why do you think your still a single?

March 8, 2010 11:42pm CST
i want your opinions..please.
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13 responses
• Philippines
12 Mar 10
Hello honielorie26 :) I don't know the reason why I'm single. Haha. I don't think there's anything wrong with me at all. I think I'm a presentable person and I think I'm not that dumb or stupid and I think I am also a good conversationalist but honestly I don't know why I'm still single. Well yeah it's partly a choice though there are times I'm longing for that special someone. Haha. Anyway, I'm still 21 and I believe there are still many things that will happen on me. Though loneliness sometimes strikes, my main focus for now is my career and family.. and I love my family so much that's why I'm not really in a rush especially with those things. I guess I'm a "destiny-addict" as people call it, but in the end I still believe there's a right guy for me out there, maybe he's just stuck in traffic haha or it could probably be that God is still working on me that's why the right time is not yet now. ;D
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• United Arab Emirates
9 Mar 10
You are single when you don't have any girlfriend
9 Mar 10
do you have any girlfriend??
• Philippines
20 Mar 10
I myself have no freakin' idea why I don't attract men.I am sure of one thing though: being single is my choice.I don't want to deal with all those relationship drama.I don't want to have somebody checking out where I am,what I am doing,or who I am with.I don't want to deal with the jealousy fights because he is checking out other women.I'd rather be single and happy than be in relationship and stressed.
@jasmeena (846)
• Indonesia
29 Mar 10
People say i am too picky, but actually not really. Nobody`s perfect, I know that, but I don`t want to push myself too hard in a relationship with a man I don`t feel into him or he doesn`t understand me. I have been single in my 30s, now I am 33. It was sad at first, to find out my ex cheated on me, but now I am very grateful that he is not my hubby now. I m sure GOD has beautiful plan for me. I want to get married nit because of family pressure, but because I love him and he loves me more than I love him. Partner who can appreciate honesty, commitment, love and take me as I am and can be responsible as well.
@alegna10 (10)
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
I always think that there's gonna be more out of life -- there are times that I loved, cried, confess my feelings to someone but after that .... I don't know Im still confused but Im partly happy being "me". . . All I know is it's fun to explore life and find yourself. . . =)
@setsuna26 (2751)
• Philippines
26 Mar 10
I like that question too.Well just as one of your friends told you its my choice, ive had my share of relationships before and sometimes theres this point that we just cant compromise. But hey that doesnt mean i wont be looking for someone new anymore life is full of surprises we just have to live and enjoy every moment that we have ;)
@shhheila (1845)
• Philippines
9 Mar 10
im single, maybe the right man for me has not come yet, i hope soon, someone will come, i dont want to end up single forever hehehe :D
• Malaysia
9 Mar 10
dont know..:)
• India
9 Mar 10
Hello, I am still single because I chose to be. I don't want my affection to go into a tunnel, always directed to the same point. I've seen many people who don't seem to understand anybody except their girlfriends. When they get married they just live happily with their family and still understand nothing beyond it. They die without actually doing anything for others. I choose to help everybody. I don't want to get obsessed or superstitious about any single person. I want to love all, equally, without expectations. God bless you
@hofferp (4734)
• United States
15 Mar 10
I'm single because I, too, chose to be single. I enjoy my freedom to do what I want, when I want, how I want, where I want, with whom I want. I wouldn't have it any other way.
• Japan
13 Mar 10
hi! your topic immediately caught my attention because i`ve been asking myself the same question for quite some time now. we all have our different reasons why we are single, and as for me, its plain and simple: nobody wants me. ;)
@edzece (27)
• Philippines
15 Mar 10
I not single this time bcoz i have a partner, but i think being single has a lot of advantages also like you can go to places you want anytime, you hang out w/ friends & no one keeps asking for your time..
• Bulgaria
18 Mar 10
I think because I have high expectations from people and I'm often disappointed. It's mostly my fault apparently. I could have a girlfriend now, but I want her to be "the one" so I choose to stay single for a while. When you have many friends the loneliness is more acceptable.