How pretty/handsome was your special someone?

@jinjer168 (1599)
Philippines
April 19, 2010 5:31pm CST
Hello myLotters! Just curious to ask a little bit, if how pretty or how handsome your special someone was. True enough, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. We have a different gauge in measuring one's appearance but im glad to know your point of view with regards to seeing your partner's physical or innermost beauty. One more thing, does physical attributes/appearance matters to you when choosing your gf/bf/husband? I will be happy to hear you! Have a nice day ahead everyone!
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21 responses
@laglen (19779)
• United States
20 Apr 10
He isnt a GQ kind of guy. But in my opinion, he is the sexiest man I have ever been near. I find him very handsome. But even more important, he has a great sense of humor, has the biggest heart, he is intelligent, inventive and has such an astounding mind! The first thing that attracted me to him, his beautiful green eyes, then his mind! Oh yeah and he has that southern charm thing working for him!
@jinjer168 (1599)
• Philippines
20 Apr 10
Hello laglen!You are truly fortunate having a special someone just like like him. A man with a great sense of humor was a true envy of many girls out there! Imagine the fun that he can gave you every time he's around! he's a fortune really plus the intelligence, kindness, inventive and a astounding mind as his great qualities, definitely, you're man was a great catch and no wonder that he makes you fall for him that much. THanks for hearing your response laglen and keep on loving each other, Good luck!
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@laglen (19779)
• United States
21 Apr 10
Thank you for your kind words. I a really am very fortunate!
@jinjer168 (1599)
• Philippines
22 Apr 10
You are very much welcome laglen, have a wonderful day ahead and stay in love with your hubby and your family!
• Philippines
10 Jun 10
oh word, i''m so enthusiastic about answering this! well, the special one is really tall, 6'5 so he's exactly a foot taller than i am. i didn't like him at first because he seemed too fit and for some weird reasoning, i don't like guys who are too buffed...but he's a surfer and that's just how his body developed. he has beautiful blue green eyes that sort of go downwards, you're reminded of Jesus' eyes in pictures. anyway, i like him not because of how he looks but because he's devoted to what he does and i always fall for the ones who could talk about God so freely.
@jinjer168 (1599)
• Philippines
10 Jun 10
Hello there myswirlyagelessmind! Well, i just knew why you're very enthusiastic to answer my discussion, this is because you're in love and proud of your man! If i were in your shoes, i will surely feel that way as well. No doubt about why you fall for this kind of person, with the way you describe him im pretty sure that he's really deserving to be loved. He exudes manly appeal and good attitude for sure, because man of God is a man of good qualities too. Stay in love with each other and more power to both of you!
@khalida (1130)
• India
22 Apr 10
well i haven't given appearance the priority while choosing my bf, cause it was more about emotional attachment for me and my life has changed as hell for the better after he has come into my life! beauty really lies in t5he eyes of the beholder but one more thing is that you can judge a person by his looks when you don't know them. once you get to know them, it becomes hard to judge them don't you think? as we like that person it becomes difficult to judge i believe!
@jinjer168 (1599)
• Philippines
22 Apr 10
Hi there khalida! Yes, beauty really lies in the eye of the beholder. Many people will agree that even a plain looking individual can become a gorgeous one if that person exudes a good character and personality. The inner beauty of a person will surely reflect in his/her physical appearance thus make him/her good looking to the eye of his loved one. Thank you so much khalida and take care!
@meng23 (146)
• Philippines
21 Apr 10
Honestly I don't know if its co insident or it is just my taste. I do attracted with man who has a chinese eyes, or japanese, . I just get interested with them and commonly attached with me. But in choosing someone I will be in relation is the attitude is very important. Almost all of my boyfriends are those I really somehow turn off with. Sometimes the man I hate most.Because of attitude. I can't explain. But thankful because when we became boyfriends I see that the one I've seen is the negative one. I learned that they have a beauty that was kept inside. They prove many things to me thats why I can say I got the right choice.
@jinjer168 (1599)
• Philippines
22 Apr 10
Hello meng! I think you are attractive as well being an apple of the eye of this chinese eyed guy. It's true that attitude was far more important than physical appearance, but if you got someone who was beautiful inside and out, then you are very lucky finding that special person as your love one. Good luck to you and thanks for your response!
@ifa225 (11097)
• Indonesia
20 Apr 10
MY husband is tall. I choose him because of that . I am short o I want to have someone tall to help me when i could not reach something tall
@jinjer168 (1599)
• Philippines
22 Apr 10
Hello ifa! Lucky you that your wish came true, you want someone who is tall and you've got your tall husband. Good luck to both of you and keep on loving each other. Have a nice day ahead!
• Malaysia
20 Apr 10
well, i dont find my girlfriend pretty nor ugly.. i juz luv the way she looks.. coz she is who she is.. my girlfriend.. i dun judge her by her looks..
@jinjer168 (1599)
• Philippines
22 Apr 10
Hi there azfarrahimi! im glad that you sees your girlfriend just like that, you didn't judge her for her looks alone. Yes indeed, there's so much more than just good looks, there's so many reasons why one person will fall in love with someone despite the fact that he/she was only plain looking. Our hearts can see who should we fall in love with not our eyes i guess. Good luck and thanks for your response!
@mackiejp (376)
• Philippines
20 Apr 10
Well, First, I look at the physical attributes of a person then afterward I go for his innermost appeal. My husband is really a good looking man with strong appeal to girls of his age and my age during that time we met. Perhaps, I was the kind of girl he wanted to be for a GF so I won the race; I got him...lol... In spite of his being a good looking I eventually have known his inner beauty as we went further in our relationship. He is sincere to his words and never runs out of surprises. Never forgets the memorable events we've shared since we started dating. I would be a liar if I'd say that physical attributes isn't a matter to me, of course it's one of the things I look at to and of course I will consider also the attitudes.
@jinjer168 (1599)
• Philippines
22 Apr 10
Hello mackiejp! Wow! congratulations for having a husband like him. You are very fortunate having someone who is beautiful inside and out, a boyfriend who was very romantic and lovable was really a nice catch, continue to love each other and i do hope for the success of your relationship. Nice to hear your response! take care and stay in love!
@gracie04 (4554)
• Philippines
20 Apr 10
Well, my partner's a real cutie. the first time i saw rich, i fell in love with her instantly. i pm-ed her to say hi and i was surprised to get a reply from her as there are more attractive people out there. having a partner who is good looking is a plus to everything. she isn't only beautiful physically but inside as well.. the inside is what matters the most. i am so blessed to have a loving and caring partner like her..
@jinjer168 (1599)
• Philippines
22 Apr 10
Hello gracie! I am so glad to know that you've found a perfect partner to love you for who you are. You've got a very nice pick in her, just imagine that you've got a beautiful someone who is not only beautiful in outside appearance but also beautiful inside as well. Do take good care of your relationship and i do hope that you'll stay happy together, forever... Thanks for hearing your response and stay in love!
• India
20 Apr 10
well as expressed earlier as you look at the book its cover attracts n the name first n later are the content the cover cannot substitute content a very loving guy and respects more the feminine intelligence n quality faminiti later cheers.
@jinjer168 (1599)
• Philippines
22 Apr 10
Hi ashimeye! I got your point there, true enough, we see only the physical attributes of one person first, but what's important was to know his/her real substance by getting to know his/her inner qualities and traits. Thanks a lot and stay happy!
@mokkka (883)
• Bulgaria
20 Apr 10
In opinion not the appearance but the personality in fact is what matters most.The man I love since 5 years is not pretty at all.I know that because I see my friends' reactions.They always say how could such a pretty firl be with that old chap.But in fact when they all hear him talking and see the way he loves me they understand me.
@jinjer168 (1599)
• Philippines
22 Apr 10
Hello mokkkha! Yes indeed, its true that character and personality was more important than physical beauty, for physical beauty fades when we get old. You are very lucky for having your man just like him. Continue your love for each other and im sure that you will be very happy being in love. Thanks a lot for hearing your response, good luck to both of you and have a nice day!
• India
20 Apr 10
not always ultimately how you carry yourself that speaks more of the beautiful brain n as expressed in your eyes n personality cheers do send query its a step more towards possitive attitude in social networking cheers
@jinjer168 (1599)
• Philippines
22 Apr 10
Hello ashimseye! yes indeed, a person with intelligence and good personality are really beautiful to the eye regardless of his physical appearance. It's because the beauty we saw was beauty from within and it was reflected to the totality of the looks of one individual. Thanks a lot and have a nice day!
@rinzgca (317)
• Philippines
20 Apr 10
I think my honey is cute. One of my friends said he's cute. Hmm. Well, even before I met him, I already had a set of standards that I wanted to have in a boyfriend. Some of the physical requirements (lol) was that he should be taller than me. If possible, he shouldn't be fat. Just lean. And... he's not hairy, if possible. lol. When it comes to face value, I wanted a guy that looks handsome or cute for me. Even if all my friends think he looks like crap but I think he's handsome, then that's ok. :)) Chinitos or those with almond shaped eyes. :D Of course, I still had other standards. But as far as the physical standards go, that's all. :D
@jinjer168 (1599)
• Philippines
22 Apr 10
Hello rinzgca! Well i think that almost all of us have this so called set of standards when choosing a possible candidate to be our love ones. Sometimes, our criteria was met, sometimes it's just okay and sometimes not at all. I just wish you the best together with your honey and may you continue being in love with each other. Thanks for your response and take care!
• Bulgaria
20 Apr 10
I think its important the physical and the innermost beauty.
@jinjer168 (1599)
• Philippines
22 Apr 10
Hello renivelkova! YEs, its true, innermost beauty was a very important quality each of us i wish should have. Others believe that physical beauty was also an essential quality that they're future love ones should have. We all differs with our preference but i believe that being in love regardless of physical attraction was a true measure to tell if you really love that person truly. Thanks and have a great day ahead!
• Philippines
20 Apr 10
My special someone is not much handsome. But He has a full heart man. He is so loving, and most of all he like a bestfriend to me. He always be there for me and always give his sholder tocry on. I can say the special someone is also has space here in my heart.
@jinjer168 (1599)
• Philippines
22 Apr 10
Hello lovelysassygirl! Well, you are very lucky indeed for having a friend and lover rolled into one, Your special someone was in love with you so much for he was always there with you and ready to lend a helping hand and a shoulder to cry on whenever you needed him. Its just okay to have a love one that is plain looking for as long as you love him and he loves you in return as well. Good luck to both of you and nice to hear your thoughts!
@airakumar (1555)
• India
20 Apr 10
Hi there, My special one is my husband and he is so smart and intelligent. What I really like about him is his love and caresses. He loves me so much and he knw how to handle the situation too. His appearance is dashing. I like his physical as well as mental level. I am lucky that I got a combination all in one in my husband. he is tall, fair and very smart that any girl want her boyfriend would. All my friends like him so much. Thanks.
@jinjer168 (1599)
• Philippines
22 Apr 10
Hello airakumar! you are so lucky for having him as your loved one. Imagine, he's not only good looking but intelligent as well and i assume that he was very nice to your friends too that's why your friends like him a lot. True enough, you've got a very nice choice, so take care of your relationship with him. stay happy and stay in love... God bless!
@verabear (797)
• Philippines
20 Apr 10
I think I fell in love with him first before I got a long hard look at his face, so his physical attributes weren't that big a deal. Hehe. He looks good though, not exactly model/actor material, but he's not ugly. hehe :)
@jinjer168 (1599)
• Philippines
22 Apr 10
Hello verabear! Good answer! i like you for saying that you fell in love with him first before you look with his physical attributes/face. It's just okay to have a bf/husband that was not exactly an actor/model material but someone who have a heart to love you forever and would accept you for who you are, Thanks a lot verabear and stay in love and happy!
• Philippines
20 Apr 10
for me my husband is handsome,because i choose him as to be with me in my whole life,so i am proud to say that my husband is handsome and not because of his physical appearance but because he choosen me to be with him too..but inside he is beautiful and handsome..
@jinjer168 (1599)
• Philippines
22 Apr 10
Hello gelgen3685! You and your husband was really in love with each other i guess, one very obvious reason was that, you're already a husband and wife. And according to you, both of you chose to be with each others company for the rest of your lives. Im glad that your husband was beautiful inside and out, for that very reason i am sure that you've got the right pick. Thanks a lot and have wonderful day ahead!
• Philippines
20 Apr 10
Actually, I do not look at the outward appearance of a person. What's more important to me is the attitude and the mental capability of a guy. My husband is just one of the average-looking men but he is desirable and lovable, I'm proud to be his wife.
@jinjer168 (1599)
• Philippines
21 Apr 10
HEllo eloveriz! very well said. Yes indeed, average looking men turns to be desirable and lovable when they exudes qualities that make us proud. Physical appearance was really an advantage but there's really more important aspect rather than that and im glad you've found someone like your husband. Thanks for your response and God bless...
@Hatley (164338)
• Garden Grove, California
20 Apr 10
jinjer168 hi I think my husband was prettygood looking, and the thing is he had the cutest butt,but what was most important was his personality he was the most upbeat most postive person I had ever met, and he was sunny all the time and loved people, the opposite of me,he was an extrovert and I am an introvert , shy and modest, he was not shy and trusted every one and I had instincts to tell me that some people were not to be trusted. We sort of complimented each other and made each of us complete.also he had a rich sense of humor and when I was down he could always get me to laugh.
@jinjer168 (1599)
• Philippines
20 Apr 10
Hi there hatley! You've got a great husband! he's not only good looking but also got many qualities and traits that surely could make their partner happy with their relationship together. I like what you've said that you compliment each other, its truly an essential factor, i guess for one relationship to work, because you're there for the weakness or strength of your partner. Thanks a lot hatley and God bless...
• United States
20 Apr 10
Yes, I believe looks matter. I mean if we don't get attracted to a person for their face then even if we fall in love with him we just have to assume that we allowed our eyes to get used to his looks. I will say my boyfriend looks extremely good looking to me. I like how his body is built and of course his green eyes are magical. I tell him to wear white shirts since they make his eyes stand out. But he is scared of the color white because of the staining factor.
@jinjer168 (1599)
• Philippines
20 Apr 10
HI there divineathena! Wow for that! and i suppose you're good looking as well, because birds of the same feather flocks together. You are so lucky for having a good looking boyfriend. Of course looks was not the only factor for a relationship to work, but it was indeed a huge help for the couple to make your relationship more exciting, thrilling etc., for you always get attracted to this person again and again because of his great physical appearance. Good luck to you and your bf, keep on loving each other and God bless...