What makes you stop crying?

@yoursjannat (839)

India

March 7, 2010 5:13am CST

Hello Everybody, We've had an occasional call to optical glands due to pain caused by scolding,being beaten,break up,death of near and dear ones and so many things in the list.But every action has an end.What is the thing that makes you stop crying?Is it a good offer?A gift?Or a thinking?There may be many things that would otherwise console you.Would you please share with me about the events that has made you cry and that has stopped you from crying. Thanks Happy MyLotting!!

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@SHAMRACK (8576)

• India

8 Mar 10

Dear friend, I do cry when I get deeply hurt emotional and physical pain if it is much unbearable. But stopping crying is usually after I get relieved of these pains. May to stop crying my self I have never faced any like that after I grew up.

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@SHAMRACK (8576)

• India

9 Mar 10

I not yet noticed it but when I a child I would stop myself when I feel it is poking knife to myself. Why should I hurt myself. I do cry when close one of me die and would stop automatically.

@yoursjannat (839)

• India

9 Mar 10

Hi Sharack, There is another good point.Yes,we shouldn't hurt ourselves by crying if we find there is no wrong from our side. Thanks for commenting Happy MyLotting!!

@yoursjannat (839)

• India

8 Mar 10

Hi Shamrack, You haven't mentioned what makes you stop crying.Anyway,Thanks for your comments.Happy MyLotting!!

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@autumndreamer (3185)

• Philippines

29 Mar 10

Mostly the reason that will make me stop crying is when someone comforts me. No matter what the reason is when I cry, I stop whenever someone tries to comfort me and talk to me.

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@yoursjannat (839)

• India

11 Apr 10

Hi dreamer, So you cry to seek comfort and having nice talk.Isn't it,baby?I'm just joking.Well,talking to make you feel comfortable or to take your mind away from the present debacle is very appreciable and that's why we actually go on talking to kids when they break out crying and screaming. Thanks for commenting, Happy MyLotting!!

@sukumar794 (5040)

• Thiruvananthapuram, India

8 Mar 10

The hope that all things would definitely turn for the better...hence I try to stop crying and start living all over again.

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@yoursjannat (839)

• India

8 Mar 10

Hi sukumar, Yes,it's our hope that makes thing die down once we start crying. Thanks for commenting, Happy MyLotting!!

@Sourceseeker (1197)

• United States

8 Mar 10

Crying is an emotion that if its real cant just be turned on and off. Mostly you stop crying when the emotion that made you start crying is no longer in your emotions.

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@yoursjannat (839)

• India

8 Mar 10

Hi sourceseeker, Are you sure that start crying keeps us out of emotion?I mean,after crying there is no place for the emotion for which we have cried? Thanks for the comment Happy MyLotting!!

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@AjaySinghBaghel (5506)

• India

14 Mar 10

i stop crying when I am tired of it or the reason for crying has gone away. when someone consoles me without any reason just to stop me from crying, it tends to increase my emotions and not stops me from crying.

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@yoursjannat (839)

• India

14 Mar 10

Hi ajay, Yes,it's irritating when someone tries to console you by putting all his sympathy to you. Thanks for commenting, Happy MyLotting!!!

• China

8 Mar 10

Hi,yoursjannat, crying is an effective way to release our presure and grief, but we couldn't soak ourselves in it. Watching comedy is a good way to make you stop crying. you could laugh and laugh from the bottom of your heart, after the end of this comedy, you totally forget the sorrow. I always use it, it's an excellent method, so try it.

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@yoursjannat (839)

• India

8 Mar 10

Hi Yanglong, Welcome to MyLot.You're right.One way to release pressure out of your shoulder is to watch comedy movies that is capable of making the viewer laugh. Thanks for commenting Happy MyLotting!!

@cupkitties (7421)

• United States

7 Mar 10

Gosh I could make a whole list of things that made me cry. I can be just a little sensitive sometimes but I'm working on that. I've learned a little bit how to control my crying and stop it on my own. Sometimes that can be very hard to do though so I'll just keep on til I run out of tears or I'll focus my mind on something that makes me feel better.

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@yoursjannat (839)

• India

8 Mar 10

Hi cupkitties, You're absolutely right.People who are sensitive and emotional do cry to release the immense mental pressure accumulated due to some reason.And yes,after the crying episode,the mind becomes free and flexible so that you could tune it to anywhere you'l like to. Thanks kitti again, Happy MyLotting!!

@Ingkingderders (3832)

• Philippines

8 Mar 10

It usually just stops. I really don't do anything about it. Hehehe. There are times actually, that if someone consoles me, then I would cry more.. I don't know exactly why, but that is how it has been with me. So if I'm crying, don't console me much, cause that would only make me cry more. LOL.

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@yoursjannat (839)

• India

8 Mar 10

Hi Ingkingderders, When someone tries to console us we find someone who has understood us and that makes the vibration of the cords go high with the addition of another vibrating cord. Thanks Happy MyLotting!!

@getbiswa2000 (5545)

• India

7 Mar 10

Hello Janu, I don't cry. Uhmm.. May sound surprising, but I simply don't know how to cry. Sometimes when I think about god and feel overwhelmed, a few drops come unexpectedly. Even if I feel inside like dying, I don't cry. Probably I have not learned to cry, or have forgotten it. I think the only thing is worth crying for is God. When I feel humiliated, or depressed, I read scriptures. That always makes me feel happy. They work with me like magic. God bless you

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@yoursjannat (839)

• India

8 Mar 10

Hi BB, Paying your homage to God..hmmm..!!!Yes,not crying makes somebody real strong and invincible.And submission to God is all welcome regarding relieving agony and pain.It really works like magic if someone else like Him,All-Powerful,stands beside you to take care of all your worries.Thanks.Happy Mylotting and good luck!!

@namiya (1713)

• Philippines

8 Mar 10

I seldom cry but when i do, i find it hard to stop. It's only when my emotions sort of subsided that i could stop crying.

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@yoursjannat (839)

• India

8 Mar 10

Hi namiya, Yes people who cry less,cries hard when they cry because they exert all the due emotion at one go. Thanks Happy MyLotting!!!

@phoenix8606 (4942)

•

7 Mar 10

hi! well, only time can make me stop crying when I am really sad! i know boys cry more rarely than girls, but sometimes I really feel the need to let all the bad things go out, and when I am really upset from something only time can heal me. well, sometimes music also helps me stop crying. but i never ask for help from my friends and relatives, because i am ashamed to ask them for help :(

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@yoursjannat (839)

• India

8 Mar 10

Hi phoenix, Yes,for the grown up it's humiliating to ask for help from others.Surely,girls cry more than the boys,I don't know the reason behind,may be they want to get rid of the agony rather faster than boys.Again music is a good panacea.For every mood you'll find,there exists a music on earth.Once it's able to touch your mind,the agony is sure to subside for the moment,I swear. Thanks. Happy MyLotting!!

@scja16 (322)

• Philippines

7 Mar 10

Good day. I guess for me if there is point that i am about to cry, I'll just go somewhere far to place where i know that i am alone. And there I will scream and cry out loud because i think trying to stop crying is one way of you not accepting that you are in pain. Even for guys crying is not a bad thing because all of us do experience pain and everything.

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@yoursjannat (839)

• India

8 Mar 10

Hi scja, Welcome to MyLot.Yes for anybody,be it a guy or a gall,crying does help in relieving the inner obsession.It's nice to hear that you go somewhere far away where you can scream and nobody's there so that you can exert all your pain or anger or agony.What about screaming by seashore?The sound of the waves seems to be crying with us. Thanks Happy MyLotting!!

• United States

8 Mar 10

Just time. It allows me to think over what has just happened, and allows me to cool down

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@yoursjannat (839)

• India

8 Mar 10

Hi dewero, Welcome to MyLot.Yes people do remember while crying that has just happened and trying makes them feel free. Thanks Happy MyLotting!!

• Australia

8 Mar 10

when you feel happy again

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@yoursjannat (839)

• India

8 Mar 10

Hi jarbaz, Welcome to MyLot.what makes you feel happy again?Try to be as elaborative as you can. Thanks for commenting Happy MyLotting!!

@deepak_o2xxh (158)

• India

8 Mar 10

Anger makes me to stop crying,there is no use in crying..the pain caused is really painful and anger in me makes me to feel better and that i did not do anything wrong and this cause me to take away the pain and all i have to say is to get angry when your sad,thats the way i stop crying...sadness is beautiful, but its painful,getting angry is the way to forget about the pain...

@yoursjannat (839)

• India

8 Mar 10

hi deepak, Yes,people who haven't done a mistake but still still,has to bring anger to play the role of a pacifier. Thanks Happy MyLtting

@homeshoppers (6166)

• Philippines

7 Mar 10

for women crying helps a lot to lessen the burden we have specially if we really feel so down an hurt. we stop crying coz we just got tired of it realizing that theres still life ahead of us or perhaps maybe because we run out of tears to cry. im not sure for the guys.

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@yoursjannat (839)

• India

7 Mar 10

Hi homeshoppers, You are right and it's for everybody who likes to release the pressure from the shoulder.Crying really reduces the overhead.Thanks for your comments.

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@wishuluck (233)

• Lithuania

7 Mar 10

Hello yoursjannat :) I don't cry often and it's really difficult to say what helps me to stop crying. Maybe when you realize that it's enough of being sorry for yourself..I know one thing that never helps me to stop..it's when someone starts talking to you that everything will be ok, that it's not the end of the world and so on..I start crying even more one someone feels sorry for me and try to calm me down :)

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@yoursjannat (839)

• India

7 Mar 10

Hi wishluck, It's really the worst part of the consolation endeavor when somebody trying to be sympathetic or take pity on us.Good luck,happy mylotting!

• Philippines

7 Mar 10

Whenever I stop crying, it only means that the unbearable pain you felt inside subsided, at least for a while because crying is an act were you can ease the pain you are feeling inside and if you cry it all out, you will feel better.

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@yoursjannat (839)

• India

7 Mar 10

Hi Mike, Yes,I appreciate your judgement.Crying relieves the pain and to some extent the anger.Thank you for this post.Happy MyLotting.