Is it ok to share a savings account with your love one??

@khaezi (1001)
Philippines
April 10, 2010 1:29pm CST
Hello to all!=) These days it's really important to save money to prepare for our future or to buy something that we really need as well as like.. But is it advisable to have your savings joined with your partner? Let's say for interest sake and for the reason that you both save it for future plans together like marriage or having a baby.. Would you share? Why and why not???=) Thanks to all!!!..God Bless you guys..=)
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@FrugalMommy (1438)
• United States
10 Apr 10
I have a couple of joint accounts with my husband, but I also have my own checking and savings account. The checking account was one I opened so I could get paid for some work I did. The savings account is one I keep open for long-term savings. I'm not a very impulsive buyer. My husband is. He knows I stash money and he's okay with it. He's more likely to spend it if he knows how much is there, so he lets me handle all of that.
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@khaezi (1001)
• Philippines
11 Apr 10
Hello FrugalMommy!=) Yeah I'm also planning to open a savings account for my earnings here..Wow I think you've been handling your money wisely..=) Yeah between both of us he is the spender lol..that's why I'm having a second thought of opening an account together with him lol..just kidding..=) Thanks and Happy Mylotting..=)
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
10 Apr 10
as long as you trust your partner i guess. i have a seperate account as well as a joint account however, we have been married for 22 years!
@khaezi (1001)
• Philippines
11 Apr 10
Hi cher913..=) Yup I trust him very much..=) Wow! nice to hear that=) 22 years is long enough to say that your relationship is very strong..=) Back to our topic lol I think that's a good idea to have two accounts one is your personal and the other is for joint with your partner..=) Thanks and Happy mylotting..=)
• Hong Kong
11 Apr 10
Hello cher913 Good that you have a seperate account, I like that idea as both of each other can have some privacy. Hello khaezi No matter how much you trust him. It's better keep some secrets for yourself.
@khaezi (1001)
• Philippines
11 Apr 10
Hi HelloMickey!=) Lol yeah you are right..it's a good thing to have personal accounts just in case you have an emergency or just for the reason of being secured financially for yourself alone..=) Thanks and Happy mylotting..=)
@Galena (9110)
11 Apr 10
we have separate current accounts, but also a joint savings account. we use it for things like holidays and treats, and before the wedding we used it for that. it was useful for a lot of the money people gave us towards the wedding, and after as a wedding present. I think it's better to have separate accounts for day to day stuff. just so neither of you feel like you need to run any money you spend on yourself past the other. but a savings account together is a good thing to have.
• India
10 Jul 10
Hello khaezi i have worked as professor for more than 40 years , am retired now, i had saved regularly, they were made fixed deposits in various banks, in all accounts my wife and son are joint accout holders.. i earn interst regularly on that... Thanks for sharing. Welcome always. Cheers.
@wll521998 (109)
11 Apr 10
if just during the appointment period , i dont thikn i can do that. but if we get married,i dont mind to share it with my husband.i will get two saving account,one is for we two,and the other one just for myself.
@puccagirl (7294)
• Israel
30 Jun 10
It would depend on how long I was with that person. If it is a new relationship, then probably not. If you are already married and have been together for a long time, then it is different. But I think it is best to keep the accounts separated in most cases, just to be sure. You never know what will happen in the future, even if you are in love now!
@34momma (13882)
• United States
11 Apr 10
i think it's a great idea to have a shared savings account. for things you want for your future together. however, it is just as important to have your very own personal savings account as well. to have your own money for your own future. open an account for the two of you, but make sure you have your own savings account.
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
11 Apr 10
only if you are married to them, why because ive seen this too many time a b/f and g/f share the same saving account then they break up and someone will take all the money. and if you are married make sure your name is on the acount. i do someone who is married and her name isnt on none of the accounts its her husband and his dad. so she cant get to the money at all. but i think a female should have her own account just in case something happen in the marrage. so she can be indepance
• Philippines
11 Apr 10
yes it is possible unless you have a trust in your partner
• Philippines
11 Apr 10
NOOOOOOOO! Don't make a joint acount with your lover unless you get married and have kids. Better yet have it when you have kids already. Gosh! I don't share my savings account to anyone. We never know what will happen in the long run.Who knows you won't end up together. Don't do it yet. Please think of the possibities.Think it over. P.S. This is just my opinion. This is subject to rejection.LOL.Do what you think is best. Happy mylotting!
@ghieptc (2522)
• Philippines
11 Apr 10
I think there is an advantage of making a saving account with your love one because you trust each other and you preparing for marriage expenses etc. Also the disadvantage if you have quarrel, how do you separate your own money? It depends on the consequence of the situation.
@yresh12 (3212)
• Philippines
11 Apr 10
hi Khaezi! It's really up to you.. You should ask this questions to yourself Do I trust my partner? Will he pay me? Even if you are engage or plannin to get married, there are lots of things that are going to happen and you can't be to sure if he's going to pay you!
@boknacil (23)
• Indonesia
11 Apr 10
everybody have a privacy, i do agree about sharing things but not everything. :)
@caliya (1170)
• Philippines
11 Apr 10
if you're relationship is already established and you have trust to each other then it's fine to share a bank account but just to be safe it would be good that you also have your own separate account. life can be full of surprises sometimes so you'll never know.