What does it means when someone ask me- Will you be my real friend?

India
March 15, 2010 10:21am CST
For the last 10 years people around me always try to make me a friend only for their self improvement on various sectors. I always giving solution and help to their need. But after the job happen their relationship were finished. Does the only meaning of friendship is to Take? How can i identify my real friends?
3 responses
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
16 Mar 10
friends are always around us when we are happy, and want us whenever they in trouble, but if they don't you can see which one is really your true friend. if there is not, then God give you a strong will to make your problems fix out without anyone's help. Just be though whenever there is no friend beside you while hard times.
• India
16 Mar 10
I am really thankful for your advice from my heart. This is the method that I apply to my own life. I like you friend.
• Philippines
16 Mar 10
it means they re using you. avoid these type of people if you can. they re gonna eat up your time. if you someone wants to be friends with you it should be unconditional. you won t find many though, cuz people nowadays will do or say anything to get ahead. they ll do anything to attain success even if they step on others. i think it s better if you think bout it that way. if you do, you ll open your eyes and actually see those people that really cared about you.
• India
16 Mar 10
Right, I will remember your advice every time when someone will try. Sound Truth!
@LadyBoss (253)
• United States
15 Mar 10
Real friends are people who are there for you no matter what. And Never leave your side. What those other people wanted was probably some comfort and good advise. Dont waste your time with those people if you ahve to go out of your way. It dosent hurt to give good advise but if they are taking advantage of your kidness then you shouldnt consider those people your friends
• India
16 Mar 10
Great, It gives me a strong point of thinking for me. Thanks for you great advice.