Are you pretty if you collect boyfriends?

@dpalais (130)
Philippines
June 1, 2010 3:57am CST
I was just amazed with those girls,not only girls even boys who collects boyfriends and girlfriends around. A question always play in my mind every time I meet people like them. If how does it feel to have many relationship at the same time? I am not judging them bad or any thing I even admire them if how can they manage to hide and not to be caught by the other girlfriend or boyfriend?
10 responses
@kharlav (1671)
• Philippines
1 Jun 10
Having many boyfriends or girlfriends doesn't mean they are handsome or beautiful. THere are a lot of ugly people who does this too. I believe that people who collect boyfriends or girlfriends are not satisfied and maybe because they are insecure. They are not secured with who they have at that moment that's why they collect and have more and more bf/gf. They are keep looking for someone to satisfy them, but they end up not to be satisfied at all.
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• India
2 Jul 10
Hello i agree with your views, i have taught in colleges for over four decades, have seen guys and girls so close.. Cheers. Professor
• Philippines
30 Jun 10
no they aren't at all!! hey having much boyfriends and girlfriends at the same time is a filthy act... I think their purpose of having much girls and boys in their life is to (collect and collect until you select).kinda.. Its a silly thing Right???
@iristacey (113)
• Philippines
2 Jun 10
If you have had so many relationships in the past, then that means you have not really the person who has matched your personality and commit to a life long marriage. I think, the fact that you have not stood up for your relationship means the love you had for each other is shallow. The basis of love can just be physical attraction or it is just infatuation. However, if you are pertaining to having more than one relationship at the same time, then that is different. You really have attitude problem if you are that type of person. Some of them do this for the sake of adventure. But if you have been tempted and has tried doing so, I think you should choose only one. If you really love the person, then there is no way that your loyalty will defer. You'll end up getting karma.
@emsxxx (75)
• Indonesia
1 Jun 10
they treat people as number not as a person, so stay away...
@hanizah (255)
1 Jun 10
No of course...Actually I find them ugly because they don't have a good character..Remember beauty comes from within.
• Philippines
1 Jun 10
I don't want to judge people but I will just comment for that. It seems like in the eyes of many people, having a multiple relationship as boyfriend or girlfried is not good. They are the people who are not serious for the relationship. Other people have a different reason why they do that. Some people collect boyfriends or girlfriends to select one for long term relationship. The other person only wants to have more experience before going in long term and serious relationship.
@p3ks626 (6547)
• Philippines
1 Jun 10
I dont think that's really it. There are a lot of women who gets to have a lot of boyfriends but it doesnt mean they are too pretty. Maybe there are some who highly thinks about themselves that they would think about it that way. I know one person who's pretty but she dont get to have a serious relationships because she's the kind of girl who doesnt know how not to sleep with other guys in her office. And I think men doesnt like that and she thinks she's too pretty because she got a lot of intimate relationship with a lot of guys.
@med889 (5952)
1 Jun 10
I have a friend who was with me in college and she would bet with us that she is going to have some three to four boyfriends in one month and if she wins she will have this or that from us, at that time it was very funny and a sort of a game but thankfully now its over as we are all very mature people now.
• Philippines
1 Jun 10
I don't want to judge, but I do think that a girl who collects boyfriends for the sole purpose of proving to herself and the rest of the world that she is pretty and/or attractive has a self-esteem problem. She's putting others at the risk of getting hurt just to get the satisfaction of knowing that she is desirable. I find that selfish. I wouldn't judge a girl harshly if she found herself falling in love with a man while she is in a relationship with another man, but she must ultimately choose the one she loves more and break off her relationship with the other guy. A girl can't keep hiding and cheating on her partner. She could face dire consequences when the truth gets found out.
@debdut75 (65)
• India
1 Jun 10
Its you to decide in which angle you see or take a relationship. Sometime it is just for show off and sometime is a time pass. But for somebody it is true love again and again.