Any one of the special traits....................

@dpk262006 (58679)
Delhi, India
June 16, 2010 6:13am CST
Hi friends, in your opinion, are there some traits, which are peculiar to women, I mean the traits which you would normally not find in men. Would like you to list out any one of the traits, which is found mostly in women. Thanks for your responses in advance.
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Bala
@balasri (26537)
• India
16 Jun 10
They do not look what they really are and capable of.Very deceptive.That one thing I can say for sure.Contrary to the belief that they are gentle they are very tough and can take the hardest decisions very cool.That is one special trait I know about this women.
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Bala
@balasri (26537)
• India
17 Jun 10
I always relate a woman to the jungle queen the lioness who is so brave and strong ,hunts and feeds the family though she is small in size and weaker than her male counterpart.
kalav56
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
16 Jun 10
Very true! But GOd has made them to be survivors and this is the cause for this[the tougness I mean]
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dpk262006
@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
17 Jun 10
Hi Bala! They are deceptive to an extent, I agree with you Bala. They are tough to handle........lol! Thanks for your observations Bala.
Jane
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
16 Jun 10
hello dpk, I think one of the great traits that a woman possess aside from "motherhood" is,being martyr. Woman sacrifice herself more than a man can think of. It is mostly the woman who most of the sacrifices in order to save any relationship that she is involved with. A woman can be tough emotionally,yet you can never see her surrender or hear her complain,as long as she can manage to hide her emotions. She's always good in everything ,giving her best,forgetting herself. And,that makes a woman special,esp in the name of love. have a good day always
dpk262006
@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
17 Jun 10
Hi Jai! I won't dispute about your the trait of 'sacrifice' which you have mentioned. Many a times women sacrifice more than men in their lives. Many a times, a woman lives for her family/parents/spouse/children and that is one of the greatest sacrifice. One of the best responses so far. dpk PS - Pl. check your BR.
dpk262006
@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
21 Jun 10
I said - yours is one of the best responses.
Jane
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
17 Jun 10
Thanks for giving me the BR,but i can't see it . And,i am proud being a woman myself
kalav56
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
16 Jun 10
The first and foremost trait that came to my mind is that they are very very talkative.THere may be exceptions to the rule but research has proven that a woman talks much more than a man. They are likely to be very secretive . THey would be very virulent when spurned--"Hell hath no fury as a woman scorned"[I forget the poet]
dpk262006
@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
17 Jun 10
Kala! You made me laugh by your comments, many months ago (may be two years ago), I started a post 'girls are more talkative' and now you are 'confirming' the same. I do not subscribed to your second observation, instead many women will tell a secret to all and sundry, they just cannot hide it. They could be virulent, I agree with you. Thanks for joining and sharing your observations about women.
buchi_bulla
@Buchi_bulla (8298)
• India
16 Jun 10
There is too much ego in a man which is not found in a woman. A woman will accept her mistakes whereas a man will always try to justify his mistakes.
dpk262006
@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
17 Jun 10
Buchi! Is it so? Will you support your contention with some practical incidents? I asked you this question, because I have different experiences regarding accepting mistakes by woman.
dpk262006
@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
21 Jun 10
Buchi! I will have to but agree with you that after marriage, when a girl comes in a new home, as a wife, she makes lots of adjustments and perhaps, a man may not be able to adjust like a woman does. However, accepting one's mistake is not directly related with making adjustments in a new home, I believe. It will depend upon from person to person.
buchi_bulla
@Buchi_bulla (8298)
• India
18 Jun 10
Hai Dpk, there will be exceptions always. But in general men are egoistic and try to support their version by hook or crook. Women are adjustable. By the fact that women come to husband's house after marriage, leaving their near and dear ones, house and place itself is an example that women are adjustable. Do you know how much it requires for the lady to adjust for new surroundings, people and customs? I do not think men can adjust so much by going to another house. This is done by surrendering the ego by women, whereas men cannot do that. The same ego reflects in accepting the mistake. This is what we generally come across in the society. But there are men who do not stand an example for this theory. I salute them.
kiran8
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
17 Jun 10
Hi Deepak, I would day that we women tend to be very emotional in our approach to any matter at hand.This can cause problems in some situations.The other thing is our love for jewelery.I am not too keen on it , but I do like to see and admire jewelery and sarees.I am sure men wouldn't be interested in them lol- have a nice day deepak and all the best
dpk262006
@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
27 Jun 10
Do you mean to say that women are more emotional than men?
JenInTN
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
19 Jun 10
I think that men and women have much the same traits but the differences arise because they exhibit them in different ways and to different degrees. Women tend to be a bit more open with their emotions than men but I think it is because men see emotion as a weakness while women accept them as part of who they are.
dpk262006
@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
27 Jun 10
You mean to say that women are more emotional than women and they often keep expressing the same?
sarahruthbeth22
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
16 Jun 10
No, not really. The only thing you can say about All women are that they are women. I am a male chauvinist but I do agree with the feminists on this point, there shouldn't be any set roles that Only women can do an men can not.The only thing I see that some women can do that men can not is give birth. And not All women can do that! People are people. Everyone's different.
dpk262006
@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
17 Jun 10
Hi Sarah! I agree with you that both a man and a woman can fit into any role and most of the traits are common between the two genders. Thanks for your interesting views.
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goddessjes
@goddessjes (788)
• Philippines
16 Jun 10
there is one trait in women that is not really in men. i don't know the term for it, but here it goes. women, when they dream that their men do something they don't like in the dream, give their guys the shrug. when they wake up, even if in reality the guys didn't do anything, they make them feel guilty. hahaha. and when their men ask what is wrong, they become all puzzly. like the guy has to sort out what has he done in the dream.
dpk262006
@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
17 Jun 10
Do you mean to say that many of women have this trait that they shrug their partner and make them feel guilty? Are you the one, who do it? Thanks for joining us.