What If Someone U Loved the Most Deserts U ???

@sunnycool (12714)
India
June 8, 2010 9:36am CST
What if someone you loved the most has taken a lot of BS from you until now and decides to stay away from you??? Would you still try to convince them or just move on like a heartless homosapien..... How would it be if you have been deserted by your partner or lover-----do you enjoy your time feeling happy for your freedom or think of them day and night ??? Well Akon's Mr Lonely song ----- should come to your rescue if you have been deserted by your loved ones.the lyrics are so apt for ....you know
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12 responses
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
8 Jun 10
BB, if my loved one desert me, i will rip his throat out. Then i might listen to that song. TATA.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
8 Jun 10
how about transforming him to a zombie you're not supposed to be asking about the courtesy
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
8 Jun 10
you forgot to mention about drinking his blood like a Vampire
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
8 Jun 10
That might make me remember him even more. Any other suggestions?
• India
8 Jun 10
I haven't experienced it exactly. Some one i trusted a lot has betrayed me . this has happened a few times. yeah it hurts for some time. then i move on and decide to give that particular person a lower ranking in my Trust list(T-list)
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
8 Jun 10
you must be talking about your friends if i'm not wrong----i had few bad experiences with them and i least about them now as i hate those who try to backstab you or when they consider you to be user friendly
• India
8 Jun 10
he he .. nice guess. All cases expect one are friends. One was my relative. First cousin. I trusted her with something she betrayed me by telling it to everyone. i never expected that to happen!!.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
8 Jun 10
There is no way we can have so many betrayals from your lover lol
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
30 Jun 10
well...i never know that Mr. Sunny will have a broken heart.Sorry to hear that, but i am here 4 u, i can be ur shoulder to cry on.. let me sing the song for you: 'everyone needs a shoulder 2 cry on everyone needs a friend 2 rely on n when the whole world is gone u won't be alone coz i'll be there ' r u feeling a bit happy now??
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
30 Jun 10
if u need any sweet lines more just whisper my name
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
30 Jun 10
Awwww that was such a sweet song femalien thank you for those sweet lines
• Malaysia
8 Jun 10
not only did she desert me. she went off and married someone else.. that whole 'i want to live in another country' story.. anyway, that was a long time ago i'd say that if you think that they're worth it, pursue it with everything you've got. but if you decide that it isn't worth it, you really need to find a way to let go..
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
8 Jun 10
Sorry about your past man---it is really hard when someone you loved the most does that... do you really think i would have started this post if they weren't worth for me
• Malaysia
8 Jun 10
hence, pursue what you really need the most. we won't be as young as we were before. we can only get older. and what's the point in getting old if it's not going to be next to the person you want it to be? don't let yourself have any regrets that you did nothing when you could have... pursue it and don't give up until you really know for sure that you absolutely have to let go. and stay strong buddy i know. it wasn't easy for me to let go..
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
8 Jun 10
what if they want us to stay away .... so i didnt want to annoy them anymore as they're in need of some privacy i dont want to force them
@vanity666 (258)
• Spain
9 Jun 10
well..i've experienced that before...i was sad for some time and alone, but i accepted it and move on, in a few months i was happy again like a fat kid with a chocolate cake, hehe sincerely, i think when you are heart broken and you can't seem to move on, you will do it when your true love appears =)
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
9 Jun 10
lol what makes you think that it can be a him----its is a she and i'm straight and serious to her
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
9 Jun 10
There is no way i would take this that long---for months nope---i would try my level best to achieve it.I cant even imagine loosing my love.Welcome to mylot
• Spain
9 Jun 10
well..you have to lose him/her when he/she is not the right person for you
• Philippines
9 Jun 10
hi.. well.. what can i so? as long as you know for yourself that you gave everything to make him/her happy and you take all the necessary thing just to make the relationship lasts but still the one you love the most dessert you... go on with your life not to enjoy the freedom but you to need to go on with your life and someday another love is comming on your way just be happy.. have a nice day sunnycool.. be cool!
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
9 Jun 10
It is very easy to suggest someone to walkout---but it isnt really.the relationship hasnt started yet then how come i allow it to meet the extremes that easily.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
30 Jun 10
may be you're right....we end up finding someone when we least expect their arrival into our life and this happened the same way
@bigal3 (1231)
• Thailand
23 Jun 10
Yo Bro, you can't let it get you down. As I understand it you have not been with your person of interest very long when they "walked Out"? Don't sweat it. It must not have been meant for you with this person. There are pleanty more out there who would be happy to be with you. the key is not to be looking for that "certain person" and then you will find them when you least expect it. Good luck my friend.
@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
8 Jun 10
I'd like to think I'd be mature and let them go, but I just don't know.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
23 Jun 10
That would be worse---i just dont have to loose her over silly concerns
• Pamplona, Spain
8 Jun 10
Hiya sunny, It all depends on the Person and how deeply you feel for them. However you can only take so much from a Person. Seeing as I don´t know her I really can´t say except that when two People love each other so much they will probably be able to get back together again without much problem. It´s all part of your relationship growing better.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
23 Jun 10
I really wish she does come back to me and every thing is gonna be fine between us.its just that i want her by my side and then i would be on the top of the world as i love her like crazy
@sagar21 (1579)
• India
9 Jun 10
Hi sunny, actually I haven't experienced such a situation and wishes never to happen in ma life.. if I'm faced with such situation..It'll hurt me a lot..but eventually I will bury it deep down in in my heart...why spoil my time/life on a person who never believed me... thanks for starting the discussion... have a great day/night.......
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
23 Jun 10
Its damn easy to say that "i bury it deep in my heart" but it isn't that easy as we speak---if you really someone truly then you can never forget them they just traveel along with each and every moment you live.anyways thank you for responding.great day.
@bigal3 (1231)
• Thailand
23 Jun 10
I would just have to get over it. You can't make someone stay with you if they do not want to. You then have to ask yourself why that person left you. If it was something you did then you have to just deal with it and not make the same mistake again. If it was something she did like desert me for another person and I knew in my heart that I had been faithful and all the other things required for a successful relationship,I would just write them off. I would be sad because I really would have cared for that person, even loved that person but at the same time I would have been thankful to find out sooner than later and go on with the rest of my life. I like Akon too and the song is right on but life goes on.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
30 Jun 10
I know that you cant force someone to be with you.....its really hard to get over it as this is the very first time i loved someone and Damn this is nothing but nasty.dont know as why she hates me...i never tried to trap her i was being nice to her than anyone else on this earth yet of no use...nothing comes to the rescue...those sweet rants from the woods keep on hurting me :( and i hear them like a dumb statue grrrrrhhhh...why cant i hate her atleast for a second
@kirbywon (19)
• United States
8 Jun 10
someone did just leave me a couple days ago. we have still been talking but i am still staying in bed on my computer all day. haha and ill check out that song
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
8 Jun 10
Welcome to mylot Kirbywon Thank you for making me laugh ----it does show how much you loved them
8 Jun 10
I'm afraid that I would probably not respond well to this at all - in fact, I would probably go utterly inane and deliberately cause all kinds of problems for everyone around me and be a general nuisance. And I guess I'd boil a few bunnies - no really, I really don't take rejection, or desertion, well. At all.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
23 Jun 10
Welcome to Mylot i think humans should go around with positive thoughts than to negative all the time.being positive would help you lead a better life than the past.hope every thing is fine with you---you seem to be depressed