i thought you're already immune on that thing called "LOVE"!!he he he
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@Sreekala (32783)
• India
30 Jan 10
Hi Dear, Who dare to break your heart dear? Oh it is really sad. I felt you are kidding when saw the topic. But still can’t understand the matter. If anybody hurts you then have an open talk with the person. Have a great weekend dear.
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@maharlikah (1045)
• Philippines
15 Aug 10
Hello!!!! What happened dear? I things will be okay soon.
@shibham (17019)
• India
29 Jul 10
who dares to break my didi's heart? i shall punch him....