ever wished someone should be just dead by now?
By fianne
@fianne (1057)
United States
March 16, 2010 2:00pm CST
my friend was so furious of her husband because she feels very bored at home and not able to do what she wants. she just got married in US and should file for adjustment of status. but her husband doesn't want to file for it! hmmm... i wonder why. he said it's 2yrs deadline for them to file adjustment of status and my friend told him there is no deadline. they can even file for it 20yrs later BUT! she cannot do anything but to be at home if she is not adjusted status because the government will see her as an illegal alien in the country. she cannot work, cannot go back to her home country, can't do anything.
she just wished her husband should be dead then. she can't even divorce him because she doesn't even have money because her husband is not giving her any.
what do you think? have you ever wished someone whould be dead by now too? i know it's wrong so i told her to just talk to her husband about it. i hope they can work it out.
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6 responses
@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
17 Mar 10
1. The fact he won't get her status fixed so she can work.
2. He isn't providing her any money.
Why would you take away someones ability to be able to take care of themselves? Control of course. Her husband knows exactly what he is doing. If I were her I'd be packing my things up and getting out of there before things get much worse because they will.
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
16 Mar 10
That is why the government really questions people if they marry someone from another country. It sounds like her husband wants a servant instead of a wife. Can't she go to immigration, show her marriage certificate, say that she wants to start proceedings to be a citizen, but her husband refuses for adjustment of status.
@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
16 Mar 10
I think your friend is in a lot of trouble and I believe she should sort it out as soon as possible. There are people who like to take advantage over others, although I'm not sure if this is the case with your friend but it seems that way to me. What I mean is, the guy probably just married your friend so he'll have a permanent caregiver, one who'll provide home caring, etc. as a wife. I just hope this isn't true and that they fix this problem anytime soon.
When I'm furious at someone, especially for a very good reason, I do wish it sometimes. I guess it's just natural to wish it but not really mean it. It's like a spur of the moment.
@Cutie18f (9551)
• Philippines
17 Mar 10
To be honest, yes, a lot of times this dark thought would cross my mind whenever someone is so calloused as not care anymore for my feelings. It is not a good thought to be wishing someone like that, but there are times when, out of anger, we just can't help it. I do not want to go into specifics because I know this is not good.
@dr0czh (53)
• China
17 Mar 10
I have graduated a year ago,and I wanna kill my roommate at that time because she cheated me for four years.I always thought she was my best friend ,but I was wrong.We did everthing together,like go to school ,go shopping,mountain climing and so on.We share secrets with each other.But in the end,the last moment I found she was a bad girl. She did everthing and looted the boy who is fond of me.That is not the end.Then she told the boy that I always bully her and I was a stingy girl.
Oh,to be honest,I should thank her,she give me an active lesson.
