How many guys of u can win a scholarship?

China
April 16, 2010 5:06am CST
I've been studied for years, but I never win a schoolship. It will be the huge shame of my life. I try so hard 2 prove I'M not that bad, and nothing changed, how could it do this 2 me, If i can't win one in the left 2 years, I don't know how 2 face 2 my dad
4 responses
• Philippines
17 Apr 10
your situation now is my situation also I've been studied for six years but i never win but my dad said its ok,I know you do your best.so don't worry!!. i know your dad he will be understand. if you can't win this time.maybe the next year...
• China
18 Apr 10
It is not just about the scholarship , If I CAN'T win one, it means I'm not on the top of my class not talk about our school, It is a very big deal, I feel like I'm unworthy of my parents' effort 2 bring me 2college
@setsuna26 (2751)
• Philippines
16 Apr 10
I was granted full scholarship sometime ago when i was still studying.Well it didnt last long because i didnt met with the requirements but at least i was able to reach full scholarship in the end.There are alot of opportunities for scholarship, like you can be a varsity player or maybe academic scholar. Just find your calling, i mean where are you suited the most then you will find your strength. And you will you if you are capable to become a scholar
• China
16 Apr 10
THank u , I should be pay more attion on what i like and find out what i really want ,that maybe help , i wish
@kar295rocks (2116)
• India
16 Apr 10
Don't feel bad about that! Well, I have won many scholarships and I am doing my tenth grade and I have won scholarships upto 30,000 Rupees - approx. 670 Us $. Just work Hard and do not worry about your dad. Just show him that you have other better talents other than just academics.
• China
16 Apr 10
thank u ! i just don't think i can handle it ,, and i almost lose myself, and can't find any other talents myself, so bad hah, maybe I will change one day ,but it never be rightnow ,,so sorry 2 my life
• Philippines
16 Apr 10
First off, I feel bad that you should feel that your father will be very disappointed in you. How sure are you that your father will think less of you if you don't get the scholarship? True, they will be extremely happy if you get the scholarship, and man will it be a big help. But did you ever try to ask your father just how disappointed he will be if you don't get that scholarship? Did you ever try to quietly ask him if he will love you less if you don't win that scholarship? All parents want the best for their children and no less. They most especially want to see you learn and stand up on your own, and make the best of yourself. But they also know how to accept the children they have as they are. Sometimes parents don't know the best way to show it, and all you'll be seeing is the wishful thinking they have for you to do your best and succeed in every trial that comes your way. Gather up your courage, get that anxiety out of the way. Ask your father just how disappointed he might get if you don't get that scholarship. Next, I don't believe there's no way for you to get that scholarship. It all depends of course. If you're the kind of student where every little thing will sink in without having to do much studying then you won't have a hard time studying. Scholarships are no joke. If you're really aiming to get it, then you'll have the right perspective. If you're the kind that really needs to study, and gets high grades because you're studying through and through, then study everyday. If there's something you need to read, read your books, and read ahead. Research on topics brought up in class, and love it. Participate a lot in class for extra credit, plus it's a sure-fire way to remember the topics you took up in class. I'm the kind of student that writes down everything my professor says. I admit that I'm not able to answer all questions in the exam, because i only study about 3 days before the exam, and sometimes in between. Everything is in my notes, and i remember it easily because when I take notes, I draw at the same time, helping me to remember the topics. And then when i don't have anything to do, since I'm fascinated by the pictures in my notes, i get to study at the same time. I wish you all the luck and the strength you'll need for the next two years. I hope you get that scholarship. And just in case you don't, I know you'll get a helluva grade that will surely make your parents proud!
• China
16 Apr 10
thank u very much for ur advices, It's so useful for me now, I feel lost for a long time , maybe I'll cheer myself up If I pick up ur idea, how great U R