One day when u know that your mom is not your real mom..?

@siliguri (4241)
India
March 23, 2010 3:37am CST
Hello guys and gals very hearty question it is...if one day u heard from somebody that the mom to whom u loves most is your step mother...than what will be your reactions..do u still love her as u love before u are not aware from this fact....I know this question is very strange but i'm curious to know what your thought on it...please make your view on this...?
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12 responses
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
it wouldn t make any difference. i ll still be annoying her most of the time. lol.
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
it was just a joke my friend if you didnt get it. yes you are vere right my dear good friend of mine. she gave my birth to me and i like it very much of a fact. that is the why and the how i love her.
@siliguri (4241)
• India
23 Mar 10
Please don't make joke of mother...i feel very lousy...i think u shouldn't in future...
@siliguri (4241)
• India
23 Mar 10
Why so friend?...she is your mother...gave you birth...make u grow up..
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
I wont believe it at first until I get any evidence. If sure shes not my mom. Then theres no point crying over spilt milk. I will find another mom.
@siliguri (4241)
• India
23 Mar 10
Another mom...means....Real mom..?
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
No not anymore, better to have a loving step mom than to have nothing at all. Anyway she loves me like a true mother. So my feelings would not change..
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
if that will happened then i will still continue loving her as my real mother as she was there when i need her most. with my real mother i will not bother to look for her as she already take off her part as my mother the moment she left me. she no longer a mother to me. im happy with my life and so be it. though i know that my mom is my real mom.
@siliguri (4241)
• India
1 Apr 10
thanks friend for the lovely response...
@binagupta (627)
• India
23 Mar 10
Oh! dear it will be very socking news for me, but i know this can't happen
• India
23 Mar 10
I will still love her like how i was before
• India
1 Jun 10
Well no problem for me, becoz she has given love as mother always and she will continue to give in future, there are many such cases of step mothers who love as real mother, it is a case of emotional attachment.. Thanks for sharing. Sorry for late response.. Welcome always. Cheers. Prof
@Ramsesxlll (1431)
• Finland
23 Mar 10
I would still love her, because even if she wouldn't be my biological mother, she would still me my mother. She would have been there for me when I was sick, when I had problems with my homework, or when I had a though time at school. I would love here and treat her as my mother, as long as she would have treated me as her son. I would want to know my real mother though. P.S. I think it would be quite strange to have 2 "active" mothers...
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
I will still love her no matter what but of course I'll ask her who's my real mother and where she is. If she said she don't know anymore the that's sad and disappointing.
@kquiming (2997)
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
Yeah, I'd still love her as before, or probably even more than ever - that is, if she did love me like her own daughter during the whole time she and dad are together. I would ask her why she kept it a secret for me - and I'm sure she'll come up with a good explanation (assuming she did it because she loved me so much she didn't want me to get hurt, or if it was dad's idea). Anyway for some people, it might be harder to accept.But not me. I think we should be thankful to our mothers if they've been good to us, whether they are our biological mother or not.
@saanjh (784)
• India
23 Mar 10
Yes I will still love I know I will fill very bad but I still love her because she know's that I'm not her real daughter even she love's then I can also do this.
@Gany15k (1673)
• India
23 Mar 10
I will be shocked.But I wont take my love and affection over her.And I will ask who is my real mother and how she got me..Like that....Now what you will do if this happens to you...?
23 Mar 10
I think it depends how old you are when you find this out and how old you were when she became your step mother... also, I think you would be lucky to have 2 mums!
@kainalu55 (364)
• United States
23 Mar 10
if i found out my mom, was not my real, biological mom, i would be in shock. i may feel a little upset at first that this was a secret kept from me all these years, but i would still love her the same!