I feel as if my mom is taking my child away from me
By kquiming
@kquiming (2997)
Philippines
March 8, 2010 4:46am CST
So she does all the responsibilities most of the time like feeing the kid, sending him to school, buying him stuff (financially I'm not very independent) - I get it, she loves him so much, but sometimes I feel a little out of place or out of the picture , being the biological parent I know my duties and responsibilities and I appreciate it that mom wants to take over too, but I think there's should be a line she should not cross because it does nothing good but hurt my feelings and my ego.
3 responses
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
12 Mar 10
hello friend, i think you should not feel hurt, every grand mother takes care of the grandkids, if they live together, she is definitely sharing your responsibility, you can talk to her freely
thanks for sharing this here
bhuwan
@wishuluck (233)
• Lithuania
8 Mar 10
Hello kquiming :) I think it's important for you to speak to your mother and explain her the situation. It's not only your ego you must worry about. Your kid, even knowing who his mother really is may become much closer to you mother then you. Although you are not very independent as you say, you should be the one raising your kid. take more responsabilities yourself, ask your mother for help only when needed but before that explain her, that it's not only important for you, but for your kid as well.
