Flowers

India
March 20, 2010 12:27pm CST
Hello this morning I was moving on the streets of Hyderabad with my wife. I saw flower venders on the road side, the women here use flower in theie 'veni', we went to one gal who was selling flowers. She put some in my wife's hair too in the way women wear here. I must admit my wife looked great, flowers can change ones apperarence. Do you or your family members wear flowers in hair, or in your coat pocket? Bhuwan
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• United States
20 Mar 10
i personally dont. i am allergic to any type of flower, plant, grass or trees but my husband does buy me flowers every once in awhile and i enjoy them from afar.. i dont think i have really seen anyone in the USA wearing flowers in that manner but i cold have just not been paying attention
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• India
2 Apr 10
Thanks for sharing your views, you might be having indians around Cherrs, you need to avoid dusts, pollen grains Prof
@Buchi_bulla (8298)
• India
20 Mar 10
It is Indian custom for ladies to keep flowers on the hair. It gives good smell and beauty. I always keep flowers on my hair.
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@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
21 Mar 10
I like seeing small and beautiful flowers on your hair Buchi. It’s so nice to stand near you. I love the faint fragrance of the flowers. Feeling really fresh and comfortable
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• India
21 Mar 10
Thank you so much for the words friend. I searched for a proper image to post here but could not succeed fully. However I am uploading the image of a girl with flowers on her hair. Think that it is me and visualise that you are also standing next to me and enjoying the fragrance of the flowers.
• India
21 Mar 10
a woman with flowers on her hair  - The image of a woman with flowers on her hair
This is the image. The flowers are Jasmine (white) and Kanakambaram (red). Kanakambaram does not have any fragrance. It is worn for the beauty.
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@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
21 Mar 10
Hi Professor, it’s a shame that we don’t have such good habit for female to wear fresh flower on hair in my society. Yeah, from your description, it shows that your mrs looked really great with the beautiful on her hair. Yeah, don’t look down on just a single flower. How miraculous it could change the appearance of a person totally once wearing it I think I should put one on my hair when passing by a florist vendor at the busy street next time. I’m keen to see the amazing expression of my husband after wearing it Happy posting
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• India
2 Apr 10
Hi Ikbooi, i am sure your hubby will like this , will hugg you and give kiss you too, don't forget to give me a picture lol Thanks for response Prof
@vathsala30 (3732)
• India
21 Mar 10
Hi Bhuwanji[i][/i] Yes of course, we do wear flowers in the hair and this is happening since so many years in the South Indian families.Actually it is our custom to offer flowers to a women whose husband is alive and she is called SUHAAGAN. From the old Suhaagan lady to the small girl, we put flowers in the hair either little or more and during marriages, you can notice all the ladies will be adoring flowers including the bride in their hairs.
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• India
2 Apr 10
Yes. Buwanji. It is the reflection of the Indian suhaagan, wearing glass bangles, sindhoor, alta, toe ring (bicchuvan), mangal sutra, flowers in the head. In north suhaagan ladies apply sindhoor in the head and in south she puts sindhoor in the fore head.
• India
2 Apr 10
Thanks for the BR.
• India
2 Apr 10
Vathsala i never knew it is for 'suhagans' only, it is in addition to putting sindoor in the forehead and 'alta' in feet Thanks for telling, welcome always Prof
• Philippines
21 Mar 10
We don't usually do that here.The only time women here wears flowers in their hair is when there's local celebrations that would cater to tourist. I believe flowers not only change appearance of a person but also of a house or office.I would usually buy cut flowers during weekends and i keep them in the fridge at night and put them out to decorate my coffee table. I feel refreshed and relaxed when i see how beautiful a flower while sipping coffee in my mornings.
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• India
2 Apr 10
My room has flower vases in each room that has fresh flowers, there is one on my computer table too, thanks Prof
@mhaibless (210)
• United States
21 Mar 10
Hi.. Yes. I do put flowers on my ears. It makes the woman beautiful. Flowers are a great gift from God. It provides happiness to those who can appreciate the simplicity of beauty in it.
• India
2 Apr 10
Thanks for response, welcome always Prof
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
20 Mar 10
I put them in Vases!
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• India
2 Apr 10
Sister try wearing one, you will love the sweet smell Thanks for response Prof
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
22 Mar 10
Hello Sir, You made me to laugh and remember about my college days. In South India it is a usual scene girls are wearing flowers in their hair. It may be like that it is also an essential part of the make-up. I did it same when I was studying especially in the month of Marc/April which is the season of Jasmine flowers. We had jasmine plants at home and in night we enjoyed the fragrance of jasmine flowers. We made our own chain with flowers in night and decorating in hair in the morning. At present I am in north and here the people are just opposite to south people. I have not seen anybody wearing flowers in hair in this part of the world.
• India
2 Apr 10
Sree dear You are right, in my state Orissa some use flowers in veni, some guys in the wrist, but here in south it is common Thanks for response Prof
@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
20 Mar 10
hi professor its a shame women do not do that here in the US as you are right flowers can change one's appearance, this one pretty cashier at my favorite grocery store where we used to live always wore a flower in her hair. It was very attractive. She was originally from Hawaii and I guess they also have that custom. I think its really a pretty custom too. Almost all women myself included love flowers and wearing one in your hair I think I would like that.
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• India
2 Apr 10
Hatley dear, i am happy you love wearing flowers, Hawai women are pretty, flower makes them look prettier Thanks for response Prof
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
22 Mar 10
I am not rally fond of wearing flowers on my hair or on my dress unless there is is some special occasion like wedding.But I love flowers and I like them arranged on my vase. I also do have lots of flowers in my garden.
• India
2 Apr 10
We too keep them in vases in all rooms, the drawing room has a big one, my wife replaces the flowers every third day Thanks for response Prof
@benhilo (871)
• Tripoli, Libya
20 Mar 10
Plumerias - We grew 27 varieties of these.
Where I am originally from, most people wore flowers in one form or another. In the area I lived while growing up, many people grew a wide variety of flowers. The only time it was worth going to deliver my newspapers in the morning was when I went by those houses that grew flowers because you could smell it in the air as you walked by. At our house we had 27 varieties of plumeria and 12 of bouganvilla, among other plants and trees (some very rare). I have not worn any flowers lately, do I do like to give them. The more uncommon, the better I like to give them.
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• India
2 Apr 10
Hello i have never seen this flower, probably they don't grow here in hot climate, thanks and welcome Prof
@kquiming (2997)
• Philippines
21 Mar 10
I love the idea of wearing flowers in my everyday but that would make look ridiculous because the culture here is not like that. Yes, flowers really prettify girls, I must admit, and I love the way I look in front of the mirror when i wear a flower in my hair. Most flowers look good in the hair. Maybe when I get married, I'll put some small white flowers in my hair, or one big white flower. That'll do!
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• India
2 Apr 10
Hello dear i don't know where you live in Phillipines but when in your country i saw many women in Cebu, Davao and Manila wearing flowers just one Thanks for response Prof
• Malaysia
22 Mar 10
hie professor, flowers change the mood and enhanced the aura of the wearer. i am sure your wife is delighted when the florist put a flower in her hair and your expression tells her that you like what you see. it makes both your day. women do wear flowers here especially the indian ladies. not so the other races here. its popular in hawai and the tahiti islands. the maoris wear flowers in their hair. our here the men wear flowers in their coat pockets like a corsette. flowers are enchanting and indeed pleasing to look at. what is life without flowers to give to loved ones.
• India
2 Apr 10
Hello You are right grace, life is dull without flowers, thanks for response Cheers Prof
@busybee10 (3186)
• India
21 Mar 10
I feel it to be a great pleasure ,if I had met you in Hyderabad because I am a Hyderabadi. You find many flower vendors who sell these beautiful flowers on the road sides arranging flowers in a decent way and fashion in the form of garlands. You would have visited the main market near Mojamhjahi chourasta -which is the main flower center .It is really a spell bound place extending the natural fragrance of flowers. Yes as you say if you are shopping flowers with a lady vendor they love the customers from other places and also extend their love by sharing some extra flowers too. This is the specialty of Hyderabad. Yes,flowers decorated on the hairs of ladies add beauty to them. We always use these flowers mainly on the festival.
• India
2 Apr 10
Glad to meet a friend from Hyderabad, this is speciality of mylot I will go this area you told this sunday, thanks for response Prof
• India
9 May 10
My son is in NMDC, I visit frequently... Now back in home..
@busybee10 (3186)
• India
5 Apr 10
Thanks for your response - do you visit Hyderabad frequently or what. You belong to Orissa. How come you are telling that you shall be visiting on Sunday....??????????????
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@derek_a (10873)
21 Mar 10
Flowers being worn in coats was something I used to see a lot of a child here in the UK. Here in Wales on St. David's Day (March 1st)- St. David is the patron saint of Wales - daffodils used to be worn on the lapels of coats, but these days I don't see it on March 1st. It's a shame really, but many people don't seem to bother now. _Derek
• India
2 Apr 10
Here too many put a red rose in the coat pocket, our prime minister Jawahar lal Neheru was one. On my wedding day i too put one in my coat Thanks for response my friend Prof
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
21 Mar 10
dear professor, there is not much ladies wearing fresh flowers on their hair nowadays. i guess the fad has changed it all. but i see artificially made flowers attached to headbands worn by the teens and sometimes, the much younger ones. fresh flowers are usually given in long stems. the ladies here receive arranged flowers as gifts from their loved ones, and bouquet of a dozen flowers or two, depending on the occasion and sometimes even without occasion. it is either given personally or through the mail. it is nice to have a flower on one's hair as it makes her looking fresh as well especially if she smiles a lot. but sad to say, as of the present, if one has a flower on her hair here in our country, (that is without any festival going on) people will stare like it is weird for a girl to have it on her hair. thank you for this discussion. ann
• India
2 Apr 10
Ann dear Fresh flower have their own charm and language, try wearing them when in home, not in your office or on the street, you will certainly feel fresh and energetic Thanks for response and telling me about your place and culture Prof
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
21 Mar 10
Well, my wife loves flowers, especially jasmine. And i feel it adds more beauty to her. I love flowers too.. We both of us loves roses, as i gift her on the valentines day. And she puts a rose on my pocket and she will enjoy it. Flowers are not just beautiful, they adds beauty to our life too!
• India
2 Apr 10
I am also fond of Jamine and red rose, thanks for response You have a loving wife like me Cheers Prof
@avani26 (1518)
• India
21 Mar 10
I fully agree with you that women look very beautiful with flowers in their hair. I being from the South are taught to wear the flowers everyday but nowadays girls do not like to wear flowers as they think that people would take them to be conservative. I though do not wear the flowers everyday but make it a point to wear it whenever I wear Indian outfits. My mom wears flowers everyday.
• India
2 Apr 10
Hi avani, thats good, wear it on occassion only when you wear saree... Thanks for response, cheers Prof
@umit_umit (1984)
• India
21 Mar 10
really flowers,can do this,emits all kind of love and freshness!
• India
2 Apr 10
Yeah flowers have their own language, thanks for response Cheers Prof