still waiting

Philippines
April 17, 2010 6:27am CST
is it true that if you dream someone like your ex means he still in love with you and waiting for you and someday you will meet him? because i do, a lot of times and it makes my mind bother. specially now i have someone. And someone is in my dream. is it me who is still in love with and cant let him go? how about you? do you experience this?
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12 responses
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
17 Apr 10
Well ericjohn, I think that it's the other way around. I would assume that you're still in love with her... I know how it feels because I have just experience this kind of scenario... I hope that you can really deal with it.
• Philippines
17 Apr 10
well the last time i dreamed oh him, he told me in my dream that i don't love you anymore. isnt that funny. anyway dont be confused if i use the word HIM. its because i am a lady.
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
12 Sep 10
the one thing that u should do is try to change your point of view, thus u can change your mind too about it. if u believe that there would be another man, and not this guy...sooner or later u will find a great guy
@dbeast (1495)
• India
17 Apr 10
Yeah,I do agree with most of the responses.It means you are thinking about your ex if you are dreaming about him.It could be that you are just thinking about the way things used to be back then.It is always difficult to get over the past.One scarred remains that way forever.Do not be confused and have fun.Life is too precious to be confused about.
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
18 Apr 10
Oh, that would be something very wrong. Hehehe.. Does this mean that my school teacher in my elementary time is in love with me or I to him???? because I dream about him alot. I think it's the subconscious. I think it's just your brain or memories being gathered up by the subconscious. Unless you're really thinking about the person or the situation a lot. About waiting. I don't believe anyone is truly waiting. The person will only be in 'waiting' if she/he is not courted with someone else. When he/she is fancied by someone, the 'waiting' period ends.
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
18 Apr 10
For me yes I'm dreaming before but it is not true about the dream not allowed in this time that we can see inn the dream about our future if it is happened that you are to each other then no matter hoe far you are now you meet again.
@rumshie (186)
• Philippines
17 Apr 10
i think it's not true. lol. that would be funny. i think you're the one who can't let go and still waiting for him. If you really want to know how he feels as of now, then ask him directly so that in the end, there'll be no "WAHT IFS" and he said he still likes you then that's good. and if he said he loves you no more then let hhim go. be open to your next possible lovelife. :)
@monkeylong (3139)
• Guangzhou, China
17 Apr 10
As far as I am concerned, I think I am still waiting for my love yet. For such a long time, I live in a gingle life,which I just dream to get rid of. But till now, I am still waiting for its coming . But the former girl friend, I think I may a little wait for her, I do not want to lose her. Actually, she has gone , will never come back. But I think at the moment that I find a new girl friend ,she has some pain in her heart. She is waiting for me.
@pwang41 (134)
• Philippines
17 Apr 10
recently i do dream a lot of my ex. in my dream it was like our relationship before. i even ask myself why do i dream of him though we no more talk to each other. he already have a girlfriend and though i'm still single, i am over him and i even like a new guy. they say dreams are our deepest desires but some also says that if we dream of someone, that person is thinking of you. i didn't allow myself to be bothered with these dreams and so should you because you already have someone now. just consider as a dream because if you allow yourself to be bother it might affect what you feel for him and the relation of your special someone.
@npadecio (161)
• Philippines
17 Apr 10
Hey erichjohn! I don't think it's true since we can don't have the capability to choose our dreams, it's a random event. Some say that if you think too much about this person or a thing, you will dream of it sooner or later. Well, I don't know about that, but it hasn't worked for me yet, lol! To add, day dreaming is another situation. It is you who controls your thoughts toward something and someone. Listen to your heart and feel what you really want, dreams can be taken into situation sometimes but look after the present situation. :)
@oxio10 (135)
• Philippines
17 Apr 10
I dont think its true. If you dream of your ex then probably you still keep thinking about you past relationship and still hope to meet your ex. I believe that you eventually forget the person of your past when you're happy with your current partner. I mean if you keep dreaming of your ex then you are not moving on. It might also ruin yourself and your current relationship. Let go of the person who don't love you anymore and left you behind,stop thinking about him, start focusing on your current relationship. :)
@Tangeryne (412)
• India
17 Apr 10
but u know, the sad part is that the dreams only mean one thing, that that person is till on ur mind n u think about the person so much that while ur sleepin, ur sub conscious mind tries to create a situation which you feel may come true in the future..like reuniting u with ur ex..what i'm tryin to say is the dreams are in noway a premonition but just sumthin ur sub conscious mind has come up with to calm you..that's how i see it, i'm going through the same thing as u
@Tangeryne (412)
• India
17 Apr 10
omg..my thoughts exactly..i still dream and hope it does come true that my ex gets back to me soon ( though he's married now) i just wish he would leave everything and come back to me. there's not a day that goes by that i don't think of him. he's always on my mind, every other guy i see looks like him, reminds me of him..i dunno if i'm goin insane