Replaced by gay/lesbian
By laniekins
@laniekins (4579)
Philippines
June 1, 2010 10:47pm CST
what will you do if you found out that your bf/gf cheated on you and replaced you with gay/lesbian lover?
4 responses
@annavi23 (6633)
• Philippines
2 Jun 10
it's okay with me.
whatever we've shared from the past has nothing to do now.
but if he really is gay,i'll understand that!
or maybe he has nothing to do with it.
consult and observe/know what really happens first before acting weird.
maybe we all need to have understandings with each other,specially in relationships,my friend! whatever it is,i'd gladly respect what he really feels.
and whoever he wanted to be with,it's his right.
just be it! maybe we really weren't meant to be...
@laniekins (4579)
• Philippines
2 Jun 10
Very well said, stop being emo. haha! I told my boy if he's not happy with me he can always leave and I'll be happy whoever he's with as long as he is happy. But sorry I just can't take it if he goes out with gay, never in my wild dreams he is gay too. I just can't take it. haha (",)
@laniekins (4579)
• Philippines
3 Jun 10
No he's not, this topic doesn't apply to me. It only came into my mind.
@annavi23 (6633)
• Philippines
3 Jun 10
girl,you have to accept the fact if he really is gay.
no matter how long you've been together,if you know he will be most happy with a gay,then be it! no pretentions,just take that fact,my friend!
are you really saying your boyfriend is really having relationship with a gay?
well,i haven't met any man who became in love with me and also with a gay.
i have my ex boyfriend who was being tripped with his gay friend but he really hesitates to be committed with the gay,i know he's still a man despite his looks.
and i've loved him before,though we're not in a relationship now,i know he still is a guy not gay,my friend!
no matter how long you've been together,if you know he will be most happy with a gay,then be it! no pretentions,just take that fact,my friend!
are you really saying your boyfriend is really having relationship with a gay?
well,i haven't met any man who became in love with me and also with a gay.
i have my ex boyfriend who was being tripped with his gay friend but he really hesitates to be committed with the gay,i know he's still a man despite his looks.
and i've loved him before,though we're not in a relationship now,i know he still is a guy not gay,my friend!
@thanks1961 (7033)
• India
2 Jun 10
Hi,
After having a long relationship, if it happens, it will be cheating. Few thing to be remembered that if a relationship is going on, you should expect something like 'may' happen in the course of time, as both the parties are not well known each other. Once the other party is parting away and moving to some other alliance, that means you are not upto his/her expectations.
That is why I am telling, don't get much involved in such affairs. Once you are sure of it and you confirm with your love, and later on he/she move away, you will feel you are cheated. So, be prepared that until if it is not get into a more concrete relation, we should not involve more on that.
If you keep a 100% faith, you may have to face bad consequences.
So please be ready for anything until the relation reaches to a static condition.
Regards,
Thank-s
@laniekins (4579)
• Philippines
2 Jun 10
Awww.. thanks for that words of wisdom. I sometimes forget that he is just a human and he can do mistake. But I already told him what I hate and what he should not do. Sometimes I forgot to not give my 100% love and I thank you for reminding me again. That strange situation never happened to me although I believed that I have been cheated on my previous relationship, Im sure that it is a girl and not a gay. I never confronted him cause I learned about that when we broke up already. Our mutual acquaintance later told me about that.
Anyways, we should anticipate that this will happen but I hope not to me.
@mrfdg1972 (3237)
• Philippines
2 Jun 10
as bf/gf i think its allowable. Could be you are short on something so they look for more 
spice
, HOnestly for me, i always blame myself first, so it would be easier to overcome the situation. Good Day Ms.Laniekins
spice, HOnestly for me, i always blame myself first, so it would be easier to overcome the situation. Good Day Ms.Laniekins@laniekins (4579)
• Philippines
2 Jun 10
The first rule that I made for myself when it comes to relationship is to never cheat (me and him). For me it would be easier to think that he cheats on me than I cheated on him. About shortcomings, I think this is shallow reason. They should brought out the issue, if not resolve then parted ways is the answer. Happy raining day to you, I'm cold here.
@StephanieAnnC (4274)
• United States
2 Jun 10
I think I'd be just as upset as if he cheated on me with another girl. If he cheats with another girl or a person of a different sexuality, it's still cheating and it will affect me just the same.
