If a friend cheat you should you forgive him or her???

India
June 28, 2010 10:41am CST
i am not sure...for few of my friends i have given them exceptions and allowed them to come back in my life but i am truly wary about them especially while sharing a secret or weakness
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• India
29 Jun 10
Hello friend welcome to mylot Well it depends upon who that friend is and what was the cheating, if it is a case of betrayl in love affair, never forgive him/her..for other matters give a chance, remember, to err is human, to forgive is god.. Thanks for sharing. Welcome always. Cheers. Professor
• India
29 Jun 10
Thanks Professor...maybe so...but i feel you can't forgive a friend who let out secrets etc...
@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
29 Jun 10
Trust is really a fragile thing and if your both shared it with a friend or some one you care so much it will be a treasure. But if time comes that one of you will break it and betrayed the other then trust will start to crumble. And it will take a very long time before you will learn to forget and forgive that person. Even if you take back the friendship something is already broken. You will always have trust issue with your friend even if she or he already ask your forgiveness and promised not to do it again. It is much better to start a new friendship than repairing an old one. There is also a tendency that same person will betray you again and.
@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
28 Jun 10
i would like to clarify your question was i my friend cheated on me like she having an affair with my husband?of course i cannot forgive her even we been friends for very long time i still cannot do to forgive her if that will happen it will takes time to heal the pain she cause me.
• India
29 Jun 10
wooops that's an extreme scenario....in that case forget years...NEVER