If you can't enjoy life because you can't lose the weight, what do you do??!!

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United States
March 25, 2010 9:29pm CST
I am five feet six inches and weigh about 160 pounds. When I was fit and healthy, I used to weigh about 135 pounds. This is about two years before I got pregnant. Now I can't lose the weight no matter what I do. It's getting to the point where the entire thing is starting to depress me and I'm almost at my wit's end. What do you do when you get to that point? I understand loving yourself for who you are but I used to be a runner and I just want to get to that place again. What have you done that has really helped you lose the weight? How successful have you been? Would you say right now you are happy where you are in regards to your health, weight wise and other wise?
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@Shanyn (28)
• Canada
26 Mar 10
5'6" and 160 doesn't sound bad at all. It's only a little padding. I wouldn't worry about how it makes you look, if that's your concern at all. If you "used to be" a runner, I think you probably haven't lost that. Do you enjoy running for running's sake? If so, what's 25 extra pounds to stop you from doing what you enjoy? Sure it'll be a little rougher than you remember at first, but stick it out! Just run. :)
• United States
26 Mar 10
That is exactly what i will be doing. But i did need to hear it from someone.
@kaylachan (57630)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
26 Mar 10
You already know what's wrong. Now comes the time to do something about it. You can take steps to lose the weight or you could just sit in front of the computer and wonder what could have been. Or, you can schedule in an hour or even half an hour a day to do some running and get in shape. If you have small children consider a treadmill, or get your husband to watch the children while you took a jog. Forcing yourself to get back to doing what you love, eating right, and saying 'you can do it' are important keys to a successful lifestyle.
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@GardenGerty (157552)
• United States
26 Mar 10
This is advice I need to heed. I have lots of options available, and am not doing them, yet. I hope to see good progress with all of my friends here on MyLot. It is a helpful and inspiring place.
• Philippines
26 Mar 10
I am 5 feet flat and I weigh 177 pounds. As you see, I am obese. However, I do not make it stop me from being happy. I do sometimes wish I was thinner but I'm pretty all right. I haven't found the right time to exercise yet and I am planning to do that in the future. I've walked distances and went to gym for 4 weeks I think. I have to stop recently because I need the time to study for a really major exam. I am fat but I'm agile. I remember in our PE class when our activity was running. I ran alongside one of the thinnest classmates in our class. I know deep in her mind that she thinks "I can't be beated by this fat person" but we ended up running at the same speed. Since you love running, do it. Enjoy it and eventually, I hope you get back to your pre-pregnancy weight. Don't let your weight hinder you from being happy and never let what others think make you think less of you. You can do it!
• Philippines
26 Mar 10
I am 5'4 and I weigh 178 pounds, we have the same situation that sometimes I wished I was thinner but almost of the time I'm okay with my weight, I'm looking for the exercise plan that will let me enjoy doing it so that I wouldn't stop if I get bored...
• Philippines
26 Mar 10
Hi, I understand how you feel. I went through a thyroidectomy 3 years ago and I have been having problems with my weight because my thyroid stimulating hormone is abnormally high. I do all things the doc tells me and I am religiously taking my medications and it's still high. I'm not obese but I I certainly gained a lot. I used to weigh 119 lbs I am 5'5 and now I weigh 145 lbs. I alsowent through depression that I did not want to look myself in the mirror. there was a time I stopped socializing with my friends because I didn't like how I looked. But now I have come to terms about it. I buy clothes that flatter my figure instead of trying to dwell in the sizes I used to fit in. I took this pill that has slowly been helping me to burn down excess weight and it has helped in reducing my weight.
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• United States
26 Mar 10
I'm very happy for you that you were able to overcome that. When it is especially based on medical problems that were inevitable, I feel it becomes harder to be consolable about the weight gain. Mine was because of medication I was on as well and since then I have been unable to stop blaming myself for agreeing to take the medications in the first place. I really am inspired by you though. Good going and god bless.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
25 Jul 10
I would enjoy life with my weight haha
• Philippines
26 Mar 10
i really do understand.. but i don't think you still can't live life because of your weight.. im also weighing the same weight you have right now but it doesn't mean that that you don't enjoy life... be confident. show your curve.. i realize so much.. ive been dieting for my whole life... but still -- loose me hope.. but i read an article says if your happy it would be easier for you to manage losing weight. but if your stress and depress then you will never succeed.. now im confident to myself.. then lets hold hands.. that we can do it.. starting today -- motivate are self to be happy.. then do diet and exercise... ok... smile
• United States
26 Mar 10
That's very sweet of you zsazshie.You are right, I have been thinking a lot lately that if I allow myself to be happy, it would be easier to lose the weight. I just have to shake it of. We can do it, starting right now. I'm going keep smiling.
@GardenGerty (157552)
• United States
26 Mar 10
I have gained a lot of weight. I weigh more now than when I had my children. They are over thirty. My weight fluctuated a lot when they were little, and I did some stupid things to lose weight as well. I did begin losing once, about twelve years ago, right before I met my new husband. I was a widow, taking care of a lot of people, and he really likes padded women. I gained thirty pounds the first three months that I knew him and I hover around that high mark a lot. I have resources to lose weight, and I need to take advantage of them. I hope to get inspired here as well. I never was a runner, but I loved water exercise. It would be really fun to get to do that and teach it. Maybe you could coach someone to run, then you would be motivated to get back to doing it. Besides being happy, be sure not to starve yourself, and get enough sleep.
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
26 Mar 10
it took me a long time to loose weight after my youngest daughter was born, in fact, i have never lost all the weight but i have gone down significantly though.
@lyzabelle (1668)
• Philippines
27 Mar 10
I used to be healthy the overweight kind of staff but then I realized that it's not good for my health so I just eat three meals a day and don't eat snacks. I usually eat vegetables and fish...not so much on meat and other high cholesterol and calories foods. Now I can say I'm proud of my body.
@umit_umit (1984)
• India
26 Mar 10
well its very true,do exercises ,dieting from a good ditecian,the you can use sauna belts for shorter period,and then do some yoga also it also reduces weight you can see on the net!
@sayori (11)
• India
28 Mar 10
if want to loss your weight you not eat like salt suger and every day in morning drink lemon juice and don' eat heavy food
• United States
27 Mar 10
Just do care about your health no matter how the shape of your body..you don't need to be depressed because it's all in your head to start on things that you really enjoy..just open your mind and heart that no matter what ..you are always the best person in this world..okey?
@jinjer168 (1596)
• Philippines
26 Mar 10
i truly understand what you feel because i am like yours, mine is much worse than your case because i am onle five feet three inches and weigh 170 lbs. i am also chubby but not fat when im still single and gained enormous weight when i had my only child. What i recommend is to seek doctor's advice, surf the net for best possible weight losing techniques or perhaps asks others who trimmed their bodies successfully. Because me, iv'e surrendered already! i just think that i will remain fat for life.
@mitchann (303)
• Philippines
26 Mar 10
hi catalystnstars i do agree with the others lyk ms lipstik, and also dancing stuffs base on your height, your weight just falls on the normal body weight which is 160 lbs however, since you want to gain back your body just like before, i agree with the previous responses. dancing or going to the gym.it really helps. and not to mention your lifestyle.the food your taking. I think the key is discipline. You can do it. p.s. happiness is a choice.
@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
26 Mar 10
I have been trying to lose weight for a long time, and it is hard. I do walk everyday, weather permitting, and I do feel better after wards but I think that maybe since I do live alone that I have a tendency to eat more than I should and the wrong things. I am going to still keep on walking though and doing the best I can to lose weight. It seems the older I get the harder it is to lose weight. I have been overweight for a very long time, and I just get so frustrated as it is just not working for me. I am certainly not going to give up though. Take care, and have a very good day.
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
26 Mar 10
For me you must do exercise walking about i kilometer a day after you eat the food stand only for about 30minutes and drink juice that can fit in you waste.
• Philippines
26 Mar 10
Rule of the thumb..don't rush it. It doesn't happen overnight.If u expect drastic changes you might be frustrated feeling nothing is happening. You just start changing ur eating habits slowly.Of course you know the foods that you should not eat and foods you should eat. You probably doing everything to watch your diet, but maybe you are getting impatient. Just keep on maintaining a healthy diet, stay away from foods that shouldn't eat and just enjoy life while you are watching your diet. Don't lose hope. No pain..no gain. (^_^)
• Romania
26 Mar 10
I always practice kendo, I'm always in shape... simple and clean, practice a damn sport !
@setsuna26 (2751)
• Philippines
26 Mar 10
Im overweight too but hey that doesnt give me the reason not to enjoy life. Yes things that you do are a lil bit limited but still theres so much more that can explore. You just need to think and decide on what you want. Just make sure that whatever it is that your aiming for is somehow in line with the reality that your overweight.Recognizing what you are and aiming for what you want is the key for you to be satisfied then leading to be happy ;)