Beginning To Love The Way It Is...

Thiruvananthapuram, India
February 27, 2010 3:53am CST
For long the thought of restricting myself to love and adore only those things that you like or in turn those things that respond to you in a positive vein. Living through loving is desired. But if the activities around you, though only a few them bring in uneasiness, the preference to love and like only those that are acceptable to you is likely to gain momentum.
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6 responses
@whyaskq (7531)
• Singapore
28 Feb 10
Yes, loving kindness is the way to go. When one radiates loving kindness, one will sure to benefit from the radiance radiated. Even if one is blinded by anger, the fire of flame can be distinguished by love alone gradually.
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• Thiruvananthapuram, India
1 Mar 10
It is compassion which needs to be poured out in abundance. Thanks for the very nice response.
@paula27661 (15898)
• Australia
28 Feb 10
I guess it is a matter of acceptance. Not to want to change and control things, events and people but accepting everything and everybody as they are and still love. It is challenging and to reach that state, in my opinion, would signify great spiritual evolvement. There is positive everywhere and in everyone, it is a matter of stopping and opening your heart long enough to see it.
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• Thiruvananthapuram, India
1 Mar 10
An eye opener found in your suggestions. Thanks for the response.
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• India
28 Feb 10
Hi, Confusion comes when we start to criticize others. Truly speaking we are down deep inside highly imperfect and unstable. We should think like this, "I am imperfect, so everyone else has a right to be imperfect as well. Why should I hate them for something that I possess myself?" Love has a broader meaning than most of us understands of care about. Love intertwined with empathy makes one the most admirable person in a circle. Love should be unbiased, forgiving. I know we all can lecture for an hour or two about love, still the implementation and meaning is something that is yet to be disclosed. I don't ask anyone to ignore the negative sides. All I am asking is that you make a good observation and then with a more pragmatic perspective accept and love the person as he is. God bless you all
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• Thiruvananthapuram, India
1 Mar 10
Great reflections...thanks for responding.
@celticeagle (123968)
• Boise, Idaho
27 Feb 10
I am around people who I feel positve vibes around and those that I feel negatively about I stay away from. As far as love if the feeling is mutual and I talk to them and they feel the same then I spend time with them and continue accordingly. I think communication is very important and if I get good feedback and the feeling is right then I continue to spend time.
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
1 Mar 10
Your stance is quite appreciable. Thanks for the nice response from your end.
@bird123 (10473)
• United States
27 Feb 10
Then comes the choice. Do you want to live in the matrix or do you want the truth??
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• Thiruvananthapuram, India
1 Mar 10
thanks for the response
26 Mar 10
For who ever doesn't know Love does not know God for God is Love...