Can you live without your boyfriend/girlfriend now?
By markmoney
@markmoney (2868)
Philippines
April 8, 2010 10:59am CST
How’s your relationship now? Are you thinking that you love him/her so much that you cannot live without him/her? Are you thinking that he/she is your life and you can’t live a day without him/her? Are you thinking that your world is revolving around him? Our love partner is often the most special and most important person for us. We are feeling secured, contented, and comfortable every time they are with us. But despite of having sweet moments, we cannot avoid not to have bitter moments as well, such as when you have misunderstandings, arguments and quarrels. Sometimes it comes to the point that you are thinking to break up with him/her and leave him/her. What situation are you in now, on the sweet side or on the bitter one? So what do you think, can you live without your boyfriend/girlfriend now or not? Me even though we are having misunderstandings sometimes, I still cannot live without her coz I love her so much. How about you? I would be glad to hear from you. Have a nice day! Happy myLotting! 
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26 responses
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
8 Apr 10
For me, as much as we can, we should not give up. Have faith in the relationship and always think positive that every problems can be overcome and solved. Living without the owner of your heart is like killing yourself. Just believe that everything will be fine always. Thank you for your response Saph. Happy myLotting!
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@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
8 Apr 10
Hi arunvenu! You are very lucky that your girlfriend loves you so much. Yes, I really hope she will become your life partner. Good luck on both of you! Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting!
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@mesmerizer (110)
• India
8 Apr 10
Im so so glad that even in this busy world people all around the world are so much in love with each other.It seems like love will soon wipe out all sorrows on earth!!:)
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@my_name_is_coco (4334)
• Philippines
10 Apr 10
I don't have a boyfriend for almost 4 years already and I am still alive :). who says that your world will crumble when you don't have a special someone?our lives should be lived the way we want to,it shouldn't be dependent on someone else's presence.our happiness depends on us.I can totally say that I am happy even without somebody else.
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@wll521998 (109)
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9 Apr 10
here is the answer from one of my friend.first of all, i am still a bachelor.so my reply means little to your question. If i have a girlfriend, i think i could live without her and enjoy myself very well.
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@sheanne (440)
• Philippines
8 Apr 10
Hello Mark, my boyfriend and I are in a bitter side this time. We have an argument and it hurts to know that he's upset with me. I love my boyfriend so much and I don't think I can easily move on if we're going to separate our ways then. I am making ways and hope that we'll be ok soon. I always pray that he's the right man for me all along. Happy mylotting too.
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@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
8 Apr 10
Hi sheanne! First of all, let me just say you got a nice name. Well I just remember someone who have a similar name to yours, but with different spelling. 
Yes, it's really hurts so much being on the bitter side of a relationship. Despite of the bitterness, I still cannot live without her. Prayer really helps in fixing problems. Well like you, I am also praying that my girlfriend will also be my life partner. Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting!
Yes, it's really hurts so much being on the bitter side of a relationship. Despite of the bitterness, I still cannot live without her. Prayer really helps in fixing problems. Well like you, I am also praying that my girlfriend will also be my life partner. Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting! 1 person likes this
@mesmerizer (110)
• India
8 Apr 10
Im in a similar situation markmoney!! whatever my boyfriend does ,even if i hate it, I can never think of living without him.Its true that sometimes we fight over things and it ends up on a days break up. But soon after i feel very low and lost without him.I cant even spend a day without talking to him at least for once,even if it is not romantic talk,even if he shouts at me at times, I still wait all day to listen to his voice at least once.I really dont know whether its right to love someone so much,but cant help.
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@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
8 Apr 10
Hi mesmerizer! I am also like you, even how much sufferings I encounter with her, I will never leave her. It's always her sweetness that comes on top of my mind. I know misunderstandings and love quarrels are just normal in a relationship, so we should never give up. Actually I am also the type of person who loves so much, like you. Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting!
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@arakawaii (270)
• Philippines
9 Apr 10
Actually as of to date I'm now 22 and I never had boyfriend and Im fine with it... If I don't get one, its okay cause I've lived for 22 years without a bf then I can live another more years without him...
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@khalida (1126)
• India
9 Apr 10
wow! i am glad that u've the bitter side to it too. i used to be on that side where i would think it would be better off if we broke up but things were getting sorted out due to ptience and i am on the sweet side now for a long time! 
with time, i think relationships get stronger and its very hard to just break up or not to be in touch with the person you love!
with time, i think relationships get stronger and its very hard to just break up or not to be in touch with the person you love!1 person likes this
@wll521998 (109)
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9 Apr 10
1,yes
2,single
so for the rest,i dont i have thr ground to answer them.
sorry i could not provide too many useful answers for this theme.
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@jmservese (43)
• Philippines
9 Apr 10
I would love to live with my girlfriend with me right now.
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@jiraiyasanin (642)
• Philippines
9 Apr 10
yes 100% i can live without relationship, i much like it to stay single until i have a job, it so expensive having a GF although its so comfortable to have one with you that love you and you love, i prefer to have suitable job first before getting a GF
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@Noel1985 (48)
• Philippines
9 Apr 10
My ex-GF and I just broke up. Well, I think I can live without a GF. I mean without an intimate relationship, I can always reach out for my friends. Hang out with them and stay happy. I just moved on from a broken relationship and it feels great that I can now finally live my life again with the help of my cousins and friends. Right now, I may not have a love interest but for sure time will come that a special girl will be my better half.
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@shoeface (52)
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9 Apr 10
If you're dependant on your partner you will soon realise that you've lost your own life, and forgotten what you like to do yourself and the things you enjoy. It's good to be close to your partner and have mutual interests, but you can't become them. Personally I find it hard to have a close relationship without becoming almost dependant on them, but you should always know yourself, and be yourself in your relationship.
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@cloud31 (5809)
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9 Apr 10
I can't say I can't live without him for now I just hope he won't gone, I'm just thinking how to start if he's gone,in positive way,I think I can though I admit its hard to mange losing someone dearly to your heart it might cause negative outcome when if his gone, just hope for the best with him and not to focus how to live if hes already out of my sight.Happy myLotting
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@umit_umit (1984)
• India
9 Apr 10
well my girlfriend became my wife and now she lives separate cause of her job!i find it impossible to live without her!to say i cant live withput her!she is everything to me!
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