What should I do ?

Philippines
March 2, 2010 10:57pm CST
I say a pic of my Ex-bf with her new gf on a motel room. I'm still affected. What should I do ? please help me. I can't stop crying right now. Just two weeks past then He already found a girl to replace me.
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@BlueGoblin (1831)
• United States
3 Mar 10
Move on with your life.
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• Philippines
30 Mar 10
Well, I think I moved on. I am at the point where I can say "Thank God I'm over you." I am fine now and live without him!.
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• Philippines
30 Mar 10
Well, I think I moved on. I am at the point where I can say "Thank God I'm over you." I am fine now and live without him!.
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@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
3 Mar 10
Hi! I think instead of getting hurt, you should feel relieved, saved and thankful because that guy is a playboy and not serious in love. He just want to play with girls so he is really not worthy of your love. It's good that you have already ended you relationship with him. For now, you need to move on and forget that guy. You are now available again and for sure a lot of guys will be courting you. You can now have a chance to choose a better and deserving guy. Take your time on making yourself prettier and more appealing, instead of crying and getting down. It was not your lost when you have broken up with your ex-boyfriend. Cheer up! It's not yet the end of the world. You should move on. Just stay pretty, take good care of yourself, and continue your life. We are always here for you. Good luck! Happy myLotting!
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• Philippines
30 Mar 10
Thanks for lifting my heart up again! I'm much prettier now. Thanks for the suggestion markmoney.
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• Philippines
3 Mar 10
Be thankful that at least you know that your exbf is not the right one for you as early as now. And be thankful that you are not his wife. At least you will easily move on. And look for another man a deserving one. Just make your self more busy now. Dont think of him. Try to move on every step without anything regret. Just think that you are not the one who is lose in this but him. If you one to cry, go on.. let your tears and anger out in your heart. I know you will feel good afterward. SMile and Goodluck!
• Philippines
30 Mar 10
Thanks for the response, I follow your suggestion that is why I am so busy and that is why its too long to reply with you guys. I'm back with myLot right now.
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@rachel999 (210)
• India
3 Mar 10
Hi Jessica, Many people here are giving you the same advice, which is do not waste your time over him and move on with your life. I do agree with them but it is not about what we would have done, it is about you and what do you want, if you wish to cry over split milk then you will not take anybody's advice, you will be just crying over him. According to me you have 2 choices, first is get over him like everybody else and me are saying or the second choice is fight to get him back, make him jealous, take your other males friends and hang around the places where you know he will be there, do not look at him, just ignore him and pretend or try to enjoy yourself in front of others, look seductive, wear real sexy stuff, confuse him, indirectly make him regret, just play your cards right and see how it goes. Take Care & God Bless.
@krisnel (498)
• Philippines
3 Mar 10
at first it causes too pain on you. you cannot do anything. cheer up girl it is not yet the end of the world. you dont deserve a fool like him. you havent find the right one for you. keep yourself busy. hangout with your friends. do the things that you did not enjoy before with your boyfriend. keep in touch with god.
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@choybel (5052)
• Philippines
3 Mar 10
Well, since it seemed that your ex-boyfriend has gotten over his previous relationship with you that fast, I might suggest you do the same too. Easier said than done I know, but there's no other choice is there? Just move on and think of the many splendors life has still to offer rather than get affected over something of the past. I believe that everyone gets what one deserves so you deserve somebody else and his probably just out there.
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• Philippines
3 Mar 10
well that guy doesn't deserve you, and be thankful that at that stage of your relationship you have broken up with him. you deserve someone better and not the kind of man that he is. just cry it out and everything will be better tomorrow..
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@obe212003 (2301)
• Philippines
3 Mar 10
Being affected is quite a natural reaction with such situation, but the most rational thing to do is to not despair on someone who obviously has moved on without you. Ditto...Cry out and then forget, forgive and then move on, someone deserves your affection more than him..good luck..
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@sree1412 (208)
• India
3 Mar 10
Hey hi i know it hurts but please dont hurt youself by thinking about it just think he is not worthy enough for your love try to forget him and spend more time with your family and i am sure you will come out of it.
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@p3ks626 (6548)
• Philippines
3 Mar 10
I know its hard but you should take that opportunity to show your ex that he lost a valuable thing in his life when you broke up. If you see him with another girl, go get yourself a man better than him. Make sure that your new guy will be better than him, it might not be when it comes to physical appearance but everything that has something to do with having a good relationship. Dont cry and feel sorry because she found a new girl right away. If he can do that you can do that too. Make him regret his decision. Make him feel sorry for breaking up with you. And you wont be able to do that if you're going to cry. Make yourself prettier.
@tessie (50)
• Nigeria
3 Mar 10
baby you have just been free from a cheat, from someone who pretneds he loves you. you don't have to feel bad about seeing him with another girl, aafter two weeks, just know the guy is not your own ok, you will get the right person.