the worst day. what is your best solution?

@humairaku (2038)
Indonesia
March 23, 2010 10:35am CST
Hi, mylotters! I think today was my worst day ever: I broke my husband's notebook, my supervisor got mad, and I haven't done my deadline yet. . I really feel so exhausted with all of these. and I need something to do to make myself relax. what about you, friends, what is your solution if you face the worst day like me? thanks for sharing and happy mylotting!
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15 responses
@gunagohan (3414)
• India
24 Mar 10
i'm a kinda different guy, if i feel my day is very worst, i just go and sleep for hours and after i wake up i feel some how relaxed, but if it's too miserable, i have to work it out to solve the issue , not by others like listening to music or reading comic books, i will trya solving it technically.. being different is something special for me.. Others work hard where i work smart.. i never court for a girl... Love u..
@gunagohan (3414)
• India
25 Mar 10
Wishing u all the best
@humairaku (2038)
• Indonesia
24 Mar 10
haha. nice to be you. you can handle all problems on your own way. I think you are not different with others, you just have a strong personality so whatever you got, you always can be yourself. great! . but for me, I couldn't sleep if I have a lot of problems. I tend to get insomnia. so I should find another way to solve my problems. wish me luck.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
24 Mar 10
hm, iam sorry for your worrst day, so whats your husband say? same with you, began 2 or 3 weeks i always get the worst day not in a day..i always jealous and did not how to do what when know my admire never care anymore to me like the past, when hear she is talking with another man, she and i is separated in a island. so sad. i dont know when get the problems. maybe only sholat and pray for my Lord to guide me
@humairaku (2038)
• Indonesia
24 Mar 10
so you still have that problem, brotha? don't you think to find another girl? you deserve to get the best. I did your solution too. I cried all night in my pray. He's the Great, He knows the best and He knows all the answers of our problem.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
25 Mar 10
ya, i still in the same problems my sista.i dont know exactly whats her feeling if she need me too like i need her or me as only toys for her. i dont know
@gerald_lian (2188)
• Australia
23 Mar 10
I guess for me, if I were to have a bad day like you, the first thing I would do is to stop doing anything and just calm down. I think it is good just to take that time to refocus your mind to thinking about good stuff instead of thinking about being stressed up. If you set your mind on positive things, then what you do will most likely turn out positive too. After that, perhaps you should give yourself a treat too, because after a bad day I think you really deserve a break. Probably getting yourself a coffee or an ice cream would be a good idea. After your treat your mood will be lifted and you will be ready to face the day ahead.
• Australia
24 Mar 10
Don't say such things about yourself, because I am sure you can be stronger if you just put your mind to it. Look forward to the future and try not to look back at what has passed. I used to be someone who was quite weak in the past too, but after going through many trials and tribulations in life I have changed to be a stronger person. Hence, I am sure that you can be a strong person too....do cheer up!
@humairaku (2038)
• Indonesia
24 Mar 10
thanks for a very nice advice, buddy. yeah, I should increase my own strength in facing bad days cos frankly I think I'm a weak person and easy to give up. what a pity I am, right?
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
if i face the worst day like you i d take time and relax a bit. maybe have a nice hot shower to take all the heat off of me. then when i feel better ill go to sleep. ill treat the next day as a whole new one. kinda like a clean slate to make things right.
@vandana7 (99968)
• India
23 Mar 10
This makes a lot of sense!
@humairaku (2038)
• Indonesia
23 Mar 10
nice idea, buddy. I'm a person who are stuck on everything easily. so when I have a kinda problem, I'll be in it too long, too deep, that I can't breath. why I couldn't be more relax and put all down for a while? (sigh).
@Wahma60 (108)
• Philippines
24 Mar 10
Sometimes days like those happen. Do not worry. It will not last. Just think that tough times do not last but tough people do. Pray to God and He will help you through.
@humairaku (2038)
• Indonesia
24 Mar 10
you can have positive thoughts like that, you're great! sometimes when I'm down, I'm just slumped and full of bad thoughts. I should change that like what you've done. thanks for sharing, friend. it means much for me.
23 Mar 10
my worst day is when me and my husband misunderstanding what i rather to do is to keep silent don't say anything.. and i do something in cooking or eating fun so that i will never be too serious of what i felt.. and of course when it its worst i run to God and asking his divine mercy to control my angry or what so ever feelings and because of this things will be ok.
@humairaku (2038)
• Indonesia
24 Mar 10
hey, I often have problem like that, too! though we have been together for four years but I often have misunderstanding with my husband. build a good communication takes a long time, right?
@jd107nette (1454)
• Philippines
24 Mar 10
sounds bad enough humairaku... take it one at a time.. ^_^ if it was me, i would usually isolate myself and do something that would really interest me.. something like watching some video that would refresh my mind... ^_^
• Philippines
24 Mar 10
oh that's just really the worst. Me? I like to go out and walk outside if I'm really depressed, or go for a swim. Most of the time, I also would go to my favorite fastfood, and just eat. Hehehehe. Wendy's is like the comfort food for me, so I go there and just treat myself to a big burger, fries and drinks.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
25 Mar 10
Thankfully it doesn't happen on a regular basis that I have an absolutely awful, terrible day. However, like all people, it does happen to me from time to time. The thing that I will typically do when I'm having a day like that is to ask my hubby to keep an eye on the children so that I can take a nice, hot bath in peace with the book that I am currently reading. This usually does more for me than anything else to help me relax.
@amijor (234)
• Philippines
24 Mar 10
I usually end a bad day by indulging in one of my favorite treats: chocolate. I have it as an ice cream, cake or just as it is. The only problem with this coping is the way it makes my weight issue worse. But that's fine because I make it up by exercising which also helps me feel good.
@megamatt (14292)
• United States
24 Mar 10
There are a lot of days that seem really bad. For various reasons, some that come across as much much worse than others. No matter what, I cannot seem to do anything right and it always puts me in an awful mood. To the point where I start getting upset at everyone, even if they are not remotely connected to what is causing my bad day to happen. The day that I just want to just crawl into bed and start the day fresh. There is just a time to step back and take a few hours to reflect on everything that has happened. Try and calm myself down and try and not get too upset with what has happened. I take a couple of breaths and hope that everything will be better on the next day. Often times it is. I apologize to everyone that I have snapped at because of my bad day and then I try to move on with my life. There is no need to dwell on everything.
• India
24 Mar 10
solution for worst day is to do adjustment for managing the worst day and make some thing to relax myself
@rednet00 (15)
• Indonesia
25 Mar 10
if the worst day coming.. first thing i used to do is take a deep breath, wudhu and shalat and after that, read QS.Arrahmaan. It reminds me how Merciful HE is and how Unthankful I am. It can really make me calmed down. And take a short nap...
@bianx19 (19)
24 Mar 10
.this is my worst day.. because i haven't pass my clearance for today so i will not have yet my summer vacation because of that.. my teacher disappointed of that i promised that i will be passed my clearance but NOT.. haixt.. ..another one is my one and only best friend is my cellphone ..it's broken! hmpp.. this is my very unlucky day..
@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
24 Mar 10
my worst day happen last 2 years ago wednesday that i lost my job without my knowledge because company is for closer that is the day i receive my last salary.my solution from loosing job is to apply again and thank God i get job 3 weeks of applying.