What is the best relationship?

India
June 1, 2010 12:30pm CST
I think the best relationship does not need any promises,terms or conditions. A great relationship needs two wonderful people.. One who can trust and the one who can understand... What do you say?
10 responses
@edorms36 (275)
• United Arab Emirates
1 Jun 10
Unconditional love this is what is all about, when only love, respect and trust is important. These are the basics of one truly happy relationship. This all that matters anyway.
• India
2 Jun 10
yes, edorms trust and respect are very important for a healthy and happy relationship. well said.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
1 Jun 10
Hello dear bhai, Well worded,what more i can say? Unconditional love maybe one reason. loving someone without expecting in return. Martyr doom is out of topic,but somehow helpful for saving a relationship. Loving blindly and deaf for all the shortcomings of his/her partner. Giving without taking anything. And crying his/herself to sleep,without regretting for all the sacrifices. Sacrificing oneself and forgetting that he/she exists for the sake of their relationship. Up to date,i am still searching for the best relationship dear bhai
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• India
2 Jun 10
Oh, my best wishes for you to find a great love in life. A good relationship can do wonders in life. Nothing can be better than that in this world.
@danoluma (817)
• Kenya
1 Jun 10
Hi vijayanths, I agree with you the best relationship should be based on love and it should be free, no conditionality at all. And most of all trust
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• India
2 Jun 10
yes, danoluma, a true relationship will never demand anything, it is unconditional.
@vathsala30 (3732)
• India
2 Jun 10
Hi vijayanths For me, If there is any understanding capacity, forgiving nature, and compromising mentality exists between any two persons, the relationship between them will be the best one, undoubtedly
• India
2 Jun 10
very true vathsala, you seem to be an relationship expert. You can start a counseling kind of organization and make money, lol.
• India
3 Jun 10
My nature is like that lol, So people like me very much and I have lot of good friends. You have given a good idea of making money and very soon I will think of it seriously and impliment
@vandana7 (98716)
• India
2 Jun 10
Like yours and mine may be?
• India
2 Jun 10
hahaha, you are right vandana. You will have to trust me and I will make you understand....
• India
2 Jun 10
This time you got it right, exactly right vandana, Here is my compliment.
@vandana7 (98716)
• India
2 Jun 10
Understand what? That sounds like heads you win, tails I lose statement in so far as I am concerned.
• Philippines
2 Jun 10
I just totally agree with your concept of a good relationship here. I believe that trust is the major foundation of all relationships...wether towards a friend, parent, child, boyfriends/girlfriends...because without this element of trust then respect and love will definitely be threatened thus shattering the relationship into pieces. Trust is like a glue for everything...without it LOVE cannot harbor and grow. On the other hand TRUST goes hand in hand with UNDERSTANDING for this manner, each binds and secure the true meaning of a lasting and best relationship so far. And yes, I do agree that a great relationship needs two wonderful people. The relationship is at its best when they make each other better each day. Although nobody's perfect, each must accept the shortcomings and lesser qualities of each individual. UNDERSTANDING creates ACCEPTANCE and this may be the most important ingredient in maintaining a relationship. These elements makes a less perfect relationship closer to perfection. But in my opinion, a good relationship shoud have a responsibility for each other. Each partner has the responsibility to guide each one of them not to do harm towards other people. For wives with cheating partners, it is never an excuse that you let your husband cheat in exchange that he will not leave you. It should be noted that even though it is not your fault that your husband cheats, it is still your part on the relationship to maintain the security of the marriage in order to prevent concubinage in the present and future. Both partners are to blame for this kind of scenario.
• India
2 Jun 10
wow, hapsicordable1 thanks for taking your time to respond in detail. Trust is very important in healthy relationship. Unconditional love has no substitute. It will be great to enjoy such wonderful relationship..
• Philippines
2 Jun 10
Best relationship for me is the love between mother and a child. Mother have unconditional love, a child can leave a mother, but a mother cannot do that to her child. I believe all mother's are like that, that is why when a mother I know treated her child like they are not hers, i feel ashamed on her. And motherly love, does need any promises, terms and condition.
• India
2 Jun 10
It is true grecy, mother's love can not be substituted by any other love. It is unconditional and the best. But here I am talking about the relationship between a man and woman.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
1 Jun 10
vijayanths the best relationship is when you love and trust each other with unconditional love,each accepting the other as they are, warts and all,not thinking oh I dont like her hair but I will get her to dye it, or I dont like his smoking so I will make him quit. no we accepted each other just the way we were and thats unconditonal love which is not so common since most try to remake each other. we also trusted and respected each other, I am a widow now but we hag 33 years of a good marriage. no regrets on myside at all.
• India
2 Jun 10
Hi Hatley, it is not easy to make the partner to quit something for you.. In my opinion every man and woman want to change their partners but they don't want to change even a little.
• China
2 Jun 10
Yeah,I agree with you.I believe there is a link between two people,who are destined to meet each other and be good friends.Just like me,I've got my best friends ever met now.She is just the one who I'd like to devote my all to.We will sometimes say that it's destiny.Everybody may have such kind of links with another people,we just have to wait for him or her.
• India
2 Jun 10
yes, mercy you are right. we need to wait for the perfect person in life. Destiny plays a big role in this too.
@Jotomy (6322)
• India
2 Jun 10
Hi vijayanths, yeah any good relationship doesn't require promises or terms and conditions. It may be in between friends, wife and husband, parents and children etc., A best relationship can be built with trust and love no other conditions. Have a nice day.
• India
2 Jun 10
Thanks for the response jotomy, I think any good relationship will never demand anything.