Which part of you do you hate the most?

United States
April 26, 2010 5:47am CST
I hate how my eye is messed up. I do not like how I wasted a lot of money. I hate how I messed up in school. I hate that sometimes I'm so powerless to change the past. I hate my chubbyness and how I'm lazy and procrastinate too much. I hate my posture. Wow I didn't realize I hated so many things. What about you?
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21 responses
26 Apr 10
I used to dislike many things about myself. I think if you are a bit of a loner at school or less popular you tend to notice the insecurities and develop them a bit more. I used to have multiple dislikes about my life too, possibly a follow-on from those earlier thoughts. These days however i look upon them as simply growing up and class my life as no regrets. Life is too short to fret about these things past and present. If i stop and dwell on something which is not good i will mentally carry it with me and it will impede me until i finally drop it. Instead i just think that an action or appearance was the right thing for me at that time and now i've moved on. Have a nice day
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• United States
27 Apr 10
That is some very good insight Matt. I believe that everyone has insecurities, at least to some degree. I'm glad that you got over most of your insecurities and that you've moved on. You are right that if one dwells on that which is not good it will negatively hamper their life. That is some great advice and good luck to you!!
• Philippines
26 Apr 10
Well I hate my thighs because they are too big for me. I even went to the gym to tone my thighs but I was very unsuccessful and I felt very disappointed. I also hate my flabs-it looks like a beerbelly lol! because I don't eat that much in the first place. But I believe I just have to be contented with what I have rather than complaining and ranting of something which I don't have.
• Philippines
28 Apr 10
Lol! I have tried to do side leg exercise but I easily gave up because it felt like it's useless or maybe I have become too impatient.
@gracie04 (4549)
• Philippines
27 Apr 10
I hate a lot of things as well. I hate that fact that i am a coward type of person( that messed up my life, a lot), i hate the fact that i am afraid of so many things, i hate the fact that i am not capable of doing fun and exciting things(bungee jumping, sky diving, travelling to far places, etc), i hate how i wasted a lot of money before but i am starting to learn the importance of saving money for a rainy day and a lot more... there are so many things i want to change in my past but i guess it's too late..
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• United States
27 Apr 10
Hey gracie. It seems like we both made a lot of mistakes in our past. I know people always say to learn from them but what they don't know is how much the past has affected us. I just hope for the best for you and I. Please take care of yourself. I hope one day you face your fears and do the things that we always see on TV. I do not think I am allowed to bungee jump or to sky dive because of medical problems. We are such in the same boat. I relate to you. God Bless.
@kar295rocks (2116)
• India
26 Apr 10
Dude Well, I believe you are pessimistic. You are looking at the things you have done wrong. Moreover, you are trying to ate them instead of rectifying them. See what you like in yourself and develop it more. See what you don't like and rectify it !
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26 Apr 10
An excellent piece of advice. I may have to adopt that approach too.
• United States
26 Apr 10
I don't usually dote on the negative things about my life. I was just thinking of an interesting discussion topic to write. There are some things that cannot be rectified but just worked with. A debilitating physical ailment that cannot be cured cannot be helped but the positive things of it can be looked at or one can focus on their strengths instead of their weaknesses. I shall and rectify all that I can.
26 Apr 10
I have a couple. I have absolutely no confidence in myself at all and that has created problems for me; it stops me from doing things that I want to do because I just never believe in myself. I also have the ability to not open up and confide in someone if i have a problem. I just let my worries build up and the long term effects of that has made me into a constant worry wart. Physically I hate my feet. They were oficially diagnosed as 'deformend when I was eighteen. They are just horrible and I always wear socks (even in bed) and I rarely get them out in public. Man! I sound like I've totally lost the plot here! Well it's just me being honest.
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• United States
26 Apr 10
Well I hope you find confidence in yourself. I guess it is happy to be who you are, if one has a lot of problems. For you and I, let's just be happy with the good things and the blessings we have, instead of focusing on our faults and sadness. =) Good luck to us!! Take care and focus on what you're good at!!
• China
27 Apr 10
every people has one part which is not good, and who also not confidence in this aspect.you are right, we needn't pay more attention on our weakness, do you think so.
@sophiaraine (1113)
• Philippines
26 Apr 10
I hate being lazy. I know how to cook, do the laundry, iron clothes, clean house, etc. But I still prefer to have a maid. I hate that I'm too impatient. I hate the fact that I can't change the past and I can't take a peek at the future.
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• United States
26 Apr 10
It would be nice to know the future and to be able to change the past. I want to look at the future, so that I can find the lotto numbers to make myself rich and I want to change the past, so that I can fix my mistakes. That's good that you know how to do all those things, even though you have a maid. You don't take advantage. =)
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
26 Apr 10
for me i hate where i cant work because ive gotten hurt, and my whole body have something wrong it. i just like to be able to work and make the money i used too.
• United States
27 Apr 10
Yes, physical disabilities do suck and are really hampering. I hope you can just do what you can with what you have. Good luck with you and trying to do an alternative.
@jd107nette (1454)
• Philippines
26 Apr 10
i hate my hair, my lips, my figure, my nails... aahhh.. i wish i could just wake up one morning and get all of these replaced with at least desirable... hehe
• United States
26 Apr 10
Awww. That's like almost your whole body. Do you like anything about yourself? What would you consider your best feature?? Maybe something that someone has liked or complimented you on before? Maybe you can get a perm or exercise to help your hair and figure? Good luck to you and your body. Remember that your body is a temple, so treat it like so.
@shhheila (1845)
• Philippines
26 Apr 10
oh u hate being chubby? hmm well, nobody's perfect, people will like u not because of ur physical appearance but its the inside thats more important, u should not hate it.
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• United States
27 Apr 10
Even though no one is perfect I find it strange that many people strive for perfection. I agree that personality and what's on the "inside" of the body is what really counts. It won't make sense to marry or date someone who is good-looking but has a terrible personality.
@Cutie18f (9551)
• Philippines
26 Apr 10
Wow, that's a lot. I think it is time that you change image a little bit. As I can see there are a few things that you can easily change like your being a procrastinator, your posture, your chubbiness, laziness, your being extravagant with money---these things are within your power. You can't say you can't change your attitude because it all depends on you. Since you hate so many about yourself, it is time to make a change. There is one thing I do not like about myself and it is my skin.
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• United States
26 Apr 10
Hey cutie, lol that sounds like a pick-up line. I know I need to change but it much easier said than done. I'll work on posture and chubbiness and saving money. Laziness and procrastinating are a much harder problem to break. Your advice and encouragement are greatly appreciated. =)
@Avinigav (238)
• Indonesia
27 Apr 10
Same as you.. I can't control my way spent money. Now.. I have to face the result. I borrow money from my friends to cover the money that I had been wasted ):
• United States
27 Apr 10
My friend and I are like that. I am such in debt and I am paying dearly for it. I have learned a lot and I might have a problem. Good luck to you and I both buddy. I feel for you. I know the measly earnings that we make here on MyLot is not enough to get by at all, so let's maybe get a job and pick ourselves back up. Take care friend.
• Philippines
26 Apr 10
Well, i really do not hate life in general but how people in life affect you. That is what i hate. Life is a love hate relationship of yourself. But in terms of which part of my body i hat it has to be my hair. I don't like my hair because it is aq little bit wavy and it is like it has a mind of its own.
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• United States
27 Apr 10
I like how you said that life is like a love/hate relationship with yourself. Your hair is so wavy that it has a mind of its own? That's interesting. At least you have hair, I'm starting to bald, even though I'm only 22.
• India
26 Apr 10
Hi eddy..I love myself a lot..I don't think I hate any part of my bodty for a big deal . But still since you have asked . I hate my hands. Basically i have mosquito allergy . So my arms are messed up with mosquito bites . Anyone who meets me asks that " Have you got chicken pox recently?" . Man i hate that . But nowadays it has become very less . So i don't hate it for a big deal now !. God has created our body and we should not hate it at least if we don't love :P . Happy mylotting and have a nice day !
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• United States
26 Apr 10
Hey lightknight I'm glad that you love yourself, despite your small problem. =) I'm glad that your allergy problem is getting better. Happy Mylotting to you too and I hope you have a wonderful day as well.
• United States
27 Apr 10
i hate my hair, the color, dyed black. by far the worst mistake ever. but i've learned to jus accept myself for who i am. i would also change my height, im 5'2 and wuld like to be 4'7
• United States
27 Apr 10
You actually want to be shorter? I'm sure you meant to say 5'7" because 4'7" is baby status. Hehe. It's okay your hair will grow out eventually and make your hair become more natural again.
@jambi462 (4576)
• United States
26 Apr 10
I really hate my mortal body because it is so inferior compared to either the dream body or spirit body. The mortal body that we carry our souls in is what makes us sore and fatigued and tired. There would be so much more possibility with out this vessel that we walk around in. Other then that I don't have too many complaints as too who I am or what I look like.
• United States
27 Apr 10
That's fascinating that you complain about the limitations our body can handle. I believe that it is the mind that controls the body and is the strongest organ we have. The mind is where dreams come from and one can debate where the spirit comes from. I wish I had the will/mind power to push my body to its limit and make it chiseled beyond comparison. That's good that other than that you are pretty happy with yourself.
@singuri (571)
• India
27 Apr 10
I hate my nose. Its a bit bulged at the tip I want to change i. But I couldmn't . Hope I will do that after some time when I will do the job.
@vannice95 (121)
• Philippines
26 Apr 10
I hate how my legs turn out hairy, I mean, really hairy! I also hate my procrastinating attitude, and pretty much my bad attitudes. Although I hate some parts of my physical appearance, I don't give much attention to them. We're all not perfect, and we should just accept that. We should not be that pessimistic! :)
• United States
26 Apr 10
I'm sorry that your legs are hairy. I hope not everything else about you is hairy too! hehe What bad attitudes do you have? What part of your physical appearance are you not okay with? Yes, we should not be so pessimistic. Let us just leave it all here in this discussion. Let it all out, so that it will not pester us any longer.
@junmae (1586)
• Philippines
27 Apr 10
I hate my big nose, since i was young people around me always teases me for having a big nose. But aside from that I also hate being a person with too much pride. though i know that I am hurting my self and the one I love. I still doesn't care unless my pride is not affected at all.
• Indonesia
27 Apr 10
i love every part of my body because it's me.......
@Kisha14 (117)
• Philippines
27 Apr 10
I hate my butt cause it is not a good asset. I want it more embossed and well rounded. I wish it to be like beyonce's butt.