what else can happen to me!!!!!!!!!!!

@sudalunts (5526)
United States
January 31, 2010 3:38pm CST
I can not understand what is going on in my life. June of 2008, I lost my job, haven't found another one since, my last unemployment check is next week. June, 2009, I lost my mother, what could be worse. November, of 2009, my cat died, Now, my husband was in a car accident after suffering a stroke and the cops arrested him for a DWI, crazy as that sounds, my husband does not drink, yet he failed a breathilizer test. He just got out of the hospital and is still not himself, yet he has a court date on Tuesday.I'm looking for words of encouragement, can you help? Thanks
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@lyzabelle (1668)
• Philippines
1 Feb 10
I'm so sorry about your situation nowadays. Me too I just lost my mother last January 6 this year and it's been so very painful. And I have my youngest brother waiting for surgery and we still don't know where to get money because all the money was spent already when mother was in the hospital and for the burial. We are already in deep debt and financial problems is getting worst. But somehow I know all this would end someday...I still believe tings will improve in the coming days. You got to pray hard and hope hard or else everything will depressed you. Good luck to both of us.
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@lilybug (21145)
• United States
31 Jan 10
You really have had a rough time in the last year and a half. I would be so stressed out if I was in your shoes. You really must be a strong woman to deal with all of this. I hope things go ok with your husbands recovery and his court date. How on earth did he fail a breathalyzer if he does not drink. That is odd.
@sudalunts (5526)
• United States
31 Jan 10
I thought it was odd too, the police report states there was no smell of acohol on him????????????????????????, of course not, he does not drink. Bedcause of the stroke he was disoriented and they took that for a reason to test him for drinking. I'm still confused.
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
5 Feb 10
As a human, it is really hard to bear those negative things that happening to us. These are the times that our faith to God will be tested. Consider it as trials and a challenge. Do not ever give up in life. Be strong. These struggles in life are the ones that will make you strong and tough. Remember that as long as you live, there is hope. Just remember how Jesus suffered for us. Just be patient, have faith in God. Always think positive. I know there will be light after darkness. Just hold on.
@MrKennedy (1993)
1 Feb 10
Sounds like you are having a very tough time at the moment sudalunts You have had so much bad things happen to you that it's hard to imagine it getting any worse. Anyway, allow me to wish you all the best and try, as hard as it may be, to keep your head held high
@Hatley (164266)
• Garden Grove, California
1 Feb 10
hi sudalunts oh my I feel for you, things go wrong in bunches, I know, I have also been there too. my son lost his job in 2008,sept, we ran out of money we got behind on rent, we got evicted, our friends tried to help but were just renters too, we became homeless and Nov 2009 my son helped get me here in this place Gold Crest so I would have a place to live, he is in gov.sponsored apt so he and his three men roommates can look for work,it is now feb,2010 and he is still out of work, so I can really sympathize with you. I do not want to be here but yet I cou ld not at 83 be on the street, so we all do the best we can.I am so hoping your poor husband can bear up under all that.I am sending my prayers that things will begin to look up for you and your husband and all will be good again for you.sudalunts our mylot prayer power can be really awesome and maybe we can help things get really good for you and yours too.
@cutepenguin (6448)
• Canada
1 Feb 10
You have a lot going on. I think as your husband recovers, things will slowly start to get better.
• China
1 Feb 10
I am so sorry to hear that Sudalunts.This is very hard to you.But be faith.things will going be all right sooner or later.at now is 2010.I am sure you will have a good start.best wishes for you.
• China
1 Feb 10
Hi sudalunts I'm so sorry to hear that.I don't know how to describe my feelings about you going through so many incredible things.May I hug you ? My english is poor,I don't have enough words to comfort you.So hug you.I believe that tomorrow will better than today!
@mutpal74 (314)
• India
1 Feb 10
"ALL THINGS SHALL PASSED AWAY" That was a poem I learnt in my 5th standard.The summary was there was a king , once he received a bracelet from his wise minister on which it was written "all things shall pass away" He couldn't understand the real meaning and scolded his minister for gifting him such a foolish gift.Once he was hurt in a battle field.One arrow went through his chest.He was in grate pain. that time he has seen the writing and said to himself even this pain will pass away...So my friend have faith on God. Every thing will be alright its only the matter of time.Tomorrow will be a new morning with a new beginning.
@Thoroughrob (11750)
• United States
1 Feb 10
I would have went straight to the hospital and demanded they do a blood test to prove that I was not drinking, if that happened. It does seem like everything happens at once. I hope things settle down soon.
@meldred (94)
1 Feb 10
u know, lossing someone especially the one you love is so hard...but just only trust & pray to the Lord for all the things that has done to you...cheer up! don't give up, i know that God is always there to lift you up.I know if you pray & trust Him i know you can overcome all these things. God allows things to happened because He has a purpose in your life. So you don't need to worry. I will also pray for you.
@sublime03 (1809)
• Philippines
31 Jan 10
Mine also started last year but thank God I am slowly getting over it. Hopefully I do because currently I am still in a rut as well. The only thing that will definitely get you thru all of that is God. Without Him I will definitely not make it. Even by just starting to tell Him how things are it will definitely help you get thru alot of these. Even if you do not understand it ask Him to help you understand it. And at the end of the day, it makes you become stronger as a person.
@qamarep (4448)
• Pakistan
31 Jan 10
this is a difficult year for you when we have good years we remmeber them for long but we cant stand year like this.