too much love will kill you

@elleb0418 (1107)
Philippines
June 14, 2010 1:02pm CST
We heard some stories that because of love, a man shot himself, a woman hang himself and someone get suicide all of this because of the world love. I do agree that sometimes if someone can't handle the situation it will really lead you there..to kill yourself.But it is a solution?for me no,it's a sign of being coward.All I have to say it don't expect too much in terms of love,everything change and we have to admit it.:):)
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@natnickeep (2336)
• United States
14 Jun 10
I wouldn't say because of love. It's because of LOSS. Some people become to attached to things. Nothing in this world last forever. You have to love what you have..love what you loose and just go on with life. These people were blindly living, thinking love lasts forever with some person..but it doesn't , it can't nothing can last forever. Attachment is putting your self at risk for loss. Some people just can't handle it.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
14 Jun 10
Yes thats true,when your too much attached to something when its gone,the first thing that will come out in the mind is to end life too.Maybe the best thing to cope it up is acceptance and unconditional love.
• United States
14 Jun 10
i 'd have to agree it's the loss that's tragic.
• Philippines
14 Jun 10
Yes, that's probably right. It's the loss that's tragic. We have to accept every loss anyway.
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
16 Jun 10
I think that it doesn't necessarily have to be literal. My cousin's so in love with her husband though he's husband doesn't really show enough care to his wife. My cousin is suffering from the cirrhosis of the liver. She sacrifice so much but her husband doesn't show any concern. We found out that my cousin's liver is no longer functioning. We're just waiting for the right time comes.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
19 Jun 10
Sorry to hear about it.They say that if we show too much love to someone we gave them idea that they will ignore us.Maybe because we are spoiling that someone and in his mind,whatever he will do still the one who loves him,will love him and can't live w/out him.So sad I hope the husband will realized how his wife love him.
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
22 Jun 10
We all hope that the my cousin's husband will change for the better before it's too late. We're just waiting for miracles actually. We're having a very tough time in dealing with her husband because she's defending her husband. I think that's the reason why her husband tends to be abusive.
@Sandra1952 (6047)
• Spain
19 Jun 10
Hello, Elleb. 's not love that kills, it's obssession and weakness. Love is wonderful, but some people have a warped view of it, and lose all rationality. Nothing in this world is worth killing yourself for - life is too precious.
• India
18 Jun 10
Hello welcome to mylot Some people become too imotional, and can do any thing on the spur of the moment, behave crazy.. Thanks for sharing. Welcome always. Cheers. Professor
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
19 Jun 10
Yes,too many people are emotional that's why they cant handle the situation they are facing. Happy Fathers day...:)
@markleob (1902)
• Philippines
15 Jun 10
how did you come up with this topic? were you able to watch JOVIT in pilipinas got talent then make the title of his finale song as a topic to start here? well, the title of the song really means what you said... so sad.. so for those wo wanna love, dont give too much..
@markleob (1902)
• Philippines
19 Jun 10
yeah you are right there. so do you believe now that they have talent? hahah lol you said before that they are not that talented...
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
19 Jun 10
I did watch Jovit,he sings this song very well.Yes the title of the song is sad, that,s why sometimes we can really think that when in terms of love we must try to limit ourselves, because it will bring tragic situations when one cannot handle it.