Do you trust your friend?

China
March 14, 2010 4:52pm CST
We all have friend. More then one friend. And we also have best friend. Whom we share our pain and secrete. But do you trust your friend? Do you think your friend will not break your trust? Do your friend hurt you? How? Right now my friend break my trust. She said something wrong. I feeling so bad. I am writing this post and crying. I never think she can do like that. But she did already. I don't know what should i do now?
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18 responses
@dreamnishu (1247)
• China
16 Mar 10
You should talk with your friend. May be there is some reason to behave like that. As you consider her your good friend so you should give her one more chance. So try to talk with her and as you are crying now that means you care her. And yes i trust my friend.
• Hong Kong
15 Mar 10
having a friend is great and more friend is good, still if you have secrets not to tell them because they are none of your control when they say your secret to everyone they are not your mind to say so.. so if secrets are to be hide them shall be not to tell to everybody.
@monkeylong (3139)
• Guangzhou, China
15 Mar 10
As far as I am concerned, I think I will just trust my friend forever. When some time my friend may cheat, I may just think that she or he is just want telll a white lie to me. They do not want to hrut me at all. If I regard that she or he is my best friend, I think I will just trust her or him with no other reasons.Have a nice day.
• Philippines
15 Mar 10
I have two close friends and both knew what I've gone through in life. I am an open book to both because I have nothing to hid. I know that I can trust them with my feelings and opinion. Then, there are individuals who you thought you can trust and then break them I think you have to re-evaluate your friendship with her. Does she deserves your friendship or is she worth keeping. Only you can decide for yourself.
• India
15 Mar 10
Hello first of all you should control your feelings, seems she is your beloved, hence you feel more hurt... well i am 64 i have met tons of persons in real and in net..many were cheaters but i donot repent or bother..just take it easy.. Bhuwan
• Philippines
15 Mar 10
I trust them but not in everything. there is always somethings in life that should be keeps yours alone.
@bobmnu (8157)
• United States
15 Mar 10
Do I trust my friends? Yes. But I am careful what I share with them. If I don't want other people to know I don't tell them. Too often I have been aware of two people who were told something in confidence but realize that others know so they feel free to talk about it. If you want to keep it secret tell no one.
@hanah87 (1835)
• Malaysia
15 Mar 10
Yes, I trust my friend but it before my break my trust.Now I don't trust anyone even my mother. WHy I said like that? It is because before this not only my friend break my trust but also my mother. I tell them my secret but they break my trust and insult me. Friend also make me sick of them because they are cannot be trust. We must know that people is still people where they cannot keep the secret alone and always want to let people know about it AND SOMETIMES THEY CAN ALSO HURT YOUR FEELING! I have many of friends like this. They never think about our feeling and always said something wrong about us but they want we talk everything good about them. How fair it is?! So, I choose to not trust anyone in this world but maybe one day I will trust someone who I really feel that she can be trust so much. I hope you calm down and make nothing about her. Explain to people who had she told something wrong about you and let they know who is she. Have a nice day.
@jugsjugs (12967)
15 Mar 10
I had a friend that i had known years and to be honest with you i trusted her with everything no matter what about she would be the one to tell.She broke my trust and now we rarely see each other i only see her if i have to as i find it very hard to talk to her now that all the trust has gone.I do not trust anyone now and i am the type of person that will not say too much about anything that way i do not have to think what other people may be like aswell.In the past i have learnt the only person you can trust is yourself as that way you have no worries or upsets.
@LadyBoss (253)
• United States
15 Mar 10
Its really up too you to know if you can trust your friends. After all it is YOU who chooses who your friends are. As of today I dont have as many friends as I wish I did. But that is because I made some friends with people who couldnt be trusted and who betrayed me. So to this day I have difficulty making friends. So first you really have to trust yourself before you can trust someone elce. You really even shouldnt trust that many people. Maybe just a few , I wouldnt advise trusting new people . You have to know someone a really long time before trusting them.
@binagupta (627)
• India
15 Mar 10
Yes dear i trust my friend i share all my happy and sad moment with my friend and she help me to solve my problem.
• Singapore
15 Mar 10
I feel sorry to hear your story!I trust my friends but i always think between what I should share and what shouldn't because I believe all our friends are just human,they mess up the situation sometimes even they don't mean it!So i think we should be careful in sharing everything even with our trusted-friends!
• India
15 Mar 10
s s... i luv my friends that anyone, i ll trust them alot, but i wont share all thins with them, bcaz my worries make them to feel sad, many times bcaz of me they cried.. so i ll share some common pblms.. dont cry, sometimes we wil trust the wrong person know.. its common one, understand the person and then start sharing.. hope ur pain ll end soon.. be happy
• United States
15 Mar 10
Friends are human too, they will mess up, they will hurt our feelings and they will even betray you sometimes. But what matters is not that they hurt you, but that they are sorry for hurting you and make an effort to fix it. Some things are unforgivable, but little things can usually be repaired.
• Philippines
14 Mar 10
I always trust my friend because if not then I'm not a friend at all. A friend can keep his friend no matter how bad he or she may be. If a friend cares little of me I see what is that makes him not care. Friends are valuable to our life so we must take care of them.
@soulburn (414)
• Romania
14 Mar 10
I'm not really a naive kind of person..My friends are my friends not my priest..This is my personal opinion.. And yes sometimes i need some support but i keep my weights.. You shouldn't trust people so much..WE are unpredictable.Maybe your friend is having a bad day or she's not who you thought she is.. Just calm down,sleep ,wake up and live your life..Your life is worth living not crying ! Good luck!
@harisrib (11)
• India
14 Mar 10
I am sorry that your friend broke your heart. But its all about how you take things. You become friend to other person only because you have similarities (personality wise) or you like other person qualities. So according to me its most unlikely that the other person breaks your heart. Even if the other person spoke too bad, you have to decide whether to continue the relationship or not after giving a chance to her
• United States
14 Mar 10
In my opinion, I dont think you should not trust your friend, just because of something she said. Sometimes people say things that they don't mean. Try to talk to your friend and resolve whatever it is. Trust me, I have had many fights with my friends, but we usually always work it out. If your friendship is a strong one, you will overcome it. Hope this helps (: