do you blame GOD??
By kiel_d_01
@kiel_d_01 (136)
Philippines
March 28, 2010 9:46am CST
for your failures?? for your life?? do you?? hmm... ...
why?? ... ... ...
10 responses
@blue65packer (11826)
• United States
28 Mar 10
I blame God and my parents for my life the way it has turned out. For all failures and everything else that is gone wrong in my life! If I was nurtured right by my parents I wouldn't struggled all my life to get were I am now! God could of given me better parents but didn't! Then He hasn't help me conquer my demons! So I blame Him,too! When I needed the help to be a better person I never got help from my parents and God! So I blame them! Big time!
@snoopyfan (1312)
• United States
28 Mar 10
So basically you blame everyone but yourself for how your life turned out. You didn't do anything to put you in the place you are in? It is not your parents fault or God's. I looked at your profile and at your age you should have understood by now the place you are in life is where you put yourself to be. Everyone struggles in life. Life is hard and never easy. At least you still have your parents mine are both deceased. I am glad I had the parents I had were they perfect no but they did the best they can. Do you have kids? I wonder who are they going to blame if they don't get everything handed to them on a silver platter. You said you blame God for not being a better person that is something you can do on your own. That is why He gave you free will. I am sure He was there for you and you didn't accept the help He was offering you.
Grow up and take some responsibility for your actions and stop blaming the world for all of your problems. If you want to succeed you need to work at it no one is just going to give it to you. What steps have you taken to improve yourself? None as far as I can tell I struggle all the time but I don't whine about my parents or God didn't do this and so and so didn't do that. Time for you to get over it and move on. Now you have a choice you can sit around and be angry at the world or get off your butt and do something to change it. And if you don't you have no one to blame but yourself.
@blue65packer (11826)
• United States
29 Mar 10
Alot of what I wrote is because of frustration. Getting older isn't helping either! I feel like I am going or heading for a mid-life crisis! Maybe a nerveous breakdown. Believe or not I do work on things but it takes me forever to improve myself! I feel I'll take great stides but in truth I'm taking little baby steps! Along the way I get stubborn to the point I get stupid! Then because I'm not a quick thinkier I somtimes get taken advantage off before I realize it! All this things have gotten my way and it sucks! I only have one child but he was given up at birth. That was one good thing I did and never regretted. Hopefully in time I'll stop blaming everyone in the world. I don't like blamimg myself because then I get depressed! Another issue I deal with!
@tnsct22810 (54)
• Philippines
28 Mar 10
I dont blame God in my Failure. If there is failure or not good happenevents happened or situation happened He just ewnat tocorrect my mistake .
God love us so much. He wants us to be saved from the sin. He wants us to follow his Teachings.
@snoopyfan (1312)
• United States
28 Mar 10
Amen JerusalemFolk what a beautiful answer. Your faith is very strong and you are right it is very important to have a relationship with God.
God Bless You
@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
29 Mar 10
Well no BUT I dont belive in any god nor do I believe there have been "failures" in my life..everything has happened for a reason with positive outcomes etc to them..
@bird123 (10632)
• United States
29 Mar 10
Sure I blame God for my life and my failures!!!! Thanks God for that is just what I needed to learn and grow and become the great guy I am today. I can't wait for that next great screwup. It's going to be glorious!!!! Just think how much I will learn from it all!! The most successful person has failure under their belts.Look up. Value your successes more than the stepping stones it took to get you there!!
@scja16 (322)
• Philippines
28 Mar 10
I dont because I know deep inside that it is me who should i blame with. I trust God with everything but I can say that before I didnt or may I say did have a doubt. But now I am so very happy that God is always there for us. We might not noticed it but God is always there to help and to guide. We just need to open our hearts and hear Gods words. By putting more faith and let God be our center of life.
For sure life will be more smoother if we accept God in our life. God bless
@Sir_bobby88 (8231)
• Singapore
28 Mar 10
why should i blame god ,because i think that is no god laugh out loud.
@gewcew23 (8007)
• United States
28 Mar 10
If I believed that a deity did exist did I would have a right to blame it for failures to my life and others life, but since I do not then my failures are just mine. The flip side to this is that all of my successes are mine. If a deity is not responsibly for my failures then it is not responsible for successes either.
@snoopyfan (1312)
• United States
28 Mar 10
God has given man free will so anything you fail at is not God's fault. I know God has been sending you a lot of help kiel. You just need to be strong enough to take it. Life is what you make it so make it a good one. As for my life I thank God for giving me a life. He is the one who created you and I know he doesn't create failures Kiel. I don't think you are a failure at all. When we make mistakes or don't reach our goal then you try and figure out how you can do it better. I am sure there are things that you are good at. Focus on them thank God for being healthy, having friends, having a roof over your head. Going through tough times are that tough but once you come out of it you will be stronger. God is just growing you up and He is trying to get your attention. He has something wonderful planned for you at the end of this trial. In fact when I get through my storm I thank Him for that as well. I have to tell you my friend there are many peaks and valleys in our life. We are going to have many ups and downs in life. That is just the way it is. I can only say from experience that with God I have gotten thorough them. I can't imagine what I would have done without Him in my life.
Peace
@arvindnair (45)
• India
28 Mar 10
I feel as a true believer i will never blame god, for me belief in god is complete and unquestioning a powerful and unending belief in his benevolence and larger design, every thing that can happenn is already decided so feeling sad, angry or frustrated by god is a waste of time :-)
