Has anyone lost faith in God , when u Dint Get Your loved One ?

India
May 8, 2010 9:48am CST
I tried a lot but God never helped me I just needed one favour from him I just needed one miracle from him God never favoured me I literally deserved the person i loved , all i got is Injustice Injustice and Nothing I was Always Sincere and Honest i always used to pray for her to god God never listened It was as if God made me a like a joke I am alone my life was beautiful with her but she as well as god betrayed me So I dont have any Expectation from God
7 responses
• India
8 May 10
why are you so dependent on god? did you ever express your love to the girl whom you loved? what was her reaction? if you have answers for all these, then you know why you did not get what you wanted. expecting from god is the biggest foolish act we all do. we treat him as an external factor that will come to our help when we call. anything that is external, will not come at your bidding.
@chaloa (29)
• Czech Republic
8 May 10
God can´t help anyone if the person isn´t doing anything. Actually as u said its a big mistake if u wait for God´s help.. sitting at home and waiting what will happen. Good things are happening just to people who are doing something. But with feelings. U can´t do anything for it too. If feelings are not here they are not here. Even if a person say to another one, "i love u"..it wont change the fact, that the second person doesn´t love. Especially if here is someone 3rd. It might be a step forward, but things are not sure at all also. This "love expression" might be something like "external factor" as well... It will not help anyway. But yea..u can be satisfied that u at least tried it.
• India
9 May 10
Its nice to hear that you tried your best. nothing is lost. there will be someone who loves you just as you are, who will accept you as you are. may be you will come across her sooner as things happen when you least expecting anything of that sort. i dont know why such things happen, but that does happen. Dont give up on Love. may be its not the person you desired.
@elvira1 (101)
• Philippines
9 May 10
God's answers to our prayers is not always as what we want it to be. He knows best what is best for you. There is a reason in everything that happens to us. We may don't have the clue as what He is planning for you, as to what He wanted to show you. In due time, as you look back, you'll realize that it was actually for the best. Try to view at the other side of the story. It helps to open your eyes. Let me share to you a portion of a poem I came across more than 10 yrs ago by Helen Steiner Rice entitled God knows best: Our Father tests us often with suffering and with sorrow He tests us, not to punish us but to help us meet tomorrow
• South Africa
9 May 10
It is man's sinful nature that brings us misery. It is God's love that makes life bearable. God, through his love and wisdom, gives us what we really need and not what we desire. Sometimes we are lucky in that what we need and what we desire are the same and then we say "hallelujah, God is Great". But sometimes what we need and what we desire are not the same and then we claim that God has betrayed us or that God does not exist. The truth is that God loves us so much that he gave his son so die on the cross to pay for our sins, despite all the bad things that we have done. Stop blaming God for your short comings and rather ask God for guidance and mean it.
• Philippines
9 May 10
I am sad to hear this and indeed it made me really really sad to hear that you are blaming God because He did not listen to your prayer. I just wanted to ask you if you really are calling on the ONE TRUE GOD. Probably you have been calling a wrong god and that was not really responding you back. I just hope that if you wanted to hear out from the True God, seek Him first in your life. Tell Him that if He really exist, and if He is true, ask Him to reveal Himself to you but you must be humble and broken hearted towards Him. Call only on the ONE who created the Heavens and the Earth, the Almighty God, The Author and the Finisher of Life. In Him we live, and move and have our being. Pray not because you recite a prayer, pray because it comes from your heart. I am sure that if you really are sincere and contrite on your petition to Him, He will reveal Himself to you, be it in a dream, in His Word and anything that He can do to display His marvelous Power. God is not a vending machine that we can just put a coin and our prayer request is there. We as humans can never ever ask God on what to do. When we pray, we report to Him, not tell Him what He should do to us. We are merely worms and that is how we are, a filthy rag. But on His mercy He grant us salvation. The problem is that man in his finite wisdom thinks that God can be treated like this. God only grants us our request if that would please Him more and if that is because of our own good, because He knows what is best for us. Still I ask of you to try the REAL TRUE GOD. If anybody here is opposing of what I said or my opinion I respect that and there is no way we have to argue if God exist or not because that will be out of the topic posted.
@Tangeryne (413)
• India
8 May 10
Hey Javeed, I lost faith in God a long time ago over a lot of things. God has always been cruel to me, its as though he has condemned me forever. Recently, he proved it again-my bf of 3yrs left me and married someone whom his parents chose for him. He betrayed me, felt like hard slaps to my face every time. People are cruel as well, so many cases where one partner is so committed while the other is just fooling around! My advise is to just move on, no need to cry over spilled milk!!! That person is just not worth it!!! And about God, he doesn't exist. You just be a good person, you don't need to believe in god for that. Luck :-)
@chaloa (29)
• Czech Republic
8 May 10
I think, that God always knows what is best for us. Sometimes I also think, that we never get something what we wish for and what we pray for, but to abandon God is not a great way too. Maybe u lose someone, but here is still God who u can turn to. And u don´t have to feel ashame to cry infront of God. He always listen to you. Sometimes we think, that he didn´t give us something we loved. But what if God knew more than we know. Maybe u lose someone u love but in real u wouldn´t be happy with the person. Maybe God have someone or something better for you in future. When i look to my past I am happy, that God didn´t give me the men I always wished for. Because my way of life now is absolutly different and better than the way of life i used to have before. Always think positive! God always got something better for us if we deserve it and pray for it.
• Philippines
8 May 10
I blamed God at times. But after a while I will learn that maybe it is for the best. We may not understand how God wants our life to go. But surely He will provide us with what we need and won't put us in trouble.