Free life or life without responsibility

I love a free life.I would like to live life in my own terms.if I am meant to be married,it'll happen.if I am meant to live a blissful single life,then I will be happier.I don't want be married just because I feel pressured by people around me.I have my whole life to get married,if I am meant to.

Hi bhanusb, its a bit late in the night and I am sleepy, so I hope what I want to express comes across clearly enough. Children are beautiful - especially babies. There is no denying that. But the responsibilities that come along with them are daunting. In olden days, women didnt have jobs. But now, managing jobs, and relationships in a new environment adds to the women's duties. Effectively, it becomes a tedious proposition. It is not exactly free life! Everybody is working towards a comfortable old age. Children may or may not happen. They can always adopt them. In fact, I think every person desirous of a second child should consider adoption as an option.

bhanusb hi oh Iwould have got so sick of that life with no responsibility like where I am now in this retirement center. its just existing course better than being on the street and homeless. but I married and had two children went thru the pain,oh such pain,of losing our eight year old daughter, but we survived and lived and loved and laughed, oh the laughter that was so good. I dont think that living together is necessarily free, there are responsibilities they just do not stay together its like a square dance, they keep changing partners.get mad one has habits the other does not like, out he or she goes, just change partners and d ance.oh i wou ld have hated that.I am elderly now but love that I had a real marriage,hubby and children, my son is my mainstay now and comes to see me weekly. I really do not know what the live togethers really want and wonder is they do?

People marry who want to spend their lives together, evolve, see new things, learn together, etc. There is no obligation to have children. In some cases, some couples can't have children. Living together does come with its own responsibilities. You have to pay bills together, schedule mutual functions together, devote time to enjoying one another. Marriage is about love. Not procreation.

Life without responsibility is a lazy life. I don't want that. I wanna have a wife and kids and i'd like to be responsible to them and for them. Without responsibility, life would be fun from the start but if you look at it, It's really empty and lonely.

I never wanted to be alone. I could never imagine life living alone, without a friend and a companion; and without children. After 33 years of marriage, I lost my wife 10 years ago. My children were married; they had children of their own. I too retired and I found a free life, a life without responsibility, all alone, with no one around. Whether you wish to lead a life without responsibility or you opt to marry, a time would come when you will find yourself alone. Why not get married and enjoy both kind of life, a life with family, and a life alone without responsibility.

Marrying someone does not automatically mean that you want to have children, but I do understand what you are trying to say. I think if I were young again and didn't want children then I probably would not marry either. I don't think it's about having a life without responsibility because every adult has some degree of responsibility in their lives. I would also think that many of these women, once they found their Mr right would also change their minds about having children. My sister and her partner are an excellent example of this. She has always been determined to never marry and to never have children, but now she is living with the love of her life she has admitted to him and me how that has now changed her perception of life.