Days are settling down from both sides.. work and live too. what to do now?

idiot ,answer is already in your mind . if you want to be a idiot ,okay ,keep yourself don't konw it ,keep fooling yourself .

Hi Nina, I am so glad that the bad phase is a thing of past or at least it is becoming a thing of past. I am also glad to learn that your GF has stood by you, and so have a couple of your friends. I cant really say I've done much, even though I would have liked to. Yes, Allah has also stood by you. Nice of you to have realized that. Now, in life it is always like that. The next problem is always harder than the previous one. Just like every class in school has harder lessons in each year. As to plans, I have a rough sketch of future plans hopefully till the end of my lifetime. :) Within this, I have medium term plans, I will do this in that year and so on. Within them again, I have yet shorter term plans for the month and the week and the day. :) I take a walk in the mornings. At the end of the walk, I reflect what I have to do during the day. And that sets the plan of the day in the motion I guess. :) Have a nice day. :)

Hi Nina! I'm happy that things are settling down for you, and that you are entering a happier time. Life is a series of good and bad times, and that's really a good thing. Without the bad times, we may not appreciate the good times as much...or worse, think that that is what we deserve. Without the good times, we wouldn't be able to 'recharge our internal batteries' getting ready for the next tribulation that is put before us. Other than learning from what we go through, and helping others when they face similar issues...how do we prepare for the next 'bad' time? Other than surrounding ourselves with friends and family that care, and praying for strength and guidance, we can't know what direction the 'bad time' will take.