How you judge people in real life?

I try not to judge people by what they are wearing, or how they smell or anything. I can usually tell within a week whether or not the person is crazy, not trusted, or trusted, and I am usually right about what I think of certain people.

I read once a book and which said that the best is not to judge people at all, it will make you feel better and will help you having success, we do judge people on daily basis for very small things most of the times and many times we can't help it. After I read the book I tried and indeed it made me feel much much better and people were also really nice to me. I am not really sure how it works but I think judging people keeps us from sending them friendly messages and so they will be less likely to have a contact with us. To answer you question I try not to judge people, but from time to time I do, but we also need to remember that judging someone can also be in a positive way, like judging someone labeling it as a good person.

i often judge someone by the facial expression. it is hard to judge by it, but i think it is the genuine one to see someone's inside.

I used to judge people on how to deliver their words and how they act in every situation.You can simply categorize people on what words they usually have in every of their statement.Well,clothes make sense when tidiness is involve and as it says in one quote "Cleanliness is next to Godliness" not only physically but mentally of course.. Happy myLotting!

Definitely not in the way one dress, smiles or looks. People are extremely different so far i have met. The one who looks smart and polite in looks, is not the same in real. So i always tell my friends too, dont judge a person by the personality or they way he looks and dress. Even a well dressed person, dont have humanity. So its all their true character is what matters me to judge them.

I judge people by the way he/she move and speak, because for me i can determine the attitude of a person by looking at the subject

Hey icesmile! I think that too often we judge people by the way that they look, or what they wear and that is so wrong! That is way too superficial! It is what is on the inside and how someone acts and feels and treats others that is important! I hate when people judge others by what they wear and how they look because that just shows how shallow they are! There is alot more to a person then their looks! You must get to know someone before you can form an opinion about them! You have to look inside them to really learn to know what they are about!

Well, this is a nice topic, i can judge others easily by their words and their actions when they are talking and by their walk.. But judging others is not an easy thing mostly i don't succeed at first sight, i will take a long time to be with them and specify all details about them, but my placement officers in the college says that, HR will first look into our dress code first and the way enter the room of interview and the voice modulation we use to greet him and the way we sit in the chair and the way we talk to him ..Just 3-4 mins he will judge us and think of giving or rejecting for the job...

hi ice, My husband says that i am a bad at judging people!!! If that ws the case, how would I have chosen him!!! Silly, he says, i was just right once!!! Jokes apart, I cant stand people wiht bad body odour and unclipped nails...They should look into my eyes while talking to me and should be mannered. Clothes should be according to the occassion as otherwise it will leave a bad impression. All people arent wise, but within their limits, they can very well choose their words wisely. I hate people who boast and bad mouth.

we cannot jugde people. we dont really know who they are. only God knows their heart their attitude what's in their mind. as the bible said, donnot judge other so that you can't be judged.. god bless..

when you paint a dragon, you paint only the skin. it is difficult to paint the bones. when you know a man, you know only his face, but not his heart. fine clothes does not make us human, a smile does not make him/her gentle, expensive perfumeries do not give us status. oftentimes we assume people are what they appear to be. but we should not forget that appearances can be decieving. i usually give my opinion after having a chat. see how deep his thoughts are, how he sees the world, talking on events rather than people, see though his eyes. only then will i know him, but not to judge him.