Did you at any time feel, that 'you deserved better than this ' in anything?

India
February 3, 2010 6:16am CST
Some people think they wrote the exam well and they deserved more marks than what they got. Some feel they deserve better employment or even better spouse for their talent and good nature. I feel for what I have done for my parents house and husband's people, I deserve a more comfortable life than this. Did you at any point of time feel, that you deserved better deal than what you got? If so for what did you feel so? Can you share your thought please?
4 responses
@vandana7 (83095)
• India
3 Feb 10
Hi Buchi_bulla, actually I worked very hard during my degree first year, and I was certain I would get first class. But I was shocked. I was informed I failed. I couldn't believe that I failed! I was pretty depressed. I had a nice friend at that point of time, she was a sai baba devotee. She took me to University, even though she was sickly. She make me fill in an application asking for recounting and revaluation. For about two months after that I could not concentrate on studies as I was dejected, and all alone, as my father was abroad. I hated myself around that period. I felt ashamed to attend the classes as I felt my friends were laughing at me. Slowly I started regaining interest. Soon the result was out at recounting. Apparently, only my objective marks were listed, not the marks in main answer sheet! But by the time I had simply too much of catching up to do. :( Second year I didnt fare that well. :( I cleared the papers, but I could have done better if it was not for this debacle. :)
@vandana7 (83095)
• India
3 Feb 10
Yes. I am. I believe in him absolutely. :) I like the fact that he unites all religions.
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• India
4 Feb 10
Om Sai Ram.
@2babita (1073)
• India
9 Feb 10
Well Buchi bulla,i think we human are not satisfied with anythings and we need more more.I think everybody feel this,somebody say openly somebody keep this in their mind.I am happy and i think what i deserved it is more than enough.
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• India
9 Feb 10
I read somewhere as to who is the richest of all? The richest of all is the person who is content with what he has. The others will have much to own but still a crave will be there to possess more and more. So you are the richest person of all 2babita.
@happy2512 (1266)
• Philippines
6 Feb 10
Yes I deserve to be living a more comfortable life than what I have but I am partly to be blame on this situation now got married early & my husband is not responsible enough to meet the needs of the family I just thought in the first place that I am solving a problem but I am adding problem to this mess hoping that I can get out of this situation before its too late.
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• India
6 Feb 10
Your happiness has already come to your username. It is only a few steps away to come to you in person. I wish you will soon lead a content and wishful life happy and content in all respects friend.
@vathsala30 (3732)
• India
4 Feb 10
I do not feel for any better things as my nature is accepting the things as it is. If I get less marks in any subject, in which I was expecting a little more, i think that I might have erred somewhere and that is why this less marks and try to work hard in that particular subject and try to get more marks. If any of my friends or relatives do not give proper respect to me I think that my attitude to may be not upto the mark and try to change myself. So in this way instead of thinking about betterment, i try to change myself and achieve the better position, if I can not succeed in my attempt, I will try to be happy with whatever is given to me
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• India
4 Feb 10
This attitude is what is required to lead a content and stressless life. It is not easy to get this attitude. You must have practiced this from your childhood I feel. Keep it up Vathsala, Nothing can bother you and affect your peace of mind.