how should i deny her love

China
March 16, 2010 10:31am CST
One girl express herself clearly to me yesterday,but i don't want to start a new love.what can i do? thanks for your advice.
4 responses
16 Mar 10
The best thing to do is not lie. Explain to her that you aren't ready to find a new love, and I feel if I say yes to you while still in love with someone else I'm afraid I will hurt you and I don't want that. I am truly sorry, but first I need to sort this out. Friends? She will understand what you are saying, but how she would react I don't know. Either way you have said what you needed to, and if she's immature about it that's her problem.
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@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
23 Sep 10
just say that u just want to be friend. both of u can still be friend even you have no love feelings to her. and tell her that u need sometime to be alone before start a new love
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
16 Mar 10
hello lance.nice to know you.welcome to mylot. if i were you i think i want to say no for her because off course it`s not easy to cure hurt in our heart.we need time to recover our hurt
• Philippines
16 Mar 10
I'm not saying you to follow my advice but if a girl does the same with me I would not spend time with her neither explain to her that I don't like her. If I do that it will only further make her feel sad and as a result beg more for my love. Its going to hurt but my only choice would be to ignore her. I keep in mind that girls can understand well and they don't have to listen to my stupid explanation that I don't like her.