There are only two persons who have no rpoblems in this world
By vijayanths
@vijayanths (7877)
India
June 9, 2010 11:45am CST
One is yet to be born and the other one is dead.
Happiness in life is not absence of problems. It is facing them, living with them and finding the best solutions for them.
Let us hope for the best while be ready and willing to accept the worst.
And that is life, is n't it?
Happiness in life is not absence of problems. It is facing them, living with them and finding the best solutions for them.
Let us hope for the best while be ready and willing to accept the worst.
And that is life, is n't it?4 people like this
16 responses
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
9 Jun 10
Can't I be struck with happiness vandana? Of course I am a fun loving person basically. If you talk with me in person for 1 hour, I guarantee you will be laughing for at least 60 minutes.



@vijayanths (7877)
• India
9 Jun 10
Even if I am going die after 10 minutes I can laugh with me friends. I can make them laugh as well. I always want to laugh and make others laugh.




@vijayanths (7877)
• India
10 Jun 10
that is the brave attitude. No wonder you chose superman avatar. I agree with you hopefulman,
@1hopefulman (45111)
• Canada
10 Jun 10
Yes, I am very much like Superman. I am strong in mane ways but always have to be careful with kryptonite. 

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@1hopefulman (45111)
• Canada
10 Jun 10
Better to deal with the problems and enjoy life, come what may.

@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
9 Jun 10
hello dear anna,
Nyayy..
nice hit my dear brother.
Of course,life is not life without problem/s.
It gives life excitement and spicies.
I don't face problem,i let the problem face me either
.
And i don't think for solution when i knew there's no way to solve the problem.
Well,well, my dear ,i don't bother myself for problems.
I enjoy each day that pass and,feel each ticking of the clock.
nice hit my dear brother.
Of course,life is not life without problem/s.
It gives life excitement and spicies.
I don't face problem,i let the problem face me either
.
And i don't think for solution when i knew there's no way to solve the problem.
Well,well, my dear ,i don't bother myself for problems.
I enjoy each day that pass and,feel each ticking of the clock.@vijayanths (7877)
• India
9 Jun 10
You are a natural positive person dear. You are a blessed person. You don't need any one to advice you/ help you to solve your problems. I love your attitude dear jai.


@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
9 Jun 10
thanks dear brother,
life is too short to waste time for problems,while,there's lot of things to do worth the time.

@busybee10 (3186)
• India
9 Jun 10
U R right - I appreciate your positive attitude towards life. That is correct - but everyone cannot accept that because problems vary from person to person this is the wonder of the Creator.Have you thought this at any time.
Your suggesting to be with the ups and downs of life is not that easy - practically that needs lots of experience in the process of our present life,because wherever you move is totally negative.
Any how good attempt.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
9 Jun 10
It is true busybee, it is easy to preach but to practice it is not that easy. But you need to think you are brave if you want to become brave and many thing are like that.
@busybee10 (3186)
• India
9 Jun 10
Yes,you think you are brave but here too the circumstances should coopetrative only then the real strength is experienced.So to think you are brave you should have the real guts..... to face the challenges.
For this you need a strong will.
You can do wonders if you have a strong will - but it needs lot of experience to gain that.

@vijayanths (7877)
• India
10 Jun 10
Hi, jotomy, glad you liked this discussion and thanks for your nice response.

@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
10 Jun 10
Hi Jotomy: Even the richest people in the world, the ones that you think they have everything and they should be totally happy they have their own little problems, for example, some situations that we, as humans, can't control, as a bad medical situation, or emotional problems, etc. But just as we mention, instead of expecting a life with no problems we should work to make it better. Thanks for your answer. Have a nice day.
ALVARO.

@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
10 Jun 10
I couldn't have agreed with you more vijayanths!
Life is no bed of roses. It's better to have tried than never. Knowing you have done your best makes things more bearable. I would keep looking for the silver line when skies are dark.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
10 Jun 10
Yeah, tomitomi, you are absolutely right. I liked your words 'I would keep looking for the silver line when skies are dark"
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@TexLadyPj (1328)
• United States
9 Jun 10
Herro vijayanths
I believe that does have problems. I concur that it is the way we handle the problems that impacts our happiness or distress. I personally believe that God is my strength.
Prosperous mylotting
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
9 Jun 10
Hi, TexladyPj we definitely need God's strength to come out of the problems easily and quickly. Without His grace nothing is possible in this world and this is my belief.
@sudiptacallingu (10879)
• India
10 Jun 10
I don’t think you are correct…people who have found spirituality and have renounced worldly pleasures in the pursuit of the ultimate truth, are always happy coz they are happy without any material reason…they are happy as they are in sync with their own self and nature. Its only we who are embroiled in family life, that happiness and sadness have meaning in relation to our material possessions. Even then we can try and be happy if only we can find contentment in whatever we have and never compare ourselves to others.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
10 Jun 10
hi, sudiptacallingu only a few people can live spiritual kind of life. Yes, we can learn to live with what we have and that is the secret of happiness.

@vijayanths (7877)
• India
10 Jun 10
very true Pose, life is constant learning. You can learn from good and bad. The process of learning should never stop till the end.

@srganesh (6339)
• India
10 Jun 10
Life is full of problems and everybody has to face it without choice.Whether they succeed in solving them or not the question but how they remain mentally facing all those challenges counts.One has to be patient in solving all the puzzles given to him,not to win but enjoying the participation.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
10 Jun 10
Yes, srganesh every one is having problems, some may have financial problems some may have health issues or whatever. We need to face them and
cope with them.
cope with them. @silvercoin (2101)
• Lithuania
9 Jun 10
I was wondering who are these two lucky people!You made me laugh.Thanks God, I'm not one of them because I really like my life as it is now.Yes, a problem can be an opportunity, a chance, a new twist, and finally, we grew stronger and wiser by solving problems and not running from them.Some problems do exist only in our minds.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
9 Jun 10
hi, silvercoin, nice to note you liked the post and enjoyed it. Yeah who wants to be one among them??
In that case I would rather have problems. As you rightly said, we learn a lot from our problems, it makes us stronger and wiser.Most of the problems will not be that serious when we work on them.
In that case I would rather have problems. As you rightly said, we learn a lot from our problems, it makes us stronger and wiser.Most of the problems will not be that serious when we work on them. @starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
10 Jun 10
Hi vija yanths: I agree with you. And the worst part is that people lose their time complaining for their lives and the big problems they have instead of doing something to change these negative things. I think there's no perfect life. We're here in this world to do something to change it in a positive way, to hel ourselves but also our brothers in need. I agree with your statement but you forgot to mention "and work to make this world a better place". Thanks for asking us this question. Have a nice day.
ALVARO.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
10 Jun 10
hi, starsailorover thanks for the addition in the original discussion. "work to make this world a better place", this is a good one, I liked it.

@rushikm (93)
• India
9 Jun 10
Dear, i like to face problems and there is some importance of it.If you get only happiness in life you will bag for some sadness,The creator of this world is a thing that have thought everything.Think about it, if you got only hot environment you will want cool. If you got cool, you will want some hot. So as someone said " both side of a coin is necessary " We need everything to be felt before we die and its necessary to complete your life.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
9 Jun 10
yes we have a proverb here in my area that we will realize the importance of shadow of a tree only when you walk in the hot Sun..
We need nights to enjoy bright days. great response from you rushikm, 

@k2r3ncute (97)
• Philippines
11 Jun 10
yes of course..just like the saying that goes..like don't wish for the rain to stop but bring a strong umbrella..
@sudiptacallingu (10879)
• India
10 Jun 10
I don’t think you are correct…people who have found spirituality and have renounced worldly pleasures in the pursuit of the ultimate truth, are always happy coz they are happy without any material reason…they are happy as they are in sync with their own self and nature. Its only we who are embroiled in family life, that happiness and sadness have meaning in relation to our material possessions. Even then we can try and be happy if only we can find contentment in whatever we have and never compare ourselves to others.
@goodfundadvisor (671)
• India
12 Jun 10
So true. So true.
You should have been a philosopher. You are bang on target, hitting the nail on its head.
Happiness is reward of doing your job, come rain or shine. Ultimately you will be rewarded, it may be now or next year, but do your job and you will be blessed with happiness.
True, problems are there, but they are not insurmountable.
Face it boldly and you will come up trumps.













