apoljuice1

@apoljuice1 (730)

Philippines • Age 40

Joined myLot 14 years ago

The Only Constant Thing in this World is Change.

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Im so scared for my daughter

Charlene Sally Collins @OreoBrownie (3755) • Commerce, Georgia 27 Nov 16

I can't change how I feel. On the outer part of my spirit I am apathetic, but on the inside I feel broken. My daughter almost succeeded in killing herself. My thoughts are that suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary...

scared

daughter

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apoljuice1 I'm praying with you. Have faith, and let your faith be bigger than your fears. God Bless

29 Nov 16

bad night

Kokil agarwal @amitkokiladitya (171936) • Agra, India 28 Nov 16

Yesterday I posted about a great dinner party with a bunch of lovely friends... Then it was followed by a bad night where I did not catch any sleep. Because my kid was uneasy about something and cried all night..I tried all means...

good

bad

together

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apoljuice1 I've always been convinced that my life is somewhat like this. Like, if I'm too happy today, I can expect later on, something really bad will happen. And me laughing so hard or having so much fun would automatically kick in that worry in and so I'd end up...

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My Facebook Relationship

YoghurtGal @flapiz (22402) • United Kingdom 3 Nov 12

This is my first time to engage in an online relationship ever. I am not sure if I am doing the right thing or not. But it feels right to me. The problem is I do not trust my partner. I think it is very hard to trust someone...

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apoljuice1 It's never easy handling online relationships. Human beings are born and raised to interact with people physically, not through cyberspace, or something intangible as that. It can be hard to understand that kind of relationship you have. There are so many...

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I giving him until the end of the month

911Ricki @911Ricki (13588) • Canada 3 Nov 12

I am suppose to go back the 28th of November for the depo birth control shot. I have the colonoscopy the 23rd, and my transfusions through the month. According to my doctor everything is caused by the low iron. He said as soon...

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apoljuice1 It sounds gruesome what those shots are doing to you? Why not use birth control pills instead? Your body's hormones are being repressed by those shots and if your body isn't able to function like it should, you're going to keep getting these kinds of...

4 Nov 12

I Now Pronouce You someone else!?

sarahruthbeth22 @sarahruthbeth22 (43143) • United States 29 Sep 12

I just saw this as a title of a book by Erin McCahan and it made me wonder. How many people completely change after getting married. I do not mean they get better , more mature and happier . I mean they go from nice to be with to...

marriage

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apoljuice1 I do believe people change eventually. Some for the better, some for worse, some not at all. My husband changed a lot. He was really different when he was still single and now that he's married. When he was single, all he though about was partying. The usual...

30 Sep 12

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i had to choose different circle of friends

lisasarah123 @lisasarah123 (93) 29 Sep 12

i had to choose a different circle of friends last year one of my so called friends try ed it on with my husband i have been married for 11years and she has a boyfriend and she has children also but it took my husbands boss to...

friend husband circle of friends

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apoljuice1 It must be really hard having all of that going on. Sometimes I don't understand why people who are not content with what they have need to involve people who are content with what they have. I can probably understand that they don't like what they have at the...

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Can you sleep without your favourite gee-gee?

Shavkat @Shavkat (137189) • Philippines 25 Sep 12

I just remembered my youngest sibling when he was still a toddler, he can't sleep without his gee-gee. That is, his fave blanket. He used to grab the blanket with the manner of crampling a piece of paper. He feels terrified and...

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apoljuice1 My daughter is the same way. She has a stuffed lion that she's had since she was a baby. She could not go to sleep without it. Sometimes, it's even one of the things that would put her to sleep if she lying on the bed just watching tv. The moment she drapes...

26 Sep 12

You have to give up things to be an adult

911Ricki @911Ricki (13588) • Canada 20 Aug 12

My brother and his girlfriend live in another world. They are 18 neither work, and have no goals. They say we have each other, and thats all that counts. I was sitting eating breakfast laughing in my head at how stupid both...

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apoljuice1 The girl obviously doesn't know what she's talking about. Yeah, you don't have to stress yourself about it. They will find out for sure, on their own. I'm working now, and have been for the last 7 years. Not as long compared to others. But in the 7 years that...

21 Aug 12

Who will pay the bills?

marketing07 @marketing07 (6266) • South Korea 20 Aug 12

Hello mylotters friend, i dont know what to do. my husband come home, and he give me a bills, he ask me to pay the bills,i ask him about the bills.he said to me that his mothers house is his property, and now that my mother inlaw...

electric bills

gas bills

household bills

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apoljuice1 I could understand why your husband might offer to pay for the house. Perhaps because his brother isn't as capable of paying and because it might be bigger trouble if they lose the house and have no where to go. But paying for the entire property on his own...

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You love him but your friends don't like him!

Lingling89 @Lingling89 (88) • Philippines 21 Aug 12

There's this guy who courted me in one month's time. My friends already knew him, and he doesn't really have a good feedback from his past. They say he's not into a serious type, has many girls, or always out drinking. But during...

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apoljuice1 I know how it feels to have a boyfriend that people don't seem to think is the right person for you. Before my husband and I got married, my friends and my colleagues thought my guy was bad news. He surely didn't look like my boyfriend because of the way he...

21 Aug 12

What annoys you about facebook?

barbiesacol88 @barbiesacol88 (202) • Philippines 20 Aug 12

Facebook has a lot of users, especially Filipinos. I, for one, check my account regularly. But lately, I get annoyed at some users who are so bored with their lives they don't know what to do. Here are some things that annoy...

annoying

facebook

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apoljuice1 I also get annoyed with game requests. I don't usually play games, and unless it can generate income, it's pretty much a waste of time. I just block those requests from my account completely, and if ever I receive new requests, I block those, too. I haven't...

21 Aug 12

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it is harder to be more productive at home

hotsummer @hotsummer (13835) • Philippines 20 Aug 12

i guess because the atmosphere at home is different unlike when i go out to the cafe that i can do nothing else than just sit in front of the computer and do nothing else than be online. but at home, i am tempted to lie down. and...

productive

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apoljuice1 That's so true. I work at home, and sometimes when I'm doing research, I find my attention wandering from whatever it is I'm doing. Instead of being able to finish a job in three hours, it takes me six hours to complete all because I suddenly find myself...

21 Aug 12

Secretary Robredo is dead

namiya @namiya (1713) • Philippines 20 Aug 12

Secretary Robredo is dead. Hes body has been retrieved past 8am this morning inside the fuselage found between 150-180 feet deep underwater. The whole country mourns for the death of an honest and very dedicated official of our...

plane crash

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apoljuice1 It is very sad to hear what happened to Secretary Robredo. I actually read he was found 400 feet deep underwater. What a way to go. But there is a reason why this has happened, and this is part of God's plan. This might be a wake up call to the people, this...

21 Aug 12

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Unnecessary Holidays...Or Holidays you Think Should be Created..

Jshean20 @Jshean20 (14349) • Canada 20 Aug 12

So I know this will be a wide open discussion based on how different countries operate differently, this is what will make the discussion interesting to follow. Here in Canada we have a holiday called "Family Day", it takes place...

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apoljuice1 i think Family day is there during the working months so that it's another way for people to get time off from work so they can be with their family. Of course, it's time away from work, and if you're needing the work, then that wouldn't help. The Philippines...

21 Aug 12

Feeling Stressed Music

KrauseHome @KrauseHome (36448) • United States 18 Aug 12

I know there are many of us who Love to listen to different types of music. Some of them could be for times we are feeling down, Happy, tired, relaxed, and then there are times we listen to certain types of things because we're...

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apoljuice1 I always turn to Christian Music as well. There's nothing like the knowledge that God is there ready and waiting for us to unload everything we've got so that he can put peace in our hearts in times of trouble.

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Do we need to go to college?

Lastbrother @Lastbrother (171) • United States 18 Aug 12

I've recently read similar articles about how college doesn't even guarantee a safe job in the future now. Instead, some companies are giving thousands of dollars to students to NOT go to college. They encourage students to spend...

college

job

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apoljuice1 I think going to college is important because no matter if you think other people out there can get a job without graduating, it would be helpful for when you want to get a job abroad. They usually require college graduates. And besides, those who finish...

19 Aug 12

My SIL and DH

viakri @viakri (123) • United States 2 Jul 12

Ok readers, this is going to be a long one! My husband and I have been together for over 9 years now. He has an older sister who he was always very close to. Before I came along, they did everything together. When my husband and...

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apoljuice1 That sounds like a lot. I have had some run-ins with my SIL, but nothing that serious. That sounds very serious. I don't blame you for not wanting your kids to go over there: who knows what they might pick up from her house? It's a good thing whenever anything...

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sometimes ya just gotta say no

Suebee @Suebee (2013) • Canada 2 Jul 12

...and stick to your guns. I work part-time in a nursing home. I am guaranteed only 5 shifts in a pay period (two weeks) but I do pick up extra shifts, often working full time hours. I picked up two extra shifts this weekend...

guilty feelings

saying no

work

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apoljuice1 I know I don't. Not especially if I know I'm tired, or I need to spend some time at home. I mean, I fulfill the required number of hours at work. If they ask me to work longer and I can manage it, why not? I also think that if other people can refuse working...

14 Jul 12

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Why is it so hard to sell our old house?

bulastika @bulastika (5966) • Philippines 13 Jul 12

My parents died now. We have a big old house our parents live and stayed for the last 40 years of their life's but now that they are resting and we live far away already. We decided to cell the old house than maintain it. since...

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apoljuice1 I understand. I can imagine that it's going to be very hard to sell the house, especially knowing it's status. Imagine if it's already a landmark, then it must have a special status already! But if you have to be practical about things, then I suppose you will...

13 Jul 12

Why is it so hard to sell our old house?

bulastika @bulastika (5966) • Philippines 13 Jul 12

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apoljuice1 Have you tried suggesting to rent the house instead of selling it? The house holds sentimental value I'm sure as you've probably stayed in that house as well for the most part of your life. If ever you want to take a vacation, you can move back to this house...

13 Jul 12

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