Has life been just to you?

for me,life is tough or happy is base on ourselves.if we make our greatest efforts,i believe the life will be what you wanted to be before.if you have made no efforts and you feel the life is tough,i think you deserve it.do you agree with me?

In my experience those who want for nothing have so many problems. I know a young multi millionaire (inherited wealth)who is constantly in pain. He has traveled across the world to try and find a doctor who cure him. His first marriage broke up because he is in such pain that he was constantly hell to live with. Miserable all of the time. His second wife is more understanding and doesn't quarrel with him all of the time as she understands the agony that he goes through trying to live without medication 24/7. His money does not make him happy. I know so many people with money who are not happy or they become so spoiled that they no longer appreciate the blessings that God has showered them with. Perhaps the life we have is the life that God meant us to live and we should do the best with it that we can. We must live our life helping others and doing what we can to improve our life. There is nothing wrong with ambition. But true happiness definitely comes from within. Blessings dear friend

For me my life has been full of surprises and quite exiting at times. I was born to a mother that worked as a librarian and a father that was an electronic engineer. My sister is five years older than me. I had a lovely childhood. I had dreams of going off traveling. When I was 14 years old I went to Greece. Then at age 18 years old I traveled around Europe by train. I was left some money in my Great Aunts will and with it I bought a little cottage when I was 19 years old. I got a job in a ship brokers in London. My life seemed to be going really well. Then I got made redundant and it was challenging to find another job. I let out my cottage and got a working holiday visa for Australia. I went on a trip around the world. In Australia I met an Australian man. He and I got married and we had a baby son. I studied at university and became a primary school teacher. I got divorced and didn't think I would have anymore children. I had another relationship and my second son was born. He is disabled. Then my daughter was born. My life is happy but it does have its challenges.

dear bodhi, as the saying goes, life is like a wheel, sometimes you are up and sometimes you are down. life is always a combination of happiness, of sadness, of self confidence or lack of it, of fear, health, illness, of finding someone, of loosing someone... and so on. life has been fair to me. i experienced all those and it gets me stronger by day by day. God bless, ann

Life is full of surprises. Like how you describe on your topic my dear brother. Life is how we sees it according to our own perspective. Sometimes when we are facing difficulties,we thought we are too miserable. But,if we look around us,and open our eyes to what miserable life means,we could understand how life is so unfair when we were able to see the less fortunate ones. The deaf and the blind,the disabled,yet,they never complain about life. Life has a purpose for each of us. Not just to live and eat and make our dreams come true. But,we also live for others to live and we dream for others to make dream. We live to understand why some were born with a silver spoon on their mouth, while the others lives with one spoon to fed 5 mouths. We need to understand why majority had to suffer for the benefit of less people. Why there is always bad results after doing good things. Life is one word that defined by people as complicated and full of surprises. For me,life is,...to know my purpose and how to live my life with purpose. Have a good day always dear brother

My life has been full of struggles and challenges, i have faced them so boldly always, i was always happy even in the worst situations, and now i am fully satisfied with my life.. Thanks for sharing. Welcome always. Cheers. Prof

Hi, friend. I'm not trying to complain about something, but I really think life is unfair to me, especially after I graduated from college. The life before that time had been smooth and happy. Everything seemed to smile at me. But after that, adversities frequently greeted me. Whatever I did, I couldn't get the expected returns. All things around me were against me in one way or another. Sometimes I was even jealous of those who seemed to meet no difficulties at all. But still I could do nothing to change. All I could do was to be determined and persistent, and the good thing was I reaped the benefits at last. I don't know whether all those challenges and hardships were used to test my will as some people said, I do learn a lot from them. Even so, I don't want to experience all those hard times again.

hi bodhisatya in all life has been pretty good to me but just this last year and a half,its really been bitter for sure. a year and a half ago my son lost his job but we were so sure he would soon get a new one,did not happen, we got behind on the rent, and were evicted. but we thought, stupidly as it turned out, that this internet friend of my sons from the internet really was going to help us. she told my son that her sister knew this apartment complex in Antioch Ca and that she herself would stake us to three months rent there so as to enable my son to get a job after we moved there. well folks,it just did not happen, oh she even signed a paper stating she was our sponsor and she would be responsible for the first three months. so my son took from our little sum of money enough to go to Antioch and put down a deposit on the apartment.,but on my birthday she pulled the rug out from under us. she phoned from England and told the Antioch apt manager to tear up that agreement,.she would not sponsor us. so we were then homeless. so my son worried for me as I was 83 and diabetic with a bad let, got me put here in Gold crest so I would have a place to stay. My social security and ssi checks pay the monthly rent and board.He is in a gov. sponsored apartment with three other men all of whom are really looking for work. He is still out of work so no lately life has been really unfair. but this is our year I think.

LIfe is ??? Sad but I live it up everytime it is down. Try to b happy is no #1 now. If you choose to be sad, is a way happy is also a way why not choose happy instead? I am struggling everyday since i have depression.

Life for me has been good enough. I have my husband who is very hardworking, loving, caring, understanding and most of all honest. We have our 1 year 7 month old son who is giving us so much joy in everyday life. We may have minor problems but that is part of it. I believe that life is no longer meaningful if you do not have any problems at all. So problems are still good as long as they are bearable and can still be solved. I also agree that sometimes life is unfair. But what makes it fair is how you face life and what are your outlooks in life that will help you make if fairer. I also believe that you must be the first one to help yourself if you have problems before others can help you. And also stop blaming others again and again. Once is enough. You should learn the lesson and tell others. Just learn how to enjoy life and it will pay you back the best things!

I would say life could have done better with me because there are some events which went completely wrong in my life and some which I do regret till today and cannot be undone so for all these life has not been fair.

Has it been tough?..YES..Has it been real?..YES..Would I swap it in on another?..Not EVER..Liz and I came to Atlanta 11/27 as a management team. She was the manager, which worked well as I'm a better support person than leader. We had known each other for some 6 months before, had spent time (not intimately) together so when we came to Atlanta we we were the only friends we had and she pushed for us to rent a house together rather than apartments seperately. By some miracle, we are still together. It'll be 23 years come 11/27 this year. We've lost everything twice (take note! I said twice)..Both due to the after effects of a really bad breakdown I had in 4/95..Those were the really bad times because I spent too much time being totally useless until I finally poked my head out of myself, fought off and learned how to breathe thru the panic attacks, started doing neighborhood jobs and started rebuilding my self respect and personal integrity..And tho they weren't easy they were the best because we're still together either because of or despite those times..So, I'd have to say that tho it always hasn't done me really easy, life has done me exceptionally well when it when it included me in Liz's life...Enjoy!

As far as I am concerned, I think life is just for me that I can just enjoy my life myself. For me, now I can just play as I want. I can surf the Internet as I will. I think a lot of things are just under control of myself. With so good condition that I can just enjoy my life so much.If I want more, I think my life will not so enjoyable for me.

Life is fluid, ever changing. I've had some good spells, some great spells and some difficult spells. Right now, I'm going through a period that is more difficult than I could have ever imagined. Someday I hope this phase will be behind me and things will once again be looking a little brighter. As long as the Lord gives me another day, I get up, put a smaile on my face and do the very best I can.