Do I have the right to know?

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Last week I had an appointment with a neurologist, or better my wife dragged me to the doctor's visit. After reading a book, she was worried stiff, that parkinson's disease is related with Aspergers. Our nine year old son has been diagnosed as mild Aspergers a few years ago. Aspergers is a condition where a person (a child or an adult) has difficult in communication and doing social interaction. I told her Immediatedly that the book is rubbish, anybody can say or write whatever he believes in a book. As usual I was accused that I don't care less about our son etc etc. My uncle has been diagnosed with Parkinson's at the age of 58. So my wife was preoccupied that it could be something genetic and that both me and my son could be effected. I told her that Parkinsons affect people with old age and has nothing to do with genetics. I thought it is far fetched to link a nine year old son with a 58 year old's illness. Asperger's do have poor motor cordination but it has nothing to do with Parkinsons. Recently I tripped on a carpet and I bumped my head into a wall. Ouch it hurts! I think she was so worried that my wife booked an appointment on that day. I was a bit tired it was 1am in the morning and I was not paying attention, I just slipped, but there was no need for drama. After several tests the neurologist confirmed what I said that Parkinsons has nothing to do with Aspergers and that both me and my son are healthy. He told my wife that she does not have to worry at all. About three years ago, my eldest cousin died at the age of 45 years with muscular dystrophy or at least that is what my family told me. So I gave in to go to a neurologist with this case in mind. I wanted to be certain that I don't have anything like that. As soon as I mentioned my cousin's name, the doctor seemed to be familiar with the case and denied that the cause of my cousin's death was Muscular Dystrophy. He said it was something else. I remained perplexed. Malta is a very small island. We have one central governemnt hospital (which is a state of the art thought sometimes the service lacks to be desired)., so I was not surprised at all that the neurologist wsa familiar of my cousin's case. Why my relatives have lied about my cousin's cause of death? Why they did not want us to know the truth? What are they hiding from us? I tried to ask further questions to the neurologist but he was tight lipped and did not utter another word because of privacy issues. I was concerned that muscular dystrophy could be genetic but the doctor said that my cousin's illness had nothing to do with musuclar dystrophy and that it was not genetical at all. It was a rare illness, an unfortunate case but he stopped there without giving further details. Do you think I have the right to know the real cause of death of my cousin's?