happily married

Philippines
February 11, 2010 11:10pm CST
a few months ago,i got married to a very loving husband.we are happily married right now,and we love each other so much.i am just wondering if things like this could really last long?because i am afraid it won't.although my husband keeps assuring me that we will grow old still head over heels in love with each other.
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@lelin1123 (15594)
• Puerto Rico
15 Feb 10
That should not even be on your mind at such an early time of marriage. Just be happy at this moment and time and don't bring negative thoughts into it. I believe once you start thinking negative things can happen.Be happy that you found a good man and ust enjoy your husband and believe that you will both be together in old age. Just like my parents who are now as of this month married 54 years.
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• Philippines
17 Feb 10
thank you for the advice.i am trying to conquer that thoughts right now and praying for more strength, patience and love. my husband told me that whatever happen to our marriage will be our choice and he assures to himself that whatever problems we will encounter,he won't give me up.that also i said to myself,after all,marriage will be all about the two of us.
@julyteen (13252)
• Davao, Philippines
31 Mar 10
Hey my friend, It's been a long long while no news from both of us. I am happy for your status right now. Thanks also you found someone that love you much more than somebody did. I know you know what I am talking about. LOL Anyway, best luck with your newly build family. Even though I have also my own family but I hope we are still be good friends. I will be leaving for the country next month and hope all things goes right. Kindly extend my best regards to chuchay. If you want more info on how to withdraw your money here directly to your bank account you can send me a message using the message menu of mylot, I am happy to help you. It's easy now to get our online earnings. You can apply SmartMoney card for you to verify your Paypal account. Best Regards, Mr. July
@julyteen (13252)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Apr 10
wow! i wish all you best my friend. I consider you as my best friend amidst all our past. LOL..Anyway, I am happy to inform you that my flight will be on April 27. Yes, i make sure I will bring a "pasalubong" when I get back here. Hope to hear your anytime from this site that I we love both to participate. Take care and God bless your new family.
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
hi! yep, it's been a while since we haven't heard any from each other. anyways, thanks for the remark on my status. yeah, it's a great blessing that someone found me and love me the way i wanted to be loved and taken cared of,hehehe good to hear that you are also starting to build your own family. i have to wish you luck for that too and cheers for a married life filled with blessings and bliss!LOL! congrats also for that dream come true of going abroad, we should be friends so you'll bring me "pasalubong" when you'll come home, (just kidding!) chuchay is living with me, she will be in school soon, your regards will reach her. and about the paypal account, i am really confuse on how to get my earnings, anyway, it's still a small amount right now. i may ask help from you when it reach bigger. continue your good works for the family, and let's wish each other the best of everything that we are going to do!may life will continue to be more colorful and happy!
• Philippines
22 Apr 10
that's splendid!at least your dream of going there is just how many days away,chocolates lng 4 me,it won't be bad after i deliver my baby!LOL!yeah,it's nice to have friends, especially if it means another pasalubong from abroad,(just kidding)and i am counting you as one. i guess i don't have to tell you goodluck for your work there, it is not on the matter of luck, but i have to tell you God bless with your work and the family you can now call your own.it's nice to be married and happy.after all,that's what life is all about!cheers my friend!
@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
17 Feb 10
wow!! congratulations!! what I can say is that... marriage is not all bed of roses. There will come a time that your love and respect to each other will be put into test. But if you know how to accept and understand each other's differences and have a big room of patience, marriage always work with the cooperation of both partners. Good luck to both of you.
• Philippines
17 Feb 10
thank you for that very inspiring advice!i have read that a good marriage is a union of two forgiving souls,and that's what i am trying to think for now.forgiveness and a repentance soul will always lead to a good marriage because as you have said,marriage is not always a bed of roses,and we will be put in test.if none of of us will ever give up and choose to be happy with each other,then we will live a very happy married life.
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
17 Feb 10
correct!! I agree with that... Good luck!!
• India
20 Mar 10
Then I feel you are one among the few lucky ones. What else more do you want? You have a caring and a loving husband. Do not anticipate bad things. Believe in what your husband says. I am sure you would continue to be in love with each other always.
• India
5 Apr 10
hello just now i responded to your other discussion, why you think it will not last, if your love is true, you trust each other, then it will, so no need of panic, i was married 44 years back, but our love remains untarnished... Thanks for this nice post, cheers Happy easter Prof
@MrDollars (454)
• Australia
18 Aug 10
Well first of I must say congratulations. I am positive that many couples worry about this kind of thing so it is perfectly normal for you to worry about such a thing. Just always be there for him, have fun, talk things out instead of arguing. Just be yourself. Do not stress too much or you will make yourself sick. All the best. $-MrDollars-$