What comes to your mind when your loveone stop responding for a moment?

I will feel all of those mark except for wait---oh I could not just wait for her to contact me specially if I really love the girl. And I can imagine I would be much worried on that time. I would do all the chances to reach her. I am a jealous person so I could not really help myself from not thinking that she is doing something wrong with the silence. And I would be much upset of the situation if it would last more than a week.

For me it depends on the situation the last when you where talk but if you just to call and no deference's happened in you I must think that he's cellphone is low bat or no signal at all.

well, if after a week, he's still hard to reach, i would really panic. i will go to his place to know what's wrong or if he's not there, i will contact his friends/brothers/sisters to know what's going on.

It is a very difficult situation. It is very hard for me to take if my lover does that to me. I will wait for some time and then stop calling. Now, my husband lives in a different country and we talk over phone every morning and evening. If he won't call on the proper time, I will get tensed. The same with him also. if I don't attend calls, he will be tensed and think what happened. It is not because of doubt, but for the care of other person.

Hi Mark! Is it me you're waiting for?hahahaha? Just kidding Mark! If I'm in that situation,I will be worry and tensed I"m a person considers as time is gold.When he did not show up on time i will start worrying and thinking about what happened,and if i find his mobile phone unable to reached then I will be much more worry about him,especially if I used to see him online and that time and he was not there I will be getting mad! When the things he used suddenly changes then I will be worry and mad.If he will not even say Hello to me in 2-3 consecutive days he much be more worry because I will not be able to talk to him anymore,lol ..So which of us who will worry first? Its not me but him!hahaha. Happy myLotting!Nice topic.

For sure the more time i spend on trying to call her and text her the faster my heart bit. It happen to me before and to my surprise what i did was, search her to her address. (one house at a time) plus that was the first time i tried to locate her address. It took me 6 hours to locate the address but unluckily she was not their. Doubts were there on why and how can she do such thing to me? but faith and love was also there so i sat and pray. After a few hours, she replied and said sorry. I accept her apology and now we are together strong as ever.God bless

Before my husband and I were married, I'd be really worried about him when I would text or call him without an answer. That would really bother me because we lived an hour apart from each other. I always found out later that was either busy, didn't have his phone with him, or didn't hear his phone go off. So I learned never to worry about him - that everything was probably ok! Now that we're married and he doesn't respond to my call or text, I normally don't worry because he's a delivery driver now so I figure he's either making a delivery or at the store where he doesn't have his phone. I know he'll respond to me as soon as he's with his phone. Every once in a while when I don't hear from him for a while, I think the worst - that he's gotten into a car accident or something. That scares me! I don't like to think that way, of course, so I try to stay calm. I agree with you that a person can become concerned if they don't hear from their significant other after an attempted phone call or text is sent. Great discussion!

anxiety and anger is something that is natural, when we can not contact someone. before angry, we better find out first, and it's best not to think negatively first. there must be some reasons could not contact us.

It all depends on the situation at the time. If he has called to say he will be here momentarily and its now an hour I will worry that he was in an accident. If I can't reach him and its been all day I will worry that he is cheating first, then I will worry that something bad has happened to him. Now of course if I had a fight with him the day then I will believe he is still mad and does not want to talk to me yet. Under any of these situations though I would be worried not angry or calm. I'm a worry wart by nature.

I believe that I might very well be an oddball in this kind of a situation because it doesn't really bother me at first. The reason for this is that my husband is a very hard working man and I know that when he is hard at work, he can't always get to his phone and may in fact not even hear it. So, I will wait about an hour after I've tried to call him before I will start to get concerned about the fact that I can't get a hold of him. The reason that it starts to bother me at this point is because he also works in a dangerous situation.

well i cant reached my ex for many months now so its already enough for me to know that i should stop looking for him as its only a waste of time. if someday he will show off and can explain the reason why then it will depends. i will not going to look for someone who dont ever care to think if i will be hurt once he left me as its only a selfish thing to do by someone. so if he doesnt care for me then why should i. time will come and world is so small so i know we can meet again but maybe that time, its already too late.

i tried contacting his friends or family if i can't reach him. and they always know where he is so i don't have problems with that. i tend to wait for him to give me a callback and ask him what happened. sometimes we don't expect things to happen and its urgent. i try to understand him and the situation and know in my mind that it will really occur sometimes that i can't contact him. being calm is the key so that you won't end up having a nonsense argument.

That Time I feel very bad and I think first that he is not happy with me.

Hi markmoney, I could definitely relate to your post. I would feel..all of the above. hehehe.. Naturally, as a girlfriend, I would be worried if I can't reach or contact my boyfriend. I have experienced this a lot of times, and I admit, sometimes, the first thing that would come to my mind he may be cheating. But I trust him, and resolve not to even think about it. If we got into an argument, and if he remained silent, I would assume he's still angry and avoiding me. If hours passed and still can't reach him, I would be worried if something bad has happened. But most of time, my "what ifs" and fears turned out to be really silly when the real reason he can't be reached is he got his mobile battery empty or been really busy with work, that's the usual reasons, so maybe it's time to lessen my worries and fears.

Why? What happen to your loved one? Hahahaha. Well because I have no special someone as of the moment I can just share about my family. The one that I usually communicate is my father and my sister. My father is always at home. When I feel bad or feel nervous I send him a message to check on the house, if there is any problem they have there, when he will not respond of course I will be very worried and I will call him after. For my sister, we usually text when she needs something or I need something from her, if she will not respond, I will call her just to check on her. I want to know what happened. As of cheating, of course I can’t relate to that since they are part of my family. However, before when I was a newly graduate in college, I have a special friend. I have a crush on him, nah. He was a friend of my bestfriend and we got the chance to text each other. But we do it when he was not busy at school. He sometimes be the first one to text me. One time I did not receive any messages from him, weeks already past and I was really worried so I called him. He told me that he was very busy at school and he was run out of budget for load. He was happy that I called to clear things up. During the worrying times, there was so many things crawling on my mind, like is he get tired of me that is why there is no message of him, did he found out my feelings about him, that kind of things. Mixed emotion is what I feel, thankfully I decided to call him. No matter what he says, if it’s the truth or not, I still care for him at that moment. Well, time flies and I already move on from this. I remember the boy, but I don’t remember the feeling

I would be worried of my partner's safety or I might get worried if I did something wrong. I would not think that my partner is cheating because there are a lot of things that might have happened and cheating would be the lease of your worries. If he contacted me the next day and he would explain what had happened to my partner and if all of my questions are answered I would forgive him. But if it would like be a week or months without communication I would be moving on and look for another one to love. There are quite some people who suddenly leave without saying goodbye because they cannot handle a honest conversation which I had read one of the posts here.

Worrying is imminent, but I would just be calm and wait. Unless I have other ways to contact him or her, there's not much use to fret about.

ah all that is about insecurities, no girl like an insecure man. I sure don't like a jealous insecure woman either. If I don't hear from here I only worry if she is ok or something is happening not if she has an affair.

OR U forgot this scenario; "HE/SHE could be JUST SLEEPING with the PHONE OFF...DUHH!!

If you have left text messages and voice mail....you have done all you can do for the moment. Naturally you are worried and maybe confussed. But consider that maybe she needs a little space and perhaps you have not given it to her. Don't jump to bad conclussions. She may be sick. If you have not heard from her or seen her after 3 days, I think it would be OK to call her house to see if she is OK. Her parents will take the message and you will know it reached her. Then you just have to wait. It isn't fair, I know, but if she is avoiding you for a reason and doesn't have the courage to confront you, then you need to consider what your relationshhip really is. Don't drive her friends crazy with questions either. Stay cool and see what happens. Keep on doing what you do like normal. It may be your dignity that you are saving, at worst.